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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 12:38pm | IP Logged

While having a different discussion, this topic came to light: Inter-racial Marriage.

It is often a VERY big issue between South-Asian families who live out West; because there, the children have many more Multi-Racial peers, and love for the most part is blind.
 So the questions are: Is Interacial Marriage a Big deal? Why is it a big deal? Is it worse, or better then an Inter-Religious Marriage? Is it a bigger deal then same Sex Marriage for some people? Have many people have given up the person they love simply due to the fact that their parent's don't like the person's skin colour, or faith? How many relationships have been on the line due to these petty and archaic ideas?
 
I think this is an issue of the Modern world; there are stigmas circling around those who go against the families wishes and marry the person they love; but also more so when the person is of a Different Race, Culture, or Relgion: Not to mention the stigmas inter-racial children face.
 
What needs to change to help this? Is it a problem that even requires fixing? Is this only an issue associated to the Western South Asianers? Or a Fad?
 
Your Thoughts?

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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 12:38am | IP Logged
@Luceefer: Links to older debates are usually provided for reference in case someone is interested in knowing what views were presented earlier. The only criteria for such references being, the topic has to be in the same genre but need not be an exact carbon copy.
If you're not interested in looking at older discussions, please feel free to ignore such links.


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Posted: 17 December 2011 at 10:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by LUCEEFER

U'r the irrelevant one in here dude ... you didn't contribute to the topic ... u'r just playing BUDDHA PANDIT in here and nothing else.
 
U cant take others being free ... they need to be polite on your terms while you'd keep playing the dictator. Won't work with everybody HELL NO!
 
I've been VERY VERY relevant to your accusation in my thread which you so IMPOLITELY censored... I've mentioned that there is no need to mention the link and undermine someone's work only if you have no idea about it ... one of the primary reasons being those links mentioned automatically in the window right under the topic as per IF website. SO THE POSTING OF SUCH A LINK IS QUITE UNNECCESSARY AND JUST AN EFFORT TO BRING THE TOPIC DOWN. If someone is having such an issue he/she can PM you directly, or PM the topic poster without going an extra mile and making the topic look worthless.
 
Try keep clear of people who'r not having anything to do with u dude.
 
HERE (NOW THATS CALLED A RELEVANT POINT, niche aank rakhne se dikh jayega... sacchai hazam nahi hone se yeh bhi ban karde):

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I had already pointed out that there is nothing wrong if someone wants to post a link to an older debate. Even if you disagreed with my point, you could've put it across politely instead of insulting that member and me. And you continue to do so.

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 7:18am | IP Logged
First summarize types of marriages/relationships/ins (might be incomplete)
 
1) Inter-religious
2) Inter-racial
3) Same-gender
4) Inter-ethnic
5) Inter-language
6) Inter-country
7) Inter-continent
8) Inter-Universe (for later)
9) Marriage with tree
10) Love marriage
11) Virtual marriage
12) No marriage
13) Live-ins
14) Live-outs
15) Casual interactions
16) Ideal marriage
 
Then comes reasons for being for and against
 
Logistic reasons
Family reasons
Religious reasons
Culture reasons
Personal view
Science
 
Then comes type of opinions
 
For own self
For others
 
Now comes my take
 
I have a certain opinion for myself but I will keep it private.
 
For others, from that list, I am against causal interactions, same gender marriage or relationships, live in and live out for reasons I have mentioned in other topics. For remaining relationships, I think this decision should be left to people involved i.e. two persons and their families.
 
P.S: I think there should be one sticky topic on love, dove, marriage, relationships, interactions, need, pleasure, intimacy etc. We can appoint a resident IF love guru who can address these issues regularly. Thank You!


Edited by K-A-L - 19 December 2011 at 8:08am

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Posted: 19 December 2011 at 7:49pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by K-A-L

First summarize types of marriages/relationships/ins (might be incomplete)
 
1) Inter-religious
2) Inter-racial
3) Same-gender
4) Inter-ethnic
5) Inter-language
6) Inter-country
7) Inter-continent
8) Inter-Universe (for later)
9) Marriage with tree
10) Love marriage
11) Virtual marriage
12) No marriage
13) Live-ins
14) Live-outs
15) Casual interactions
16) Ideal marriage
 
Then comes reasons for being for and against
 
Logistic reasons
Family reasons
Religious reasons
Culture reasons
Personal view
Science
 
Then comes type of opinions
 
For own self
For others
 
Now comes my take
 
I have a certain opinion for myself but I will keep it private.
 
For others, from that list, I am against causal interactions, same gender marriage or relationships, live in and live out for reasons I have mentioned in other topics. For remaining relationships, I think this decision should be left to people involved i.e. two persons and their families.
 
P.S: I think there should be one sticky topic on love, dove, marriage, relationships, interactions, need, pleasure, intimacy etc. We can appoint a resident IF love guru who can address these issues regularly. Thank You!
Great.Clap
 
How about multiple partners or spouses ?
 
Relationships are strange. Many even after a divorce still feel the attachment and are not able to completely let go.
 
I hope someone starts a religion that accepts and merges various religions into ONE. Like the United Nations perhaps or better.
 
Religion and culture play an important role in moulding our characters.

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