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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya



Arnav Singh Raizada finally realized two points ..1.) he does not feel anything  for Lavanya Kashyap . 2.)..He never did anything right where she was concerned ...decisive man that he is, he forthwith proceeds to set the house in order ...He enters Lavanya's room  and  endeavors to clarify his stance , not with clinical precision neither with cold detachment but with gentleness , firmness and above all  with compassion ..A compassion which soon mingles with respect for a supposed vacuous girl at her thoughtful gesture..

I loved the fact that Arnav Singh Raizada  who has decided to end the farce is moving determinedly towards Lavanya's room to acquaint her with his decision  Pauses the moment he sees Khushi, looks her carefully to check whether she is alright, whether she is still in the grip of powerful emotion .. on noting that she is almost  normal..He  moves on His errand..Good directorial touch that !!

Lavanya Kashyap ...A girl who has seen the truth, faced the truth , refuses to acknowledge the truth !! ...  desperately clinging on to the last shards of her bubble wrap...When A persistent Arnav finally tears down her last illusion .. She reluctantly but with grace  faces the music..She musters  up her courage and confesses that she knew  all along that ASR never did love her  but she was lying to herself , such was the  power of her lies that she herself was beguiled into believing it too be truth ... Lavanya  understands that Arnav does  not love her ..does not hold him culprit for jilting her ... courteously tells him that he must never feel guilty ...Earns Arnav's respect by magnanimously   requesting him not to reveal the broken relationship thereby spoiling the happy atmosphere ..This girl has traveled long  way but is it for keeps ??..Also found it odd that she said that she loved him so so much ... it did not sound convincing cos we never saw the ' So much in love ' girl ..we saw a empty headed  girl wanting to become Mrs.ASR ...Hmmm.. Lost in translation or badly conceived plots ..Take ur  pick...


 Today..Lavanya  towered over everyone ... The amazing changes  that she has undergone, the way she has grown  was truly astounding..from a girl who thought  and lived only for herself and her next appointment with the beautician  to a girl who pauses to think about  the happiness of a family of whom she is not even a member instead of  wallowing in deepest anguish , who quietly  accepts ASR's decision without any pleading, tantrums ...and with immense dignity forgives him for playing with her heart ...Lavanya  turned out to be a Lady ...A lady with a golden Heart !! ..

The relationship appears to have come to a closure  with Arnav finally embracing her, trying to comfort her, conscious, restless even when he was hugging her, and not swept away  or lost like the way he is with Khushi..After a decent time elapses ,,He initiates the moving away too ..But has the relationship really come to a closure  or will it continue with the two of them becoming friends n Lavanya playing cupid or will there be a  brief fling in the future  or will she be the one to bring Khushi back into Arnav's orbit again ...  Was this a closure n yet not a closure ?? .. The scene rankles for instead of  putting a lid , it actually opens a can of worms  in this case can of unpleasant speculations !!



The episode was beautifully directed .. with  Arnav walking out of the doors  to end a relationship , Khushi entering into the house after ending a relationship ...  The clever juxtaposition of two parallel happenings in the same house ..Questions posed by one couple answered/elaborated  by another duo ..The truth hidden  from  the others ..whilst each will continue to think the other is committed ...Also loved the fact that there was no melodrama or OTT emotions between Arnav and Lavanya , if anything the scene was underplayed evoking our sympathy which a OTT Lavanya would not have been able to do... With her restrained and dignified retreat Lavanya earns our respect too..


My Only Request to the CV's..Let ARHI romance track start after Shyam's exposure..cos after such a  lengthy famine of ARHI Moments ..We surely deserve a long spell of ARHI romance ..CV's..Do u Understand the word LENGTHHHY ..I M sure u do...well understand another point .. when I say Romance after Shyam's exposure..I mean that the he be exposed most expediently  ..LET ARHI ROMANCE TRACK BE OUR NEW YEAR"S GIFT N LET IT  ROLL ON WITHOUT A ROADBLOCK NAMED SHYAM !!


absolutely brilliant post...ASR n La outdid themselves today...both subtle both composed both dignified...nvr seen a cleaner break up on starplus...marvellous job 

now for the lines in red...im so so so desperate for a good LENGHTY rabba ve now...lets write a petition n forward it to the CV's...common guys we r starving now...show some mercy๐Ÿ˜ญ
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya


A Decisive man, A irresolute Girl, A girl who had to  face the mirror n see  the pimples, acne's n all , A Woman who continues to exist with her head in the clouds ...they made the ensemble of what was essentially slow episode but when looked overall.. the story progressed  a bit  but just a bit !!


