Theiva and Shubba and others,
One thing I can't accept is TA's acting is going to help Charu being cured out of her psychoness. No doubt from Charu's POV, what TA did is wrong. But as on today, he can't ignore his commitment to T and he has no right to be harsh on T to get C cured. Neither is it the right way.
Coming to what is to be done for C being cured of psychoness. Suppose on the day TA got married to T, C told herself, 'OK! If one door closes, another big door will open for me. God has always good intent for me. I have love within me which I can radiate for another person' Saying that, if she went forward in life which is quite possible for her, as she is really talented. But she didn't and developed a psychoness and obsession to get TA. This point indicates TA is not responsible for C becoming a psycho and C became psycho of her own choice. This can be cured by a professional psychiatrist. A professional is able to do the needful because of a simple reason. He creates a safe space for you to tell your truth. If C told her truth, he won't judge her to be bad like a normal person. He believes there is a good reason for why she wants TA. And he also knows there are many ways to douse that desire. She could even be healed by VR, if VR doesn't judge her and does the needful being totally kind and compassionate to her and with a strong understanding diverts her from her desire showing other talents within. But if someone yells at her listening to what she says, things are lost. Interestingly, C as on today finds safe space to tell her desire with her romantic partner. That is one reason everyone makes romantic partners and for unhealthy persons, there will be unhealthy romantic partners likr in the case of C. But her romantic partner GW is a very selfish person. In fact what I would say is parents must never judge theiir son or daughter but always have unconditional love for them.
What I will say is, if TA were forced to act, Gokul is a fake psychiatrist. If TA;s behavior is authentic towards T, I will say T can forgive him and accept him. But if TA acted which has caused a lot of pain to T, T has to ditch him for good.
Edited by maha2us - 12 years ago