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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 3:59pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahwishsolanki

Originally posted by Saraella

Guys you all are thinking about naksh here but do not bring natik here. it is a discussion about mother daughter.
 
And To me Rajashri never ever intefere in her daughter life. she always worry about her because she love her thats it. she always think about her sasural first. she never try to keep akshara on her side. So RJ intefereing on akshara life is useless to me.
 
Now lets come to spoling akshara life. well RJ is not spoling akshara life. she is just thinking best for her. this is the fact that Akshara cannot get the requirememnts a pregant lady needs in her smaall house.
 
and third thing she always call akshara on festivals when a daughter needs to go to their house. but akshara dont come to her mayaka for the sake of her sasural. why?
 
nandini and her sasural insulted her mayaka so much but akshara never utter a word. why? doesnt she care about the self respect of her mayaka.
 
I hate when girls forget their mayaka for sake of sasural and that is wht akshara is doing. not from now but from two years.
 
I know after marraiage not only a girl but a boy life change too. everyone life change but it does not mean a girl will forgret her mayaka for sasural. it is wrong.
 
As far as Varsha is concerned so in that way RJ is best saas. she always let varsha do what she wants. let her study let her go to honeymoon movies everything even take care of anaya all the time and just because varsha dont go to her mayaka all the time but she let her mom stay in their house. she always take of varsha in her all needs.
 
So calling her selfish as mother is wrong because mothers are always selfish and she is like all mothers who want to spend some time with their kids.
 
and caalling her as abad MIL; it is wrong because se consider varsha as her daughter.

i second ur thought i wanted to write the same things which u wrote...actually nobody in this forum hav actually understood wat u were tryin to say...but i cent percent agree wid u...
thanks dear.
 
we all agree with each other.

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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 5:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Saraella

Originally posted by mahwishsolanki

Originally posted by Saraella

Guys you all are thinking about naksh here but do not bring natik here. it is a discussion about mother daughter.
 
And To me Rajashri never ever intefere in her daughter life. she always worry about her because she love her thats it. she always think about her sasural first. she never try to keep akshara on her side. So RJ intefereing on akshara life is useless to me.
 
Now lets come to spoling akshara life. well RJ is not spoling akshara life. she is just thinking best for her. this is the fact that Akshara cannot get the requirememnts a pregant lady needs in her smaall house.
 
and third thing she always call akshara on festivals when a daughter needs to go to their house. but akshara dont come to her mayaka for the sake of her sasural. why?
 
nandini and her sasural insulted her mayaka so much but akshara never utter a word. why? doesnt she care about the self respect of her mayaka.
 
I hate when girls forget their mayaka for sake of sasural and that is wht akshara is doing. not from now but from two years.
 
I know after marraiage not only a girl but a boy life change too. everyone life change but it does not mean a girl will forgret her mayaka for sasural. it is wrong.
 
As far as Varsha is concerned so in that way RJ is best saas. she always let varsha do what she wants. let her study let her go to honeymoon movies everything even take care of anaya all the time and just because varsha dont go to her mayaka all the time but she let her mom stay in their house. she always take of varsha in her all needs.
 
So calling her selfish as mother is wrong because mothers are always selfish and she is like all mothers who want to spend some time with their kids.
 
and caalling her as abad MIL; it is wrong because se consider varsha as her daughter.

i second ur thought i wanted to write the same things which u wrote...actually nobody in this forum hav actually understood wat u were tryin to say...but i cent percent agree wid u...
thanks dear.
 
we all agree with each other.


offcourse we do...n ur welcome

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 8:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by moonlight08

Originally posted by sanw

Good topic and very good and healthy discussion going on
 
but I think the situation in which akshara is ------is making her take some decisions----------and rather than that-----------its RJ and G3 who are deciding on what has to be done-------------I dont say akshi is not a good daughter or a good DIL or wife-----------she is all of it------and infact RJ is right in thinking even she can do some seva by bringing akshi to her place-------that's what each mother thinks----------and  G3 is also a good MIL becoz she wants akshi's comfort which she thinks she cant give becoz of situation---------
so no one is worng------its akshi's wish (or will be her wish becoz as of now we havent reached that stage yet) to stay with her husband becoz eomtional support of a husband is very necessary during the last few months of pregnancy (my experience)
 
& till now akshi hasnt been consulted about whether she would like to stay in her mayka or not----------but the weird behaviour of BM and G3 has made her suspicious-------had that siutation not been there-----I think akshi would have even agreed on staying a few days at her mayka-------------but now that she has seen thier behaviour----she wouldnt agree
 
and 2ndly----she will not agree becoz being a good DIL she will want to give the family all the support -------and a feel good quotient too to the singhanias-----------becoz she doesnt want them to feel bad about the situation they r in by going to her mayka
woww di..Big smile
u have said something on the same lines as i wanted to.. just that main topic ke beech mein behek gayi..LOL
yeah, akshara is not going because she knows ki gayatri isn't sending her out of her will - but because they have limited resources.. and that's the prime reason why akshara does not want to go..
vaise toh i don;t understand - kaisi ladki hai ye? apne maayke nahi jana chahti - but coming to think of naitik, if this is what takes for them to stay together, bhayi tum beti buri hi thik ho..WinkLOL
akshi and all (I mean G3 and RJ) are swarthi
each one has their reason to go or not or to send
Chalne doWinkLOL

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 3:06pm | IP Logged

Yeah this is true Gayatri is selfish. actually she is really really mean. she dont care about akshara but only the baby.