Arnav Singh Raizada finally realized two points ..1.) he does not feel anything  for Lavanya Kashyap . 2.)..He never did anything right where she was concerned ...decisive man that he is, he forthwith proceeds to set the house in order ...He enters Lavanya's room  and  endeavors to clarify his stance , not with clinical precision neither with cold detachment but with gentleness , firmness and above all  with compassion ..A compassion which soon mingles with respect for a supposed vacuous girl at her thoughtful gesture..

I loved the fact that Arnav Singh Raizada  who has decided to end the farce is moving determinedly towards Lavanya's room to acquaint her with his decision  Pauses the moment he sees Khushi, looks her carefully to check whether she is alright, whether she is still in the grip of powerful emotion .. on noting that she is almost  normal..He  moves on His errand..Good directorial touch that !!


Khushi Kumari Gupta ..A girl firmly intent on telling the truth to the concerned person, fearful that her disclosure might bring about  another stalled marriage for Payal  but that  fact does not allow for any deviation from the  course of truth that she has chosen ..But the moment the Mangalsutra falls and Anjali begins her lamentation , Khushi's  toughness melts and turns to jelly ..leaving her wavering on her intention...Not just that she promises to  save Anjali's marriage at any cost...Pray tell me How ??..Is she going to be shadowing Shyam on his every nightly rendezvous..will she be ordering her DM to immobilize him and keep him near Anjali Always..I'm flummoxed ..

Now the loving part ..even when she must be hurting rotten inside..her only concern is that her broken engagement shud not throw  a pall of gloom on the upcoming  E' ceremony ...Khushi  Kumari Gupta...Ur  heart is a ocean of love , unselfish love...

Anjali ...The cuckoo Girl... Her Mangal Sutra breaks ..and what does she do?? does she take it to the Goldsmith to get it repaired ..No !! She immediately  Dials Devi Mayya  n starts her next round of Vrats to ensure a long life  for her hubby ...From the Panic attack she goes into as soon as the chain breaks..One would have been pardoned if one thought that she just received the news that her Husband came under a 100 ton Lorry  and turned into a pulp ...But it also underscored, nay triple scored how  clingy , how dependent she is on that husband of hers..A husband whom she considers to be  her foundation but does not know is a marshy swamp who will suck her down ..

 Some tough Love for Anjali too ... Anjie Baby... Stop doing so much Vrats, pooja's ...U r polluting the RM with the constant smoke emanating from the Havan's ... U r prolly turning anorexic  and tired , incapable of being active where it actually matters *ahem, Ahem**  focus on that area ...n Ur Hubby will not even desert u for a sec...  Loved the fact that despite  facing a cataclysmic  disaster of cosmic proportion  [ Mangal Sutra breaking ] ..she still had enough wits and concern to note the empty finger  ...And A Muhwazz for the simple fact that out of all the ppl, she was the only one who openly expressed her concern for Khushi's feelings, her battered emotions ... Just for that Anjie Baby, will forgive even ur  365 days Vrats n Pooja's..


Lavanya Kashyap ...A girl who has seen the truth, faced the truth , refuses to acknowledge the truth !! ...  desperately clinging on to the last shards of her bubble wrap...When A persistent Arnav finally tears down her last illusion .. She reluctantly but with grace  faces the music..She musters  up her courage and confesses that she knew  all along that ASR never did love her  but she was lying to herself , such was the  power of her lies that she herself was beguiled into believing it too be truth ... Lavanya  understands that Arnav does  not love her ..does not hold him culprit for jilting her ... courteously tells him that he must never feel guilty ...Earns Arnav's respect by magnanimously   requesting him not to reveal the broken relationship thereby spoiling the happy atmosphere ..This girl has traveled long  way but is it for keeps ??..Also found it odd that she said that she loved him so so much ... it did not sound convincing cos we never saw the ' So much in love ' girl ..we saw a empty headed  girl wanting to become Mrs.ASR ...Hmmm.. Lost in translation or badly conceived plots ..Take ur  pick...


 Today..Lavanya  towered over everyone ... The amazing changes  that she has undergone, the way she has grown  was truly astounding..from a girl who thought  and lived only for herself and her next appointment with the beautician  to a girl who pauses to think about  the happiness of a family of whom she is not even a member instead of  wallowing in deepest anguish , who quietly  accepts ASR's decision without any pleading, tantrums ...and with immense dignity forgives him for playing with her heart ...Lavanya  turned out to be a Lady ...A lady with a golden Heart !! ..

