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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 8:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by akruz

I think the serial itself is very unrealistic...Manav sending tickets with her mother-in-law...How did he trust her..He could have sent it with his own father??? He knows Archana and Savita doesnt go along well..Secondly Archana believing that Manav wants divorce from her...How can she just assume, wont we atleast call our husband and see...Manav not calling her up for 18yrs...ohh thats too much...if they had shown this as "Pavitra Rishta" then how can someone be distanced frm his own soul for so long?? And Archana, is she a mother...she never even bothered to check whether her kids are fine or not...and what is the explanation...if something was wrong with Manav, i would have come to know about it...really???? In real life do we assume things and be distanced from our husband/wife for 18yrs not even trying to peek into what is happening in their lives...very unrealistic...Smile

ummm...why should Manav call her from Canada ? She does CASE on him so she can destroy his financial future , she gives her son to her mad sister and in his eyes he is supposedly DEAD , She refuses to fight for the children and shows an indifference to the fate of his kids but chooses to fight for chawl people , then NOT ONCE she bothers to find where he has gone even by contacting his sister Vandu ...simply FOR THE KIDS ???? And THIS is a MOTHER ???? She was a legally wedded mom who gave up her kids bcoz she wanted to be the suffering saint MEERA !  She was NOT an unwed mom like Shravani who had to make a choice for the ULTIMATE GOOD of her son ...him having a legitimate FAMILY and Legitimate STATUS , and Sachin being DEAD ! Poor Shravani was criticized and criticized as a HEARTLESS woman who gave her baby up ...WHY is Archana being GLORIFIED as a victim ?

Manav had the goodness to THINK of sending the woman who set out to PUT HIM IN JAIL by proving him fraudulent , a TICKET for the sake of HIS children...What tremendous LOVE for his children he had that he decided to take SUCH A WIFE back !

That was MORE THAN ENOUGH . Beyond this , if anyone feels he shud have CALLED UP Archana when in his eyes its SHE who refused to go to Canada with him , I totally DISAGREE .

I sincerely hope Manav understands his mother's POV when he sees how Archana has trained Poorvi to be miserable like her for life and how NORMAL and REFRESHINg his own kids r . I hope he sees his bank account and heaves a big sigh of relief that he was not in contact with Archana for 20 years .

Of course they r gonna be together and NONE of this will happen , but this woman needed a jolt and Im super glad CVS showed it . Let them use Savita , let them use Dharmesh , the truth is Archana destroyed her own marraige ...its SHE who needs to run after Manav and the kids , its SHE who needs to do the grovelling and its SHE who decides to change herself for the better instead of continuing the same stupidities like breaking childrens FDS for Manju .




Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 17 December 2011 at 8:26am

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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 6:19pm | IP Logged
i do agree with all of you...no im noit offended by any of ur posts because i like ur opinions and u all have really gud points...i do agree that archu should have trusted manav when he said he had nothing to do with the chawl getting demolished which was part of ajit n dharmeshes plan to ruin manav in which i do remember archu saying that dharmesh is planning sumthing but she never looked into what or tried to find out what but even though manav forgave her for that eventually i do agree that she made the BIGGEST mistake in giving varsha soham when her husband clearly told her not to trust her...thats what was the tip of the ice burg for their relationship...but i also do agree with the point that manav should never have sent savita to give the ticket let alone believe what she had to say about archu despite the fact that he knows for some reason savita hates archu...actually i dont even know if he knew that before because he was never around to witness their clashes...damodar is the only one whose clever to distinguish whose right n wrong...im suprised after all those yrs not even vandita told manav the truth about the money that broke savitas n archus relationship in the first place...but i still think manav being the man should be the one to call her at the end of the day he moved away n he still has her number :p...but my main point was that how can this rishta be pavitra when they have split for 18 yrs? is a pavitra rishta not meant to be till death do us part?
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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 7:20pm | IP Logged
[QUOTE=brainychild92]i don't think archana was wrong for filing a case against his company.. she had to save her maiyka.. its a tough decision but i know women who would make that choice.. but yes she was wrong for allowing varsha to be with soham!   as for seperation.. manav knows savita-archana don't get along too well and she's the one who was feeding negative info to him about archu so WHY would he send tickets with his mom? i don't agree that archana believed savita but its understandable.. a 

