Mistis thoughts 16thDecember 2011.

Just a short version of my thoughts...😉

Are the rights of a wife some sort of prize that is given to someone for good behavior and then taken away for bad behavior?🤔 I mean some sort of title that is given and one of the criteria for getting it is good behavior.🤔 Why am I saying this...Well the way Dev was congratulating Radhika/kanha made me think as if it is some prize that Radhika has won?😳 Then coming to kanha's and him going gaa gaa goo goo over this great love of Dev's ...can someone explain to me whether they can see this great love of Dev's? I mean when was it visible🤔...when he decided to listen to someone else and blame his wife?🤔 When he raised his hands on Radhika? 🤔When he sulked and refused to go looking for Radhika the day she disappeared?🤔 When he put sindoor in Barkha's mang?🤔 Even now if his love is so great then wouldn't he have worked to give the rights of wife to Radhika in front of society first and then go for any SR?🤔 Actually Dev does acknowledge that they were being selfish and thinking of their needs (to me it looked more like Purohits including Dev were being selfish and are still selfish thinking of their needs...Radhika is not included in this selfish pact to me)...but that was in relation to Barkha and not fulfilling the promise made regarding Barkha, not regarding giving Radhika's rights in society. I know he said that he will give those rights back to her but if one really loves and respects ones partner who also happens to be the soulmate then shouldn't that come first and that later any SR.

Another of Kanha's dialogues that made me scratch my head...Kanha wanted to see whether Barkha will harm her mother...Balram was right is pointing out that she might...I can understand Balram's POV but cannot understand Kanha  (nothing new majority of the time Kanha's dialogues all sound like mumbo jumbo to me)..I mean why did he want to see whether Barkha will use her mother and to what level can Barkha fall for her needs? I thought attempting murder or planning to kill someone is the most lowest thing that a person can do...but Kanha still wants to see more?🤔 Then does that mean that according to him killing some human being is not the lowest of all sins?😲 Anyway if a person can psychologically harm another person who is sick...if a person can emotionally abuse a person to the brink of insanity...if  person can attempt murder...then why can't the person harm her own mother?....infact  Barkha's expression when she hugged her mother and the tone of her voice showed that she will happily do so if her mother became a hindrance to her...and Kanha also tells Balram that he is here so he will not let anything to happen to Barkha's mother...🤔wonder where was he when such a lot of things was happening to Radhika? Oh yes...now I get it Radhika was just getting killed and Radhika is not Barkha's mother but Urmila is Barkhas mother...so killing Radhika was not such a bad thing...but harming Urmila is......I am so confused.😕

Anyway I liked Dev telling Radhika/kanha that he took away her rights yet she was the one who reminded him of the promise and in a way did her duty as a wife...Also liked that he said that marriage does not mean staying in a room together but also supporting each other in all their actions in life ...

Oh I forgot...I also liked Dev dreaming about Radhika...this was more realistic to me...and they should have shown such scenes before.

Originally posted by: misti73

Just a short version of my thoughts...😉

Are the rights of a wife some sort of prize that is given to someone for good behavior and then taken away for bad behavior?🤔  that was ridiculous and was only possibliy showed in cb landI mean some sort of title that is given and one of the criteria for getting it is good behavior.🤔 Why am I saying this...Well the way Dev was congratulating Radhika/kanha made me think as if it is some prize that Radhika has won?😳 I was limke what ahppened to Dev? why he was congratulatign does he go madThen coming to kanha's and him going gaa gaa goo goo over this great love of Dev's ...can someone explain to me whether they can see this great love of Dev's? I mean when was it visible🤔...when he decided to listen to someone else and blame his wife?🤔 When he raised his hands on Radhika? 🤔😕😕😕😕😕I am also very much confused and  was wondeewring regard to it from very first day when ever kanha started saying this When he sulked and refused to go looking for Radhika the day she disappeared?🤔 When he put sindoor in Barkha's mang?🤔 Even now if his love is so great then wouldn't he have worked to give the rights of wife to Radhika in front of society first and then go for any SR?🤔 Actually Dev does acknowledge that they were being selfish and thinking of their needs (to me it looked more like Purohits including Dev were being selfish and are still selfish thinking of their needs...Radhika is not included in this selfish pact to me)...but that was in relation to Barkha and not fulfilling the promise made regarding Barkha, not regarding giving Radhika's rights in society. I know he said that he will give those rights back to her but if one really loves and respects ones partner who also happens to be the soulmate then shouldn't that come first and that later any SR.

