That's the way it is !!

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Posted: 12 years ago

A Decisive man, A irresolute Girl, A girl who had to  face the mirror n see  the pimples, acne's n all , A Woman who continues to exist with her head in the clouds ...they made the ensemble of what was essentially slow episode but when looked overall.. the story progressed  a bit  but just a bit !!


Arnav Singh Raizada finally realized two points ..1.) he does not feel anything  for Lavanya Kashyap . 2.)..He never did anything right where she was concerned ...decisive man that he is, he forthwith proceeds to set the house in order ...He enters Lavanya's room  and  endeavors to clarify his stance , not with clinical precision neither with cold detachment but with gentleness , firmness and above all  with compassion ..A compassion which soon mingles with respect for a supposed vacuous girl at her thoughtful gesture..

I loved the fact that Arnav Singh Raizada  who has decided to end the farce is moving determinedly towards Lavanya's room to acquaint her with his decision  Pauses the moment he sees Khushi, looks her carefully to check whether she is alright, whether she is still in the grip of powerful emotion .. on noting that she is almost  normal..He  moves on His errand..Good directorial touch that !!


Khushi Kumari Gupta ..A girl firmly intent on telling the truth to the concerned person, fearful that her disclosure might bring about  another stalled marriage for Payal  but that  fact does not allow for any deviation from the  course of truth that she has chosen ..But the moment the Mangalsutra falls and Anjali begins her lamentation , Khushi's  toughness melts and turns to jelly ..leaving her wavering on her intention...Not just that she promises to  save Anjali's marriage at any cost...Pray tell me How ??..Is she going to be shadowing Shyam on his every nightly rendezvous..will she be ordering her DM to immobilize him and keep him near Anjali Always..I'm flummoxed ..

Now the loving part ..even when she must be hurting rotten inside..her only concern is that her broken engagement shud not throw  a pall of gloom on the upcoming  E' ceremony ...Khushi  Kumari Gupta...Ur  heart is a ocean of love , unselfish love...

Anjali ...The cuckoo Girl... Her Mangal Sutra breaks ..and what does she do?? does she take it to the Goldsmith to get it repaired ..No !! She immediately  Dials Devi Mayya  n starts her next round of Vrats to ensure a long life  for her hubby ...From the Panic attack she goes into as soon as the chain breaks..One would have been pardoned if one thought that she just received the news that her Husband came under a 100 ton Lorry  and turned into a pulp ...But it also underscored, nay triple scored how  clingy , how dependent she is on that husband of hers..A husband whom she considers to be  her foundation but does not know is a marshy swamp who will suck her down ..

 Some tough Love for Anjali too ... Anjie Baby... Stop doing so much Vrats, pooja's ...U r polluting the RM with the constant smoke emanating from the Havan's ... U r prolly turning anorexic  and tired , incapable of being active where it actually matters *ahem, Ahem**  focus on that area ...n Ur Hubby will not even desert u for a sec...  Loved the fact that despite  facing a cataclysmic  disaster of cosmic proportion  [ Mangal Sutra breaking ] ..she still had enough wits and concern to note the empty finger  ...And A Muhwazz for the simple fact that out of all the ppl, she was the only one who openly expressed her concern for Khushi's feelings, her battered emotions ... Just for that Anjie Baby, will forgive even ur  365 days Vrats n Pooja's..


Lavanya Kashyap ...A girl who has seen the truth, faced the truth , refuses to acknowledge the truth !! ...  desperately clinging on to the last shards of her bubble wrap...When A persistent Arnav finally tears down her last illusion .. She reluctantly but with grace  faces the music..She musters  up her courage and confesses that she knew  all along that ASR never did love her  but she was lying to herself , such was the  power of her lies that she herself was beguiled into believing it too be truth ... Lavanya  understands that Arnav does  not love her ..does not hold him culprit for jilting her ... courteously tells him that he must never feel guilty ...Earns Arnav's respect by magnanimously   requesting him not to reveal the broken relationship thereby spoiling the happy atmosphere ..This girl has traveled long  way but is it for keeps ??..Also found it odd that she said that she loved him so so much ... it did not sound convincing cos we never saw the ' So much in love ' girl ..we saw a empty headed  girl wanting to become Mrs.ASR ...Hmmm.. Lost in translation or badly conceived plots ..Take ur  pick...


 Today..Lavanya  towered over everyone ... The amazing changes  that she has undergone, the way she has grown  was truly astounding..from a girl who thought  and lived only for herself and her next appointment with the beautician  to a girl who pauses to think about  the happiness of a family of whom she is not even a member instead of  wallowing in deepest anguish , who quietly  accepts ASR's decision without any pleading, tantrums ...and with immense dignity forgives him for playing with her heart ...Lavanya  turned out to be a Lady ...A lady with a golden Heart !! ..

The relationship appears to have come to a closure  with Arnav finally embracing her, trying to comfort her, conscious, restless even when he was hugging her, and not swept away  or lost like the way he is with Khushi..After a decent time elapses ,,He initiates the moving away too ..But has the relationship really come to a closure  or will it continue with the two of them becoming friends n Lavanya playing cupid or will there be a  brief fling in the future  or will she be the one to bring Khushi back into Arnav's orbit again ...  Was this a closure n yet not a closure ?? .. The scene rankles for instead of  putting a lid , it actually opens a can of worms  in this case can of unpleasant speculations !!