But why the HELL shud he call a woman who tried to financially ruin him and got his son killed ? What does financial condition have ANYTHING to do with this ? Why shud he even see this womans face who put case on him after eating his 70 lakhs for her mom ?And then hypocrivtically denounced that same money as something SINFUL and stood with people who wud not even spit on her face in a time of crisis ? WHERE r those chawl people now , why is she living in Karanjkar house and not in their rooms ? Why is she working , are they not feeding her free for SAVING THE CHAWL ? You guys r going on and on about WHY he sent tickets with Savita , has it struck anyone WHY did he even BOTHER to send tickets to an ungrateful woman like Archana ? SHUKAR KARO TICKKETS BHEJA , Thank god he sent tickets , which husband wud have ?  Any other husband wud  have taken each rupee from 70 lakhs BACK by saying I have 3 children to raise ! U manage ur own mom !


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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 12:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by koolsadhu1000

[QUOTE=brainychild92]i don't think archana was wrong for filing a case against his company.. she had to save her maiyka.. its a tough decision but i know women who would make that choice.. but yes she was wrong for allowing varsha to be with soham!   as for seperation.. manav knows savita-archana don't get along too well and she's the one who was feeding negative info to him about archu so WHY would he send tickets with his mom? i don't agree that archana believed savita but its understandable.. a 

But why the HELL shud he call a woman who tried to financially ruin him and got his son killed ? What does financial condition have ANYTHING to do with this ? Why shud he even see this womans face who put case on him after eating his 70 lakhs for her mom ?And then hypocrivtically denounced that same money as something SINFUL and stood with people who wud not even spit on her face in a time of crisis ? WHERE r those chawl people now , why is she living in Karanjkar house and not in their rooms ? Why is she working , are they not feeding her free for SAVING THE CHAWL ? You guys r going on and on about WHY he sent tickets with Savita , has it struck anyone WHY did he even BOTHER to send tickets to an ungrateful woman like Archana ? SHUKAR KARO TICKKETS BHEJA , Thank god he sent tickets , which husband wud have ?  Any other husband wud  have taken each rupee from 70 lakhs BACK by saying I have 3 children to raise ! U manage ur own mom !
Clap, Kools you know what baffles me? I can maybe understand people feeling sorry for Archu(EVEN THOUGH I DONT), just for the sake of feeling sorry for her and wishing PR was what it supposed to be Manav and Archana. 
But what I can't understand is how anyone could think Archana was right in taking Manav to court to save her Maiyka?????? Seriously, where is the logic in that? Archana labeled her husband in court as being Ambitious, that is saying that he is ONLY about MONEY equals a FRAUD, BETRAYER, EVIL ETC.ETC, Is that the same Man, she said she loves, TRUST, Knows he can do NO wrong(she USED to say that in the past)?  So what Happened Suddenly? She got AMNESIA?This is what Manav did Seven Rounds for, I don't remember him walking around alone?.  She does not even Know how to be a Mother!!! She probably finds it easy to be so called Mother to Poorvi, cause she is NOT her own.  And she is NOT even doing a great job there either, breaking FDs of the POORVI's Money for her family and subjecting her to the same Insults, that Manav was subjected to for Manju.  Why can't she ACT like a Mother to her own blood? Why can't she call for the sake of her children?  She does not even have to speak to Manav if she does not want!!!! Hurting Manav is one thing, but the twins DID NOT ask her to bring them into this world, they DO NOT deserve being conceived by her and THEN TURNING HER BACK ON THEM.  And Yes, she  could Have gotten his number from his sister Vandu. 

