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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 9:58am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by wicked gal

well amar is the best person to know what his wifes boundaries are,isn't it?how will sunny know?did she live with her?no..so let amar and his wife decide for themselves what they can do and cannot do..and i never said anywhere sunny shouldn't be kept on show as for prostitute part,thats what she is ..its like you shouldn't call a cricketer a cricketer.Confusedshe has her rates on her website,what does that make her ?and i spoke about sunny because she said openely that her being a po*nstar is her choice and people shouldn't be judgemental,so why she is being judgemental herself?let amar live his own life his way.


Sunny does not know Amar's wife. She never stated what his wife would think, nor did she judge him or critique him, she merely asked him to be mindful. Women like her come under more scrutiny when it comes to interactions with married people. I don't find anything wrong in her trying to set boundaries. I don't get why that is something so wrong for people.


I guess, as you wish!


she shouldn't be setting boundaries for others when she herself doesn't like anybody setting boundaries for her.If she feels his being married will affect her image then she should have refused to dance with him in the first place.

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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:00am | IP Logged
This lift was much better though and Vida was enjoying unlike Sunny Wink






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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:04am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by wicked gal

well sunny never said that she had a problem with his lifting or his touching as far as i know,she was thinking about what his wife might think..as for his wife,i don't think she will mind,he has said thatt he has told her that sometimes he does harmless masti with girls and she is fine with it and trusts him..here too they are paid to create drama,its not like he has started dating her or is madly in love with her ,he hardly talks to her or shonali or any other girl apart from the task..so why will his wife see one clip and feel like he is cheating on her?he didn't have sex with her or is having candle lit dinners or hiding in a corner whispering sweet nothings in her ears..star couple break up because usually their spouse has cheated or slept with another actress,i don't think anyone has divorced over a small lift.


Right but Sunny also mentioned that his wife might not like it considering the recent allegations by Shonali. And yes, I feel his wife does not like Amar to be connected to any females this way. When his wife visited the house, she clearly told amar about the shonali incident Embarrassed So that tell that she does not like anyone pointing fingers at her hubby for indecent behavior. And sunny was merely reminding about Amar about it.
his wife thought shonali was mental and yes she didn't like anyone calling him indecent because she loves him and trusts his character,so that settles the issue that his wife might feel cheated..As for sunny i know her advice was meant in a good way but she shouldn't have said it in front of entire house but a private talk would have sufficed and not make her look like she was milking the situation for cleaning up her own image.Smile

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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:05am | IP Logged

Ok some people think Sunny should not even ask Amar to be mindful and try to draw boundaries. So let me get this logic straight.

 

Marriage is between husband and wife and no one else should say anything at all.

So if any husband interacts with another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

So if any husband flirts or complements another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

So if any husband touches or lifts another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

Even if the husband tries to sleep with a woman, she should never say anything, or question, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

 

Hear that husband/boyfriend stealing women? You did no wrong! You never interfered in their marital/relationship bliss. He knew what his wife expected, you didn't. Not your fault.

 

Fie on all you women who told a married man to think about his wife before he does anything. How dare you try to set boundaries for married men? How can you possibly be sure his wife would not like what he is doing?

 

All my life I've been living with the misunderstanding that I should be draw boundaries at the start when interacting with people in relationships. How ignorant of me.  

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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Ok some people think Sunny should not even ask Amar to be mindful and try to draw boundaries. So let me get this logic straight.

 

Marriage is between husband and wife and no one else should say anything at all.

So if any husband interacts with another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

So if any husband flirts or complements another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

So if any husband touches or lifts another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

Even if the husband tries to sleep with a woman, she should never say anything, or question, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

 

Hear that husband/boyfriend stealing women? You did no wrong! You never interfered in their marital/relationship bliss. He knew what his wife expected, you didn't. Not your fault.

 

Fie on all you women who told a married man to think about his wife before he does anything. How dare you try to set boundaries for married men? How can you possibly be sure his wife would not like what he is doing?

 

All my life I've been living with the misunderstanding that I should be draw boundaries at the start when interacting with people in relationships. How ignorant of me.  

if a man is married,i would stay far far away from him,instead of telling him how he should be behaving with me..atleast thats what i do.And i never would tell anyone what their husband/boyfriend is upto unless i am their family  because i could be wrong in my judgement and would break up a perfectly healthy marriage for no reason.If a married man/boyfriend flirts with me,.i would avoid him like a plague first if unavoidable i would make my displeasure known by ignoring or angry looks or a private talk but i would never ever embarass a man on national t.v or infront of others because again i could be wrong in reading his signals..thats all.Smile

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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Ok some people think Sunny should not even ask Amar to be mindful and try to draw boundaries. So let me get this logic straight.

