Posted: 14 December 2011 at 9:34pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by vik rocks
Thanks for the update!
I've never been against Toasty's intentions. She has a good heart but the problem is always the way she hides serious matters from her family members, the way she rushes up things, the way she loves to force her decisions upon anyone
Nitika's parent's anger was justified. Toasty had no rights to call them & make them feel humiliated. I was glad that this time they stood up for their daughter though last time they backed off. Yes, they might have said wrong things about Ved, then how can one expect them to praise Ved after hearing what he said to Nitika. They were angry & were just trying to defend their daughter... that's it. It has nothing to do with what happened in the past. If they're words about Ved was ugly then what about Ved's words towards Nitika & her parents. Even Ved was angry. I could understand his frustration but saying that Nitika has a past - Rajan was just pathetic! He could have just rejected the proposal on the basis of his brahmachari thing there was no need to remind her of her past. That was plain ugly but then even Ved was angry. Everybody was angry so whatever anybody said... said it in anger. We can't expect one to rationalize & think before saying anything when one is in anger... that's human nature & that's exactly what this serial shows.
It was Nitika who brought Ved out of his past, it was due to her that he was able to forget his past & forgive Malti & Ved tries to remind Nitika of her past... what was that? Any parents in their place would do the same. Her parents were hurt so whatever came out from their mouth was justified. They thought Toasty had confirmed everything & called them... how would they know that it's just one of Toasty's wild solutions
Nitika's father said that Ved used to say how Rajan was bad to treat a woman like that then what did he do today... so obviously it was the anger of the parents talking. Anger really speaks ugly words just like even Ved's anger did
& thanks to Toasty for all this
Toasty should have first confided with Dadaji & the other members before taking such a big step. Marriage is not a joke at all! First she didn't want to tell anybody anything bcoz she wanted to confirm it, but what did she do after confirming it. She just went ahead & called Nitika & her parents to talk about the wedding. She should have first told the members & all could have done something to bring Ved out of his Brahmachari mode & make him understand. That would have been better rather than calling Nitika & her parents to get their hearts broken.
Toasty telling Nitika's father that she had no idea that something like this would happen was just irritating... Didn't she notice that anger & pain on Ved's face after he shaved off that mustache. I wonder what was she expecting then... that Ved would jump out of joy & say yippie! I'm getting married to Nitika.
She needs to understand that decisions are not to be made in a hurry or with just an intuition without consulting anybody especially when the matter is big & serious. She also needs to think about the consequences that can occur when she implements a solution. She needs to consider one thing... whenever she makes a decision or comes up with a surprise, she should take care of the fact that her decisions don't hurt other people's feelings... It's really painful to see others suffer due to her decision :(
Pashu did what any brother would do to defend his brother. His actions maybe wrong but intentions were good same with Toasty her actions were wrong but intentions was good & Pashu thought he was right & Toasty thought she was right
The precap was good. Malti has burnt Ved's gifted shirt while ironing it, good for him. He deserves it LOL! Yeah yeah he was upset with himself at the end... but he can't get away with it easily...
I think it's Toasty's plan to make Ved realize his love... let's see. Hoping that this time Toasty thinks twice before coming up with solutions & takes care it doesn't have a negative impact on others... After all, it's really not funny to see others getting humiliated or going to jail bcoz of her surprisingly shocking solutions
Felt extremely bad for Nitika
@ bold excatly my views. toasty has gotten away with alot of times with the good at heart, but i know she loves them and has great intentions but what she didi was wrong. her intention was to get it arranged but her behaviour was like hail all , this is what is happening accept it now and be happy!! she was wrong with
nikita: should have known the heartache might be possibe, nikitas totally is under her thumb i guess after marriage there might be a nikita toasty malti track
nikis parents: they got insulted, it is a big insult to girls parents to be humiliated like this and they weer right, for them if toasty is calling they will assume all is fixed they ddint know they were beng played along by their daughters bf since childhood, rajans family humiliated them and their daughter and now again , it was toom uch for them
ved: she made him hate himself, i felt he was about to have a nervous breakdown, she was insensitve when bringning in malti and even now she doesnt seem to understand his depth of pain and confusion.
her i am the porblem solver and i will deal with all you all just eat sleep smile approach will not work always. she always solves but while giving someone a heartache which could be avoided if she shares her plans. tej was right in shusing her, she kept on retatilating, ved was in a very bad condiditon , khud whentej threw her out when sudha wanted to rant and all she was actually rude and said i need space time will tell you , then why different with ved? tej also conducted a love marriage she should have talked to him first, set a setting for ved nikitas understanding then the parents part. it was pure arrognace, aha i know whats best for you accept it.