The relationship appears to have come to a closure  with Arnav finally embracing her, trying to comfort her, conscious, restless even when he was hugging her, and not swept away  or lost like the way he is with Khushi..After a decent time elapses ,,He initiates the moving away too .
.But has the relationship really come to a closure  or will it continue with the two of them becoming friends n Lavanya playing cupid or will there be a  brief fling in the future  or will she be the one to bring Khushi back into Arnav's orbit again ...  Was this a closure n yet not a closure ?? .. The scene rankles for instead of  putting a lid , it actually opens a can of worms  in this case can of unpleasant speculations !!



The episode was beautifully directed .. with  Arnav walking out of the doors  to end a relationship , Khushi entering into the house after ending a relationship ...  The clever juxtaposition of two parallel happenings in the same house ..Questions posed by one couple answered/elaborated  by another duo ..The truth hidden  from  the others ..whilst each will continue to think the other is committed ...Also loved the fact that there was no melodrama or OTT emotions between Arnav and Lavanya , if anything the scene was underplayed evoking our sympathy which a OTT Lavanya would not have been able to do... With her restrained and dignified retreat Lavanya earns our respect too..



My Only Request to the CV's..Let ARHI romance track start after Shyam's exposure..cos after such a  lengthy famine of ARHI Moments ..We surely deserve a long spell of ARHI romance ..CV's..Do u Understand the word LENGTHHHY ..I M sure u do...well understand another point .. when I say Romance after Shyam's exposure..I mean that the he be exposed most expediently  ..LET ARHI ROMANCE TRACK BE OUR NEW YEAR"S GIFT N LET IT  ROLL ON WITHOUT A ROADBLOCK NAMED SHYAM !!

Nice post Sathya BUT I wholehearted agree 1000% with the green highlighted portion of the post. I also feel La earning ASRs respect is going to play a BIG part in the near future. LA is NOT going away . She Just might TURN Negative or stay Neutral BUT SHE IS HERE TO STAY. LA ASR track is not over and I strongly feel so. 
I dont want the Cvs to drag La track unnecessery or turn her into a VAMP but KKG not telling the Raizadas about Shyam is as BAD as La forced ASR to keep mum about their broken engagement. I DID NOT LIKE IT AT ALL.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Incredible anaylasis of today's post!!

First of to all those who thought that Khushi wasn't happy with her engagement broken, there were always such cirmstamces when she got engaged and her engagment got broken that she didn't once thought about herself!

Lavanya's incredible transformation really showed itself today! Khushi really did bring out the other Lavanya Khysap outside of the one who was so self-involved in herself! 

Thank You CVS for finally bringing a closure to this relationship was nothing but a piece of thread. I think it was also the first time Lavanya saw Arnav instead of ASR

Lastly, i agree with you di, we DO NEED A LOT OF ARHI MOMENTS after this Shyam track! Bring more emotions to for Arnav to Khushi and creatives also need to clear out that bubble in khushi's heart that she was also just a girl in Arnav's life, nothing more than that! She needs to realize that she is his meaning of life now!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: trina2010

Nice post Sathya BUT I wholehearted agree 1000% with the green highlighted portion of the post. I also feel La earning ASRs respect is going to play a BIG part in the near future. LA is NOT going away . She Just might TURN Negative or stay Neutral BUT SHE IS HERE TO STAY. LA ASR track is not over and I strongly feel so. 

I dont want the Cvs to drag La track unnecessery or turn her into a VAMP but KKG not telling the Raizadas about Shyam is as BAD as La forced ASR to keep mum about their broken engagement. I DID NOT LIKE IT AT ALL.



Hi Trina,

Relax, Dear ...

ThanQ for appreciating the post...

 See.. My Point is ..La earning Arnav's respect is a good thing in the long run if she is going to play  cupid..cos with Anjali out of commission thanxx to Shyam Business.. Payal   restrained prolly by Mami ..It will  fall on La to bring them together .. And this time around ASR cannot brush off La the way he used to do before ..ASR  who respects Lavanya might actually listen to her since both come from same BG, have similar ideas and are in the same business ...in such a case La staying on is Good ๐Ÿ˜Š...While PAYASH may act as the bridge, LA will function as the communicator , a guide between ARHI..


 The Show will become pedestrian if La turns negative which I am hoping that the CV's do not  do..