And I don't agree with Manav BOWING to Archana after what she did, what is this thing about him being a  MAN, so he should be the one to call? So, this is what womanhood is about? You throw dirt at your husband and he should FORCE you to believe in him and KEEP the marriage? Just cause he is the man and you are a "Saintly Woman."  Manav is made out of Steel? He does not have feelings? Archana is nothing like the other Leads in the other shows I have watched, those women stood by their husbands, they ACTED like LOVING wives and showed what Womanhood should be. Archana is a DIFFERENT character. 
I have BEEN waiting and STILL waiting for a more PLAUSIBLE defense of Archana's behaviour and WHY she DESERVES for Manav to even REMEMBER that he is married to her. 

NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE,

Just giving my 70 lakhs worth!!



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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 11:32am | IP Logged
but we dont even know if soham is dead they never found him...u know how typical indian serials r...they always seem to bring back the dead after every leap...i guarantee soham is alive n he will come back
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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 11:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashp88

but we dont even know if soham is dead they never found him...u know how typical indian serials r...they always seem to bring back the dead after every leap...i guarantee soham is alive n he will come back
 
If the body is not found than the person is not dead...They are alive...That is simple logic with these stupid serials..

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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 1:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashp88

but i also do agree with the point that manav should never have sent savita to give the ticket let alone believe what she had to say about archu despite the fact that he knows for some reason savita hates archu...

I respect your opinion, but how was Manav supposed to know not to get the tickets to Archana via Savita? He probably had thought that his mother was right because after everything Archu did to him like filing a case against him and giving Soham away to Varsha, and siding with the chawl people and not trusting him. After all that Archana did, he was going to have the impression that his mother was right and Archana didn't want to go with him.

actually i dont even know if he knew that before because he was never around to witness their clashes...

Agree on this point, he was very busy with his job that he didn't get to spend much time at home.

damodar is the only one whose clever to distinguish whose right n wrong...im suprised after all those yrs not even vandita told manav the truth about the money that broke savitas n archus relationship in the first place..

It wasn't necessarily the money that caused Savita to hate Archana. It was because Archu just kept on bringing her maika in her house, letting her mother and Varsha stay there without even asking Savita's permission, even Manav began to pay more attention to Sulo at that time and Savita had felt all by herself. Archana took Savita for granted by caring way too much about her maika.

.but i still think manav being the man should be the one to call her at the end of the day he moved away n he still has her number

Archana filed a case against Manav, when Manav warned her multiple times not to give Soham to Varsha and Archana kept insisting that Varsha has gotten all better and she is no longer obsessed with Soham, she was stubborn and gave Soham to Varsha and now Manav has lost a son only due to Archana's foolish decision. Agree that Varsha was very manipulative but Archu should have known what happened in the past and how Varsha had already once kidnapped Soham. After everything that happened, should Manav still call Archana, he thinks that Archana had no interest in coming to Canada as his mother told him she didn't want to come, he thinks Archu doesn't care about him neither Ovi, Teju or Sachu. In fact it should be the other way around. Archana should be the one calling Manav to check on him and his family and especially her daughters. The kids are with Manav so Archu should call him, I'm sure if Archu gave him a call and asked how Ovi and Teju were, Manav would tell her.

 :p...but my main point was that how can this rishta be pavitra when they have split for 18 yrs? is a pavitra rishta not meant to be till death do us part?



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Posted: 18 December 2011 at 4:28pm | IP Logged
I dont support Archana in any of her acts...What i meant to say was this serial can never be called Pavitra Rishta..no one throws the rishta off just like that...Be it Archana or Manav...Archana never showed any repentance in giving away her kid to Varsha and loosing him at the end...Archanas fault...but had this been truly Pavitra Rishta, it shud have occured to Manav as well as Archana to support each other at the time of crisis...A child's death is the worst thing that can happen to a parent...but had this been truly pavitra, Manav would have forgotten his anger for the time being and would have supported his wife during this time and they should have come out of this crisis by loving and providing extra care for each other...

No one deserves a separation of 18yrs from each other and their kids, just because of showing some extra care for ones own sister/parents...Family is family, no denying about that...And i would have liked the kids to grow up with Archana and Manav, rather than with Savita, who, seeing her own personal vengeance, had misled the kids from their own parents...i hate her for the way she has brought up Manavs kids...

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