Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon
Iss Pyaar Ko Kya Naam Doon


MrDarcyfan IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 14 December 2011 at 11:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by smitar

Finally the user ASR gave way to the Arnav who was loved by his mother and is treasured by his sister.

Arnav's confusion seems to have settled. And it is past time it did.

As u rightly put it, it was done in a sympathetic & dignified manner, possible because of La's honest & brave reactions.

There is also the ghost of Khushi in the room with them, even though both of them would like to believe that the issue is all about the two of them & no one else.

Brilliant acting.

Arnav seems to have got rid of a superfluous girl friend and gained a good friend.

Did La let him off too easily?

Smitar, I think there will be MANY who think ASR got off lightly, and La let him off lightly! But I beg to differ! I think La's reaction was someone who FINALLY has to face the truth! She herself said that she KNEW this is what he was going to say! She knew something was not right! She knew she was lying to herslef and living in a fantasy world!
So... in the end when he verbalized what she knew all along, she was hurt, but not devestated! She knew this was coming, IF he ever decided to pay attention to his LACK of romantic attachment to her! She knew she was living in a fool's paradise! ALL those times we thought La didnt notice ASR's lack of attachment to her, his apprent lack of concern... she most certainly DID! She just chose not to pay attention to it, coz if she did, she would be put in a position of having to actually do something about it! This is why even at the last moment, she tried to STOP him from saying anything, coz as soon as he says something, THAT is the end!
The elephant in the room Khushi... was NOT mentioned! This was classy on both their parts! La knows that if ASR wanted to persue Khushi, then he could have broken up with her ANY old day and done this!
She had the wisdom to know that this was NOT about that at all! She knew he was not coming to break it off with her so he can chase someone else! This was HIS way of doing the right thing by her! Just like he said "I cant keep lying to you and insulting you by lying any longer"! THIS was the point!
We cant PUNISH someone for NOT feeling something for us that WE feel for them! That is not fair! La has enough brains to realize this!
This is the differance between Arnav and Shyam! Arnav's INTENT was never to deceive anyone! But Shyam's was, and always has been! He wanted to USE two people! Arnav doesent want to use anyone! He just ended up hurting people because he dosent THINK like he said!
Also we KNOW he is not calling off the engagement coz he is trying to chase Khushi, coz as far as Arnav knows for all intents and purposes, SHE is still committed to someone else!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 14 December 2011 at 11:36pm

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Posted: 14 December 2011 at 11:51pm | IP Logged
@MrDarcyFan----Lovely Post and fantastic analysisStar
I can call this an honest acceptance on his part and Arnav truly behaved how a sensible person should behave .Self acceptance was the most important thing tht was lacking in Arnav's character...though its not complete.Another confession is still pending but i'm happy with the current developments.Gr8 performance by Barun once againClapClap

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Posted: 14 December 2011 at 11:59pm | IP Logged
wow Barun can i get a hug too HugHug

You were super fantastic... I just love the way you handle the situation was fabulous... Very matured... Clap

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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 12:46am | IP Logged
I always knew under that tough exterior there was a man who had compassion and he proved me by calling off the engagement and doing the right thing by Lavanya.

I respect him more for this act. 

Khushi has unknowingly opened his heart and is breaking those walls he has built in his heart.

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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 12:47am | IP Logged

lovely...absolutely awesome post MrDarcyfan...HugHug

i loved the matured Lavanya different frm the original brat tht she was ! she handled da whole thing wid dignity...n she really deserved dat freedom...Arnav's self realisations abt his feelings for La also showed his progress in understanding relationships..Big smile gr888 job by CVs..Clap

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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 2:02am | IP Logged

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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 2:19am | IP Logged




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Posted: 15 December 2011 at 2:27am | IP Logged
loved your write-up Thumbs Up

Hug appy

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