 I think the writer didn;'t acknowledge much difference regarding this and were thinkign that as Radhika wished for it ti was okay. and do they wanna say that as Radhika wished for this, Kanha is doing what radhika wished and was not recognising it ...😕😕😕😕

 

Another of Kanha's dialogues that made me scratch my head...Kanha wanted to see whether Barkha will harm her mother...Balram was right is pointing out that she might...I can understand Balram's POV but cannot understand Kanha (nothing new majority of the time Kanha's dialogues all sound like mumbo jumbo to me)..what does he mean in saying that, does he wanna check out how falled bharka is or does he wanna see what will bharka do or does he calculating ho many crimes can bharka do????? 9Just as in case os sishu paal) but incase he was taking condition as condition of sishupaal then why does the discussion regard to the yugas came the other day😉I mean why did he want to see whether Barkha will use her mother and to what level can Barkha fall for her needs? I thought attempting murder or planning to kill someone is the most lowest thing that a person can do...but Kanha still wants to see more?🤔 Then does that mean that according to him killing some human being is not the lowest of all sins?😲 May be he was going in with  a mind of Rakshas who killed many members, But having Rakshas were common in other yugas but not in kali yuga na, again yugas confusion here😕😕Anyway if a person can psychologically harm another person who is sick...if a person can emotionally abuse a person to the brink of insanity...if  person can attempt murder...then why can't the person harm her own mother?....infact  Barkha's expression when she hugged her mother and the tone of her voice showed that she will happily do so if her mother became a hindrance to her..If radhika thinks it its okay, But what sense does it make if Kanha thinks it????????.and Kanha also tells Balram that he is here so he will not let anything to happen to Barkha's mother...🤔wonder where was he when such a lot of things was happening to Radhika? Oh yes...now I get it Radhika was just getting killed and Radhika is not Barkha's mother but Urmila is Barkhas mother...so killing Radhika was not such a bad thing...but harming Urmila is......I am so confused.😕Well Cv's are not thinking this I mean abt Kanah when this happenes with Kanha but now as they had Kanah they are using it😉😉😉But is that inconsistence necessary,

 

 

Anyway I liked Dev telling Radhika/kanha that he took away her rights yet she was the one who reminded him of the promise and in a way did her duty as a wifeatleast noe he got that rememberance regarding the rights what he took away, but again in what way does he mean the rights???????😉...Also liked that he said that marriage does not mean staying in a room together but also supporting each other in all their actions in life (this was lacking before)...ahahah what does this happened with Dev when he always wanted for the SR and also when he first wanted for SR even before sannouncing Radh as Rptian yesterday. So Dev babu as situation suits u u will say it, wah kya baat hain. 9Sorry for being open but can't with hold sorry)

Thank u misti for a thought provking thread agin, When we watch epsidoe we get over ruled by the comic scenes present but, when we read it ehre , we can never get over crossed. Thanks dear and I first forgot all thsi being a comic fan but then also i found it weird with Dev congratuating Radhika. Even if her congratulate i think he should be ashemed of snatching away it fromher. and where does he give he still doesn't even announce her as his wife, then how does he gave  her the rights. any ways the rights in sense of cb land was awlays confusing for me so left bothering abt it.

And also the scene of Balram and Kanha, completely here I like the sense of Balram, he was elder than kanha and that resembles in his thoughts too. But Kanha most of his dialogues were confusing to me. Any way dekhna hain, kaise unfold hoga, expect karne ke behtar ye hoga ki chup chaap baithke dekhna hain

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

         WAITING TO READ YOUR TAKE ON THE RECENT HAPPENINGS AND I REALLY LIKED  YOUR VIEWS AND AGREE WITH THAT ...MISTI THERE ARE MANY WHO WANTS TO READ YOUR THOUGHTS AS YOU ARE NOT TOO HARSH ...i LOVE READ ANGIE,S COMMENTS  AS I THINK ITS MY OWN THOUGHTS SHE IS ECHOING ...STORY CONCEPT IS CHANGED , ITS NO MORE LOVE SAGA , HAS TURNED IN TO DRAMA , WHO OUTWITS  WHOM ...Same here di and mostly angie and mishti gave same way of comments but ange says it directy while mishtie says it wiht some comic sense,. and also how can we accept di, Cb was always a love saga for every one and it was the love story of Radev. But agree it converted into drama which wasn's acceptable for me.
                  YOU ARE GOOD AT ANALYZING THE SITUATIONS OR CHARACTERS , FOR ME ITS ITS GOOD OR IRRITATING ...YESTERDAY IT WAS MORE OF COMIC SHOW AND I DID NOT FIND HER MOTHER WRONG ANYWHERE , WHEN SHE WAS TAKING EVERYONE TO TASK ...AND AFTER A LONG TIME LOVED BARKHA,S EXPRESSIONS CHANGING WITH HER MOTHER,S BULLET DIALOGUES ...FOR THE TIME BEING , REAL RADHIKA IS NOT GOING TO COME IN TO PICTURE , TILL BARKHA,S EXPOSURE ...Yes yesterday was comic and today too, but many points today will be got over crossed by ehr ebcause of that comic. Thanks to ishti i found it here. Angd agreed liked bharka's expressions changing yesterday. But I doesn't want radhika to come back even after Bharka exposure, I wanna Dev search for her. I wann see that agony of Dev