The episode was beautifully directed .. with  Arnav walking out of the doors  to end a relationship , Khushi entering into the house after ending a relationship ...  The clever juxtaposition of two parallel happenings in the same house ..Questions posed by one couple answered/elaborated  by another duo ..The truth hidden  from  the others ..whilst each will continue to think the other is committed ...Also loved the fact that there was no melodrama or OTT emotions between Arnav and Lavanya , if anything the scene was underplayed evoking our sympathy which a OTT Lavanya would not have been able to do... With her restrained and dignified retreat Lavanya earns our respect too..



My Only Request to the CV's..Let ARHI romance track start after Shyam's exposure..cos after such a  lengthy famine of ARHI Moments ..We surely deserve a long spell of ARHI romance ..CV's..Do u Understand the word LENGTHHHY ..I M sure u do...well understand another point .. when I say Romance after Shyam's exposure..I mean that the he be exposed most expediently  ..LET ARHI ROMANCE TRACK BE OUR NEW YEAR"S GIFT N LET IT  ROLL ON WITHOUT A ROADBLOCK NAMED SHYAM !!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: Mahamluvsght

lovely post



Thank You, Maham ๐Ÿ˜›
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Posted: 12 years ago
RES๐Ÿ˜ƒ

**edited**
OOPS!!!  I reserved here... so copying the same what I wrote on pg11 ๐Ÿ˜›

I loved y'day's epi ONLY for Arnav and LA convo. What a way to break up .. so mature...
I loved Arnav even more... as soon as it strikes him that he was so unjust all this while towards LA... he wastes not even a second to mend whatever he could.
LA seemed mature all of a sudden... Sana was avg in her acting .. and weak in front of Barun.. but still she managed to keep the whole scene captivating and impressive.
But are they still going for a FAKE engagement .. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ

I just want to forget Anjali-Khushi convo. Please read my OS to know my views about the "Mangalsutra ka haadsa"... When I watched the repeat .. i forwarded all these parts and only saw A-LA convo multiple times... it was heart-breaking but satisfying... ๐Ÿ˜Š

For your post... one more OUTSTANDING POST... ab kya bolun... mere vocab mein words bhi khatam ho gaye aapki tareef karte karte ... ๐Ÿ‘

ps... you have to reply to my reply to your last post too... ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Cheers,
Monsi

Edited by monsi08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Res.. Will comment tomorrow - about to sleep already๐Ÿ˜ƒ

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Awesome post Di! I enjoyed reading.
I totally loved Arnav & Lavanya break-up scene - it was heartbreaking and touching. It was shocking to see the old Lavanya changing drastically into this Lavanya. Sana did a brilliant job.
Anjali is ever so dumb - she herself was figitting with her chain and Mangalsutra and crying over it thinking that Shyam's life is in danger - *d'uh* even the precap. But i hope Shyam will have some piece of mind that what he did is wrong.

I completely agree with you, Di, that ArHi romance should start after Shyam's revelation to the entire family.. :-)

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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: ssweety007

looong post๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿค—



Extremely Long..Suji  ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿค— ...But I find Once I begin ..I am unable to isshtop.. must  try to curb my enthu .. Have got a growing feeling that I am actually sending readers to sleep..๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ
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Posted: 12 years ago
Fantastic as always, Tanthya! For me, Lavanya stole all applause! She deserves the respect she's earned and I'm so glad that CVs didn't ruin it with some mighty melodrama. Lavanya's reaction today was the way I always wanted it to be. And even in the future, I do not want her to turn nasty. I want her to remain, forge a bond with Arnav and Khushi on a pure friendship and play the cupid that's obviously been missing for this duo!

Have always loved Lavanya but fell in love with her all over again today!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: tes_v1

Fantastic as always, Tanthya! For me, Lavanya stole all applause! She deserves the respect she's earned and I'm so glad that CVs didn't ruin it with some mighty melodrama. Lavanya's reaction today was the way I always wanted it to be. And even in the future, I do not want her to turn nasty. I want her to remain, forge a bond with Arnav and Khushi on a pure friendship and play the cupid that's obviously been missing for this duo!

Have always loved Lavanya but fell in love with her all over again today!



My Hot , Hot Heroine  ๐Ÿค—


Ithni din Kahan thi aap... mere dil tho thod hi diya aapne ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’” ..Mere dil main kya kya Khayal aaya..Aap nahi Samjhoge...**  reluctantly puts aside Khushi persona **

Hiii Tes Love ,

Believe it or not... Missed u a lot !! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Thank You, Hun ... Yes.., Today.I felt that Lavanya  took everyone's breath away ...She also showed that under that pancakes , there ticks a good heart ..I just wish that the CV's don't ruin it by turning her Grey or a vamp...I would love it  if she plays cupid or even brings Khushi back into ASR's life when the hate track takes place...

I never disliked her  but today I really liked the mature way of her's..๐Ÿ˜Š
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: tanthya



Extremely Long..Suji  ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿค— ...But I find Once I begin ..I am unable to isshtop.. must  try to curb my enthu .. Have got a growing feeling that I am actually sending readers to sleep..๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ


dont stop...keep writing๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—...had great fun reading ur long post๐Ÿ˜ƒ
like ur analysis of characters๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ not a regular here...but will surely look out for ur extremely looong posts๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 12 years ago
A Magnificent post! Absolutely agree๐Ÿ‘โญ๏ธ
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: ssweety007


dont stop...keep writing๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—...had great fun reading ur long post๐Ÿ˜ƒ
like ur analysis of characters๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ not a regular here...but will surely look out for ur extremely looong posts๐Ÿ˜†



Will Do..Now That I have one Bakri..My enthu doubles again ..next time u may even get thesis ๐Ÿ˜‰..So, Beware ..have warned u now itself..!!๐Ÿคฃ..


Hop in regularly, Suji Chellam  .. and be my bread n Butter ..More butter  than Bread  ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†
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