Originally posted by rasyafan
for your kind information in hindu marriages mangalsutra tieing and sindoor bharne se shadi ho jati hai and 7 nahi 5 fero ke hi baad shadi ho jati hai which can never be broken
even if one does not take 7 feras jai mal bhi na pehnao then also boy and a girl ki marriage ho jati hai
sirf 7 vachan bole jaye zaroori nahi
as for bhabhi dewar marriage legality to baad me aati hai pehle social norms are against it just as they are against marriages between first blood cousins unhe bhi shadi karne se koi law nahi rok sakta but again social norms are against it
agar har ghar me dewar bhabhi ki shadi hoti rahi then kya haal hoga hamare samaj ka
whatever they show in tv s is compklete crap and nonsense
@bold 4 ur kind info, acc. 2 Hindu scriptures & m.impt Vedas no maariage is complete till 7 pheras & even if a gal doesn't want 2 marry boy she can refuse till 6 &1/2 pheras.so don't give false infos & i m pretty sure abt it as i'd read abt it & one of my uncle also does all these marriage rituals & oder havans etc.!!
its a difft matter that ppl don't know abt it so they think only 5 pheras r sufficient but acc. 2 Hindu scriptures thats not complete.
@bold red abt devar-bhabhi marriage. 1st u need 2 know the exact & true meaning of devar. In sanskrit it means "Dwi" "Var" which means "Dusra Var" in english it means 2nd groom. vedas've given full sanction 2 the devar-bhabhi marriage after husband's death!!and it has social sanction 2, so its neither immoral nor illegal. Go & read sum vedas.
and abt marriage btn 1st cousins is barred in Hinduism but there r many Hindu communities in India where gals r married 2 their maternal uncle(mother's bro & or his son.its v.common in S.India & only marriage btn children of ur chacha aur tayas & even maasi's r barred.
and this barring of marriage btn these relations is due 2 the prob of Inbreeding depression where genes of sum diseases get accumulated but its not barred after 7generations from father's side & 5 generations from mother's side r taken!!then there can b marriage btn 1st cousins & even same gotra marriage r sanctioned if gal & boy belongs 2 difft states or from distant states!!
Edited by tiny15 - 12 years ago