Originally posted by: Neerjaa

         WAITING TO READ YOUR TAKE ON THE RECENT HAPPENINGS AND I REALLY LIKED  YOUR VIEWS AND AGREE WITH THAT ...MISTI THERE ARE MANY WHO WANTS TO READ YOUR THOUGHTS AS YOU ARE NOT TOO HARSH ...i LOVE READ ANGIE,S COMMENTS  AS I THINK ITS MY OWN THOUGHTS SHE IS ECHOING ...STORY CONCEPT IS CHANGED , ITS NO MORE LOVE SAGA , HAS TURNED IN TO DRAMA , WHO OUTWITS  WHOM ...
                  YOU ARE GOOD AT ANALYZING THE SITUATIONS OR CHARACTERS , FOR ME ITS ITS GOOD OR IRRITATING ...YESTERDAY IT WAS MORE OF COMIC SHOW AND I DID NOT FIND HER MOTHER WRONG ANYWHERE , WHEN SHE WAS TAKING EVERYONE TO TASK ...AND AFTER A LONG TIME LOVED BARKHA,S EXPRESSIONS CHANGING WITH HER MOTHER,S BULLET DIALOGUES ...FOR THE TIME BEING , REAL RADHIKA IS NOT GOING TO COME IN TO PICTURE , TILL BARKHA,S EXPOSURE ...

Originally posted by: misti73

Just a short version of my thoughts...😉

Are the rights of a wife some sort of prize that is given to someone for good behavior and then taken away for bad behavior?🤔 I mean some sort of title that is given and one of the criteria for getting it is good behavior.🤔 Why am I saying this...Well the way Dev was congratulating Radhika/kanha made me think as if it is some prize that Radhika has won?😳 Then coming to kanha's and him going gaa gaa goo goo over this great love of Dev's ...can someone explain to me whether they can see this great love of Dev's? I mean when was it visible🤔...when he decided to listen to someone else and blame his wife?🤔 When he raised his hands on Radhika? 🤔When he sulked and refused to go looking for Radhika the day she disappeared?🤔 When he put sindoor in Barkha's mang?🤔 Even now if his love is so great then wouldn't he have worked to give the rights of wife to Radhika in front of society first and then go for any SR?🤔 Actually Dev does acknowledge that they were being selfish and thinking of their needs (to me it looked more like Purohits including Dev were being selfish and are still selfish thinking of their needs...Radhika is not included in this selfish pact to me)...but that was in relation to Barkha and not fulfilling the promise made regarding Barkha, not regarding giving Radhika's rights in society. I know he said that he will give those rights back to her but if one really loves and respects ones partner who also happens to be the soulmate then shouldn't that come first and that later any SR.

 Totally agree with you here. They are showing Dev  so insensitive towards Radhika. Its all about him or his family nothing else. 

Another of Kanha's dialogues that made me scratch my head...Kanha wanted to see whether Barkha will harm her mother...Balram was right is pointing out that she might...I can understand Balram's POV but cannot understand Kanha  (nothing new majority of the time Kanha's dialogues all sound like mumbo jumbo to me)..I mean why did he want to see whether Barkha will use her mother and to what level can Barkha fall for her needs? I thought attempting murder or planning to kill someone is the most lowest thing that a person can do...but Kanha still wants to see more?🤔 Then does that mean that according to him killing some human being is not the lowest of all sins?😲 Anyway if a person can psychologically harm another person who is sick...if a person can emotionally abuse a person to the brink of insanity...if  person can attempt murder...then why can't the person harm her own mother?....infact  Barkha's expression when she hugged her mother and the tone of her voice showed that she will happily do so if her mother became a hindrance to her...and Kanha also tells Balram that he is here so he will not let anything to happen to Barkha's mother...🤔wonder where was he when such a lot of things was happening to Radhika? Oh yes...now I get it Radhika was just getting killed and Radhika is not Barkha's mother but Urmila is Barkhas mother...so killing Radhika was not such a bad thing...but harming Urmila is......I am so confused.😕 I am confused too. In order to stretch this track they are showing nonsense. I just want Radhika back and the story to go back to being Radev's and not the Evil princess Barkha.

Anyway I liked Dev telling Radhika/kanha that he took away her rights yet she was the one who reminded him of the promise and in a way did her duty as a wife...Also liked that he said that marriage does not mean staying in a room together but also supporting each other in all their actions in life ... I too liked this dialogue of Dev's but want Radhika here so they can do this together.

Oh I forgot...I also liked Dev dreaming about Radhika...this was more realistic to me...and they should have shown such scenes before. I was pleased that they showed Dev dreaming 😊about Radhika but wanted them to actually show us 😔 what Dev was dreaming.