 
 
for RJ Well as I said all mothers are selfish. But what RJ is doing is better for only akshara. she loves aksshara and she is her daughter. she wants to speand some time with her
 
I dont think RJ is selfish at all
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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:16pm | IP Logged
Rj is thinking about her daughter which is right there is nothing wrong with that...but from akshara's point of view if she leaves her hubby and sasural at a time like this when they are in trouble then what kind of wife is she...definilty not a good one...at a time like this she needs to be with her hubby and be his support...they have to tackle it together...how many pregnant women live in house that small...have to do their own work...akshara doesnt have to do anything...they give her a room and do everything to make her comfortable...i dont see any problem that akshara might be facing...plus what if natik never becomes rich again and they have to live there like that for years...would RJ ask akshara to divorce him...i am sorry guys i am not saying that RJ is  bad mother or anything but if akshara leaves her family at a time of crisis like that then it is wrong...she is their only hope and happiness right now...plus it is important for natik to be with her so they can bond more and he can bond with his baby too...

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 6:31pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Luv4games

Rj is thinking about her daughter which is right there is nothing wrong with that...but from akshara's point of view if she leaves her hubby and sasural at a time like this when they are in trouble then what kind of wife is she...definilty not a good one...at a time like this she needs to be with her hubby and be his support...they have to tackle it together...how many pregnant women live in house that small...have to do their own work...akshara doesnt have to do anything...they give her a room and do everything to make her comfortable...i dont see any problem that akshara might be facing...plus what if natik never becomes rich again and they have to live there like that for years...would RJ ask akshara to divorce him...i am sorry guys i am not saying that RJ is  bad mother or anything but if akshara leaves her family at a time of crisis like that then it is wrong...she is their only hope and happiness right now...plus it is important for natik to be with her so they can bond more and he can bond with his baby too...
I agree with you
 
But I am not talking about now. akshara is doing it from two years. she always put her mayaka in side becuase of her sasural. she dont go to her mother even on festivials. she dont care about her mayaka

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 7:14pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Saraella

Originally posted by Luv4games

Rj is thinking about her daughter which is right there is nothing wrong with that...but from akshara's point of view if she leaves her hubby and sasural at a time like this when they are in trouble then what kind of wife is she...definilty not a good one...at a time like this she needs to be with her hubby and be his support...they have to tackle it together...how many pregnant women live in house that small...have to do their own work...akshara doesnt have to do anything...they give her a room and do everything to make her comfortable...i dont see any problem that akshara might be facing...plus what if natik never becomes rich again and they have to live there like that for years...would RJ ask akshara to divorce him...i am sorry guys i am not saying that RJ is  bad mother or anything but if akshara leaves her family at a time of crisis like that then it is wrong...she is their only hope and happiness right now...plus it is important for natik to be with her so they can bond more and he can bond with his baby too...
I agree with you
 
But I am not talking about now. akshara is doing it from two years. she always put her mayaka in side becuase of her sasural. she dont go to her mother even on festivials. she dont care about her mayaka
sara in india after shaadi only sasuraal comes first rather maayka really every mom tells that sasuraal is ur house really saw so many girls dont have time or they go has a guest visit them and come back maayka is always there but girls life only revolve around her sasuraal after marriage 

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 7:35pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by kala_09

Originally posted by Saraella

Originally posted by Luv4games

Rj is thinking about her daughter which is right there is nothing wrong with that...but from akshara's point of view if she leaves her hubby and sasural at a time like this when they are in trouble then what kind of wife is she...definilty not a good one...at a time like this she needs to be with her hubby and be his support...they have to tackle it together...how many pregnant women live in house that small...have to do their own work...akshara doesnt have to do anything...they give her a room and do everything to make her comfortable...i dont see any problem that akshara might be facing...plus what if natik never becomes rich again and they have to live there like that for years...would RJ ask akshara to divorce him...i am sorry guys i am not saying that RJ is  bad mother or anything but if akshara leaves her family at a time of crisis like that then it is wrong...she is their only hope and happiness right now...plus it is important for natik to be with her so they can bond more and he can bond with his baby too...
I agree with you
 
But I am not talking about now. akshara is doing it from two years. she always put her mayaka in side becuase of her sasural. she dont go to her mother even on festivials. she dont care about her mayaka
sara in india after shaadi only sasuraal comes first rather maayka really every mom tells that sasuraal is ur house really saw so many girls dont have time or they go has a guest visit them and come back maayka is always there but girls life only revolve around her sasuraal after marriage 

I have putted all my points across.
 
India society have changed alot. Now girls have changed. now there is no such diffrence between girls and boys. Now people in india dont much belivee in these all things like sasural comes first mayaka dont. first of all
 
 
second thing is when a girl should go to her mayaka like some festivals and some occasions. akshara never went to her mayaka on those occasions or festivals either. Just to make her sasural happy. she ignore her mayaka compoletly.
 
this is wrong this is not right.

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