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the main problem with rajshri is that she's making decisions on behalf of her daughter without even asking her.. :| n this is not done.. especially when in the past she's done that n akshara has suffered just because of her..

mothers do have a right on their children but then - it should always be to an extent.. doesn't vishambhar love akshara? but he said it - akshara jo chahegi vahi hoga.. why can't rajshri be like that? akshara ghar aaegi, aaegi aur aaegi.. why? akshara ki marzi.. use jaana hoga vo jaaegi.. use nahi jana hoga - vo nahi jaaegi.. why are u forcing your will on her?
 
akshara maayke kyon nahi jaana chahti - it's a different issue altogther.. but agar vo nahi jaana chahti, then why are u forcing her? let her be na.. there's no point interfering in her life soo much.. :x
t totally agree with u kumudi.rj interference in ak life in last ak suffer lot. ya every mother have r8 to take decision for her child bt usme bachoko bhi khushi ke bare me sochna chahiye.my mom also say me that rj interference in ak life its to much.after marriage har ladki pe pehla hak uske MIL's ka hota hey after mayake wale bt rj  ko herbat me apni tang adani jaru ri hey...
Dont think so
 
I dont belive in all this MIL ka zyada hak hota hai ect.
 
I think Parents have full right on their children than MIL and FIL. At least the contry I live in. there is more right on mother to their child than MIL.
 
 
sara i m nt saying ki mother ko r8 nahi hota bt its some limit.i know u remenber sneha track last that tme rj ke wajese kitna ak ko suffer karna pada tha...n my mom also say me after marriage ek ladki ke har discussion pe uske MIL's ka hak hota hey...after parents
sush indian societity should really change their way of thinking.
 
humesha mother and father ka haqq uki bacho pe zyada hota hai whether it is daughter or son. doesnt matter. Mother in law ek ladki ko apana womb mein nahi rakhti ek mother in law ek ladki ko nahi raise karti it is always a mother who do that. plus there is no limit for a mother to worry or love and the other thing is if akshara suffer one time because of RJ then RJ suffer alot of times for AK. she suffrerd in pain for AK while she was delivering her. From school to her marriage she suffer and to me natik was more responsible for akshara suffering in sneha track.
i agree with u that rj suffer lot for ak in delivery tme or her journey form school to marrige.bt now jo situation he usme ak kese apne nk or MIL's ko chodek ja sakti hey.rj ko to khush hona chahiye ki uske beti is waqt apne MIL's ke sath rehna chahti hey...ya rj care for her.ager ak apne old home hoti or sabkuch thik hota to shayad wo kuch dino ke liye jati...bt now...

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You all have diffrent views than me.
 
dont know about india but most of the ways indian society have is wrong such as killing a girl. or such as gaving more importance to a girl than boy. not gaving property to girl all to boy ect.
 
this all is wrong so I think Sasural should understand that a her own mother has more right over their daughter than sasural.
 
Mother is always more important than all relationships.
 
It is not on how long a marriage last.. I know a Girl has to adjust between MIL and hibby and mayaka. but akshara has to gave importance to her mother also not only sasural

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sara i know very well indian society thought . me bhi usi society me rehti hu...ager ek beti shadi ke bad apne MIL's ki jaghe apne mayake walona ka sath dey to ye kehte hey ager shadike bad bhi apne mayke rehnatha ya unka sath dena tha to shadi kyu ki...in varsha GB tme jab nandini ne rj ka insult kiya tak ak ko bolna chahiyeta.that time ak is wrong?bt nt always...

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Rajshri as a mother is justified in her place...if anyone is selfish here , it's gayitri..imagine, she's telling naitik "humara purana ghar hota toh hum bahu ko kabhi nahi jaane dete"..Dead mother daughter pyar, bonding ma ka dhyan rakhna is BS in her POV , it's gayitri's majboori hence she's asking akshara to leave...whichever epi i saw, gayitri told rajshri that she will send akshara, did rajshri request her ? even if she requested, it's some kind of parampara which should be followed...now will gayitri not expect rashmi to stay with them when she gets pregnant? she toh should not spend a day with singhania's coz she's so well off !!!! why would rama behen send her to maayka, whether S's r rich or poor? 

As for Akshara being a good DIL, wife or daughter, she cannot be perfect everything at a given time...with the endless excuses, she should sometimes think of rajshri also...it's her wish to stay with her hubby and mil  , so it's okay...ma ka haque, baap ka haque, increase or decrease depends on ones thinking...do it the way u like it & face the consequences, good or bad...in reality and in YR also, saas is NEVER happy with the mention of bahu's ma...NEVER ! that doesn't mean girl should break all ties with maayka to please her saas...Maheshwari's have been extremely kind and caring with S's, if S's keep on saying ke both MA's r imp, why not implement it practically? Yes, Rajshri was hesitant to send Varsha to her maayka but she mended her mistake and let Varsha's mom stay with them a lot of times which hardly any saas does n is happy about ! 

yest. my MIL was asking me what do you children call "interference"..if we r so experienced n we give a suggestion for your betterment, is that interference for you all? the problem might exist in every family..it's not interference but diff. pov's which will never change..and it's not imp. that if one is right then other is wrong...it's difficult to take everyone along and keep yourself happy...we argue abt akshara's choices bec. it'a natural to feel happy going to maayka ..it's for a limited period but it's good, we all want a break..for now, for naitik's sake i dun want akshara to go to her maayka...Wink

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yest. my MIL was asking me what do you children call "interference"..if we r so experienced n we give a suggestion for your betterment, is that interference for you all? the problem might exist in every family..it's not interference but diff. pov's which will never change..and it's not imp. that if one is right then other is wrong...it's difficult to take everyone along and keep yourself happy...we argue abt akshara's choices bec. it'a natural to feel happy going to maayka ..it's for a limited period but it's good, we all want a break..for now, for naitik's sake i dun want akshara to go to her maayka...Wink


Big smile  Big smile Big smile same here Charu...same wajah se i don;t want Akshara to go...Wink LOL
who is being selfish n who has the right i don't want to indulge on that...but here i am simply being selfish as i want Naitik n Akshara to be together...thats it...all rights n duties comes later ( at least for me) LOL
and raha sawal Gayatri ka...she is the biggest mean person in YR...she can't share that crown with anyone else...most selfish n mean lady..

 

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