Arhi Lovers, read this, will also help in life!

A diplomatic peace is not yet the real peace. It is an essential step in the peace process leading towards a real peace - unknown Edited by community_drive - 12 years ago

i second u ! U have put it very correctly !

very well said Zoha 👏 

Right from the beginning I tried my best to stay diplomatic and be a peacemaker at the forum. When someone criticized a character and I disagreed, instead of  getting angry or bashing I made analytical posts and through logical reasoning i tried to convey my POV. 

I have always stated that I started watching IPK because I am a Sanaya fan but after watching the show I became a Barun fan. I am member of both their AT's. I also love ASR and KKG equally. 

I was the one to start the term TEAM ARHI on this forum. 

But then some people repeatedly bashed a certain character repeatedly, yes they were bashing posts, when I and some other members disagreed we were bashed too. 

Since we repeatedly commented on those threads we were tagged as 'teenage ASR droolers without sensitivity towards abuse' . 

Also there were debates about bringing another actor I had an opinion on that too so I commented in various posts. 

I do not doubt Barun's talent or popularity but I do think comparing Barun / ASR with another actor / character is not in the best interest of the show or the forum. 

I ignored once, twice, thrice but then I reacted. I am only human.😳

I may have reacted strongly but my heart was at the right place.

Last 48 hours have been very unpleasant at the forum. It got the best of me and I realized that the forum and its many fights were hampering my studies and health. 

So I made the announcement that I won't make my own posts for a while. I am not quitting the forum. I just want some normalcy in life. I only want to interact with like minded people for a while and not get into fights.

I also think that lately too many newbies, MID are coming to the forum and taking advantage of the situation. Our forum was a peaceful place. We were a happy bunch. I am angry because I feel somewhere we are responsible for it. 

If I restrict myself I would not get into unnecessary debates. But I am in favor of all the positivity. 😊

From now on I will try to ignore and just report such threads. 

THanks for all your efforts to bring peace to the forum.👍🏼

Edited by incandescent - 12 years ago

love ur post dear

a good and useful post as always 😊 Edited by loveydovey - 12 years ago

A much needed post.People should understand that we come here for entertainment,not to pull someone into a fight intentionally.It is also needed for them to express their views naturally,not in offensive useless sarcasm just to prove the point 'oh m soo intelligent'.😆
Thanx for the post.🤗

i hope all forum members grow up soon and realize this is just a fictional show and fictional characters and NOT our lives for heaven's sake. thumbs up for your post hon 👍🏼

Zoha, I love you for what you have written,its absolutely needed at this time. I love this forum and members of this forum. Barun and Sanaya and the whole cast and crew of IPKKND absolutely deserve all the appreciation for the hard work they do day in and day out for giving us such a wonderful show that we love and are passionate about.

This content was originally posted by: incandescent

very well said Zoha 👏 

Right from the beginning I tried my best to stay diplomatic and be a peacemaker at the forum. When someone criticized a character and I disagreed, instead of  getting angry or bashing I made analytical posts and through logical reasoning i tried to convey my POV. 

I have always stated that I started watching IPK because I am a Sanaya fan but after watching the show I became a Barun fan. I am member of both their AT's. I also love ASR and KKG equally. 

I was the one to start the term TEAM ARHI on this forum. 

But then some people repeatedly bashed a certain character repeatedly, yes they were bashing posts, when I and some other members disagreed we were bashed too. 

Since we repeatedly commented on those threads we were tagged as 'teenage ASR droolers without sensitivity towards abuse' . 

Also there were debates about bringing another actor I had an opinion on that too so I commented in various posts. 

I do not doubt Barun's talent or popularity but I do think comparing Barun / ASR with another actor / character is not in the best interest of the show or the forum. 

I ignored once, twice, thrice but then I reacted. I am only human.😳

I may have reacted strongly but my heart was at the right place.

Last 48 hours have been very unpleasant at the forum. It got the best of me and I realized that the forum and its many fights were hampering my studies and health. 

So I made the announcement that I won't make my own posts for a while. I am not quitting the forum. I just want some normalcy in life. I only want to interact with like minded people for a while and not get into fights.

I also think that lately too many newbies, MID are coming to the forum and taking advantage of the situation. Our forum was a peaceful place. We were a happy bunch. I am angry because I feel somewhere we are responsible for it. 

If I restrict myself I would not get into unnecessary debates. But I am in favor of all the positivity. 😊

From now on I will try to ignore and just report such threads. 

THanks for all your efforts to bring peace to the forum.👍🏼

agree with you di!  👍🏼 i am sure rather than getting into a fictional show this much that people will take it as a way of entertainment! arnav and khushi are just the fictional character! why ruining our mood and peace of the forum! we can just enjoy the show! not liking it? quit it and swith to any other! thats why tv channels are right! need post! 😊 thanks for this🤗

last but not the least if anyone wants to leave let her/him![😊  i am saying it directly! because i am not such a kid who can leave a beautiful forum filled with amazing people just for two fictional character or a celeberaty cause they dont even know us! we are fans! we can like/dislike some character or actor! we should keep it to ourselves only! 😛 if not then at least we should respect others sentiment!

loved your post di🤗