Posted: 15 December 2011 at 3:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Tejy77
Thanks for the update, Preetha Di!
I totally agree with you...Toasty had the right intentions but the wrong action. To spring all of this on not just Ved but the whole family was wrong...it would have been different if the whole family knew...they all could have worked together to make him understand and get to know what he truthfully wants.seriously speaking i dont think family would have helped toasty in making ved understand as if you remember the previous episode when toasty was trying to say that it could be possible that ved could fall in love pashu and dadaji gave a strong no to it..had she told them about nitika may be dadaji might have agreed but the rest wouldnt have and then pashu might have directly spoken to ved and ved would have still refused..
And honestly I sort of wanted to slap Toasty me too
when she was trying to explain the proposal...she was talking as if it was no big deal in almost a matter of fact tone...she frankly stated that Ved loved Nitika...ob
viously he would get defensive that way. She could have led in indirectly and slowly explain the matter to him in a more gentle way rather than being so straight forward. I mean, did she really expect Ved to be like "Oh ok, yeah, I love Nitika and I will go ahead with this shaadi"
She needs to work on the execution of her plans and realize that Ved isn't Tej...the straight forwardness worked on Tej but Ved is a completely different person even if he is Tej's brother.
And Nitika's parents... I can see in a way where they are coming from but to start bad mouthing Ved and blaming Toasty like that was unreasonable...I agree that Nitika should have explained to her parents that is was a plan to try and get Ved to express his feelings...they obviously expected this to be a pakka relation and went there will high hopes. exactly had ved not been there nitika might have married that snake rajan.. i didnt like how her father said that ved was responsible for the marriage to break..it sounded as if he thinks rajan to be a better person that ved
I really hope that Tej doesn't get over the top furious again...I feel like at this point, he should just be slightly annoyed, knowing that this is Toasty's nature and he should try to understand the intentions behind her actions... dear ur hoping for the impossible as going by tej's past records, he has never supported her or tried to understand why she's doing such things..all he does is fight and ask her to stay away, not repeat and then later when it works out good says im sorry i didnt support you..
I really hope its not a repeat of his reaction to the Malti andolan even if he says not to interfere in Ved's life...basically I hope he's soft about it. Obviously he's not going to really support her right now because his main concern is always the peace of the house so if a dhamaka happens like this, he'll obviously be upset, but I just hope he's not raging.