 

Marriage is between husband and wife and no one else should say anything at all.

So if any husband interacts with another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

So if any husband flirts or complements another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

So if any husband touches or lifts another woman, she should never say anything, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

Even if the husband tries to sleep with a woman, she should never say anything, or question, after all he knows what his wife expects right?

 

Hear that husband/boyfriend stealing women? You did no wrong! You never interfered in their marital/relationship bliss. He knew what his wife expected, you didn't. Not your fault.

 

Fie on all you women who told a married man to think about his wife before he does anything. How dare you try to set boundaries for married men? How can you possibly be sure his wife would not like what he is doing?

 

All my life I've been living with the misunderstanding that I should be draw boundaries at the start when interacting with people in relationships. How ignorant of me.  


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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by wicked gal

if a man is married,i would stay far far away from him,instead of telling him how he should be behaving with me..atleast thats what i do.And i never would tell anyone what their husband/boyfriend is upto unless i am their family  because i could be wrong in my judgement and would break up a perfectly healthy marriage for no reason.If a married man/boyfriend flirts with me,.i would avoid him like a plague first if unavoidable i would make my displeasure known by ignoring or angry looks or a private talk but i would never ever embarass a man on national t.v or infront of others because again i could be wrong in reading his signals..thats all.Smile


LOL! I don't know how you live avoiding all people who are married or in relationships. I for the life of me can't seem to avoid them. Friends, coworkers, classmates many of them are married or seeing someone. If someone in a relationship flirts with me why would I give them dirty looks, be mean to them or stop talking to them. That's quite immature IMHO. We're not high school teens anymore who play those silly games. We're adults and completely capable of talking things over and sorting it out.

 

People can be oblivious to their actions sometimes. They can make mistakes unintentionally. There is absolutely nothing embarrassing about being told to draw boundaries or think about their family. I don't think Amar or Sunny have anything to be upset, embarrassed, or angry about the situation. Amar acted impulsively with the flow of the task and did not think much. Sunny told Amar why she felt he should have done not done it. Amar responded calmly with his explanation. Just a mature conversation, no claws drawn out – why should Amar feel insulted or embarrassed by it?


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Posted: 16 December 2011 at 10:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by return_to_hades

Originally posted by wicked gal

if a man is married,i would stay far far away from him,instead of telling him how he should be behaving with me..atleast thats what i do.And i never would tell anyone what their husband/boyfriend is upto unless i am their family  because i could be wrong in my judgement and would break up a perfectly healthy marriage for no reason.If a married man/boyfriend flirts with me,.i would avoid him like a plague first if unavoidable i would make my displeasure known by ignoring or angry looks or a private talk but i would never ever embarass a man on national t.v or infront of others because again i could be wrong in reading his signals..thats all.Smile


LOL! I don't know how you live avoiding all people who are married or in relationships. I for the life of me can't seem to avoid them. Friends, coworkers, classmates many of them are married or seeing someone. If someone in a relationship flirts with me why would I give them dirty looks, be mean to them or stop talking to them. That's quite immature IMHO. We're not high school teens anymore who play those silly games. We're adults and completely capable of talking things over and sorting it out.

 

People can be oblivious to their actions sometimes. They can make mistakes unintentionally. There is absolutely nothing embarrassing about being told to draw boundaries or think about their family. I don't think Amar or Sunny have anything to be upset, embarrassed, or angry about the situation. Amar acted impulsively with the flow of the task and did not think much. Sunny told Amar why she felt he should have done not done it. Amar responded calmly with his explanation. Just a mature conversation, no claws drawn out ' why should Amar feel insulted or embarrassed by it?


you mean you don't maintain a distance from married men?i do. its not like i don't talk to them or i am friends with them but i maintain a respectable distance at all times.i don't flirt with them or go out with them alone or am overtly touchy with them..i think most of the women i have lived with do the same,instead of tellling men how they should be behaving with us i set my own boundaries for myself .
and sorry but i feel to ignore someone or one angry look still suffices to put a man in his place whether your a teenager or a aunty..it will embarassing for me to go a married man and say i think you are flirting with meLOLif its unintentional i would let it go instead of putting his family in embarassing situation if its on purpose i would hold a private talk if that doesn't work i would avoid the man at all costs,i would rather lose a friend than break someones family.

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