LA wants to suppress the fact only until PAYASH Engagement ...Plus SBS ppl  have said that romance track is about to begin ...so lets not get tensed up, relax and watch how the CV's are taking it up..๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya




**Hand Pumping ** Yes !! Now My  Bakri n Butter problem solved ...what about  Makkan..err ..Suji.. need a Makkan too??How about  that ??  Kya Dil Main Jagah Milega ..


Plus... That Book I was talking about...remembered it..It is  ' The Historian '



always room for u๐Ÿ˜‰

will look for the book ...thanks a lot dii๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿค—
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ssweety007



   always room for u๐Ÿ˜‰

will look for the book ...thanks a lot dii๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿค—




Just a room ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ..Suji Bacha ..want the whole duplex Villa ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†..

 My Pleasure, Suji..๐Ÿค—...


 Ok Da..M leaving..  already well past my bed time.. C ya !! ๐Ÿ˜Š
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya




Just a room ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ..Suji Bacha ..want the whole duplex Villa ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†..

 My Pleasure, Suji..๐Ÿค—...


 Ok Da..M leaving..  already well past my bed time.. C ya !! ๐Ÿ˜Š


๐Ÿ˜‰
i am going too...partially sleeping already๐Ÿ˜† goodnight and sweet dreams...catch ya later๐Ÿค—

๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted: 12 years ago
You've put it all so beautifully...
But I couldn't digest the fact that this was the same khushi who had less than 12 hours ago convinced her family that cheating somebody would be wrong even if it meant hurting themselves...
I would not want to be harsh and call her spineless coz we all know she's far from that...But where did that gutso disappear...Today the lines between khushi kumaari gupta and the other bechari naaris faded...

Just my POV...
I proof-read this twice(am always a little scared of commenting coz of you being a lit major:-P) ...hehe
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Posted: 12 years ago
ohhh love love love ur post tanths dear so beautifully u put it every character one by one awesome job dear it is always a pleasure to read ur post! when i got to anjs. line u almost chocked me๐Ÿ˜† with ur hilaarious words'From the Panic attack she goes into as soon as the chain breaks..One would have been pardoned if one thought that she just received the news that her Husband came under a 100 ton Lorry  and turned into a pulp ...' o gosh๐Ÿคฃ u r so funny u know he could have been that if it wasn't 4 kushi๐Ÿ˜† today loved arnav & la ! how they break up with dignity๐Ÿ˜› and u remind me of chris what u said to the cvs doo u  u n d e r s t a n d the w o r d s that r coming out of my mouth๐Ÿ˜† ye cvs now should focus in arhi! arhi's love has been on hault after the diwali kushi can't do nothing as she knows arnav is with la but arnav can do s/thing i hope they kick start arhi love we deserve it after this long wait!๐Ÿ˜‰ u said absolutely right about la coming a long way when i saw her sitting down folding when arnav entered i thought this girl how much she has changed from the carefree la to sanskari & caring la wow what a journey & what a transformation๐Ÿ‘ and today the similarities with kushi & la they r both thinking alike both despite their hurt deside not to tell the family in this happy moment it was awesome to watch! sorry tanths i didn't mean to make this long post but u kind of started me off sorry 4 the long bak bak tanx haan 4 the awesome post keep writing loved reading it๐Ÿ˜›
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya



Anjali ...One would have been pardoned if one thought that she just received the news that her Husband came under a 100 ton Lorry  and turned into a pulp 

My Only Request to the CV's..Let ARHI romance track start after Shyam's exposure..cos after such a  lengthy famine of ARHI Moments ..We surely deserve a long spell of ARHI romance ..CV's..Do u Understand the word LENGTHHHY ..I M sure u do...well understand another point .. when I say Romance after Shyam's exposure..I mean that the he be exposed most expediently  ..LET ARHI ROMANCE TRACK BE OUR NEW YEAR"S GIFT N LET IT  ROLL ON WITHOUT A ROADBLOCK NAMED SHYAM !!


FANTASTIC ANALYSIS of today's episode!!!

Loved the whole post but a special mention for the above in BLUE...I CAN ONLY PREY & HOPE IT COMES TRUE!!!

In regards to your request to the CV's I whole heartedly agree, where the hell has the romance gone from this romantic drama?!?!  

Where are our Rabba Ve moments gone & yes please CV's be merciful & kind to us going into 2012, and reward your loyal fans of 7 months of viewing & give us some HOT HOT ArHi moments to deal with the predicted hate track in the future!!!