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Poll Question: Is sunny's reaction justified to juhi after amar lifts sunny in dance?

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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 2:22pm | IP Logged
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Just finished that part where Sunny tells Juhi that Amar lifted her despite her asking him not to. In her words, "main bola don't do it don't do it don't do it. No No No."

Then why did he? Hmmm...

It doesn't matter if she's a po*nstar or pole dancer or beds 100 people. Respect her wish and leave her alone. Simple.

 
 

I was watching the segment as well and before amar lifted her, all she was doing was laughing. You can see here lips didn't move at all. So i don't know when she said "don't left me please".

But regardless, Your right that a man should not go against a women wishes. But I this case amar may have been a little aggressive but probably meant no harm. I can agree that amar has a problem with manners, but I think that his niyat is fine. 

she was not expecting him to lift her.. she was protesting after lift thru out, when he put her down, immediately you can see her with Sky.. which she might have thought as a safer option..

Vote this amar out so that he can go and sleep with his wife.. despo
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and by that logic people should find srk a tharki too,he lifts women in most of his promotional events..and LOL at someone who said he can't lift her without permission maybe he should have kept asking her can i touch your hand??can i lift you ??can i turn you around??can put my  hand here?can i put my hand there?during the dance that would have been so gentlemanly LOLLOLLOL


Actually, I don't like the fact that SRK calls women on stage and dances with them. Most women watching his show adore him and dream of being touched by him. However, watching celebrities interact with women like that gives ordinary men the incorrectression that women enjoy being fawned over and touched like that. Some modern Indian women may have all goes attitudes. Most women though still are conservative and don't appreciate some things. SRK and women swooning for him is the exception not the norm.

 

So truthfully yes, if you want to dance with a woman, first you ask for permission. And unless you are really well acquainted, it means classical ballroom style hold and movements. No intimate holds, lifts, grinding unless there is understanding and permission. (Alas, I am old fashioned in some ways. I am aware that the norms of gentleman and ladylike behavior are dying in urban club culture).


if you talking about being old fashioned lifting women has been around since movies started even during my mothers time and before that,i don't think anyone will get any sexual feelings seeing a man lift a woman,its not cheap or vulgar...and i find it ironical that sunny who outside the house will go to bed with him on cameras for couple of hundred dollars would get offended by something so simple..its not o.k to treat her badly because she is po*nstar i agree,but it would shocking if tomorrow same amar can hump her on cameras for the world to see and she would be enjoying it in the name of profession.

she is not a prostitute ... she works in p* movies... each work got their own professionalism ... whether you like it or not.. 

she didn't signed BB for P* work... Amar desperately missing his wife, it look like he cannot sleep with out his wife, it is months now in the show, and showing that frustration on the girls out there... by the way Sunny was looking stunningly  beautiful in those sari and in rain... so it is auto reaction from this desperate guy.. first he tried with PM showing his body, then shonali, then now sunny thinking of her profession... what he does is cheaper than Sunny's profession .. 

sent him home, as he is desperately in need of his wife



whats a difference between prostitutes and po*nstars?.prostitutes are forced,po*nstars do it out of choice thats the only difference..and yes biggboss didn't sign her up for po*n work,i can see that ..they signed her for vulgar dances and to grab footage where her cleveage is visible and to give tasks where women can get wet and seductive...and why does sunny do pole dance??to seduce whom??little kids?first seduce men then when they are seduced cry foul?
maybe amar should contact vivid entertainment and make a video with her and send it as gifts for all those who were offended by his act of lifting up a  woman without her permission.Cry

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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 2:34pm | IP Logged
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whats a difference between prostitutes and po*nstars?.prostitutes are forced,po*nstars do it out of choice thats the only difference..and yes biggboss didn't sign her up for po*n work,i can see that ..they signed her for vulgar dances and to grab footage where her cleveage is visible and to give tasks where women can get wet and seductive...and why does sunny do pole dance??to seduce whom??little kids?first seduce men then when they are seduced cry foul?
maybe amar should contact vivid entertainment and make a video with her and send it as gifts for all those who were offended by his act of lifting up a  woman without her permission.Cry


I've explained the difference between the two in several posts before. One is not better than the other. Just different. Too knackered to do it all over again.

 

Consent is penultimate. Seductive behavior, short dresses, smiling and flirting, none of these are consent to be touched. We have to stop making excuses for people who cross a line. Women in society face challenges because instead of telling someone they were wrong in touching, we question her as in why she smiled or why she wore a revealing top. I'll give Amar the complete benefit of the doubt that he made an unintentional mistake and that Sunny over exaggerated it. However, this whole attitude that someone is inviting people to touch them on account of cleavage or pole dance or whatever is wrong and must stop.


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she was ok sky kissing her hand but not amar's lifting :P
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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 2:47pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by TheDilettante

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Can't argue there. Didn't notice it that well. Let's see if hosts bring this issue to light.

ohhh... Yeah... If keeping your hand on your half face and blushing means saying no...
Then yes she did say no...and quite a lot...
This girl is making me angry nowy
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she never said like she told juhi..."maine bola tha no no no ni...
Dont do it dont do it.."
Rubbish...
Angry Angry Angry
 
 
 
Itna gussa.LOLLOL

I sometime fell that people on this forum get more upset over issues than the contestant on the show doROFL

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whats a difference between prostitutes and po*nstars?.prostitutes are forced,po*nstars do it out of choice thats the only difference..and yes biggboss didn't sign her up for po*n work,i can see that ..they signed her for vulgar dances and to grab footage where her cleveage is visible and to give tasks where women can get wet and seductive...and why does sunny do pole dance??to seduce whom??little kids?first seduce men then when they are seduced cry foul?
maybe amar should contact vivid entertainment and make a video with her and send it as gifts for all those who were offended by his act of lifting up a  woman without her permission.Cry


I've explained the difference between the two in several posts before. One is not better than the other. Just different. Too knackered to do it all over again.

 

Consent is penultimate. Seductive behavior, short dresses, smiling and flirting, none of these are consent to be touched. We have to stop making excuses for people who cross a line. Women in society face challenges because instead of telling someone they were wrong in touching, we question her as in why she smiled or why she wore a revealing top. I'll give Amar the complete benefit of the doubt that he made an unintentional mistake and that Sunny over exaggerated it. However, this whole attitude that someone is inviting people to touch them on account of cleavage or pole dance or whatever is wrong and must stop.


ya right..consent is must ..she didn't mind him touching her otherwise,did she??when they all go hug each other in morning do they take consents??if he had not lifted her,what would be different ?they were all touching each other still?whats so sexual in a lift?

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