Relationship status: It's complicated - Page 4

Originally posted by: momma1128

@Anne - I can only go to your posts and hit like because there is never anymore for me to say 😆.  I thought the CVs were brilliant in showing this part of him.  I was wondering all week what it was that he wouldn't be able to handle and this was it, he brought her to the dark side and now he's kicking himself.

 

Edited by Vistaa - 12 years ago

@ momma:
WOW excellent post ...top most ...describing todays episode so perfectly..
@Mcdarcyfan:

Lovely post for a great episode. This episode certainly did a number on me too. I am walking around the house all sad and snarky😳

What a couple, totally made for each other. if they could just put their massive egos aside and talk.

Poor KKG had to deal with his snarkiness (is that a word😕) back to back for the necklace and then the outfit. I did like her quiet, polite reply to him and I am glad she did not break down in front of him. ASR not being able to handle her tears, his remorse and his mini breakdown, I hope does not leave any doubt in anybody's mind that he does not enjoy watching her in pain. Anyone calling him a sadist today?😃

Both Barun and Sanaya did a great job portraying their pain.👏

Precap left me a bit confused though. Is he not going to pursue her anymore, not going to try to face her feelings, is he going to go ahead with the engagement with LA? I was hoping for some rabba ve moments during the week leading up to the engagement.

How does LA and even Anjali not notice any undercurents between Arhi? And I hope they don't show Anjali going back into her bubble when pigwa spins a story on being questioned by her about the ring. That would be so disappointing. Strangely, it has not occurred to anyone that KKG's fiance, Anjali's husband not only have the same name but they are in the same profession and both seem to travel a lot.😆 😕 Atleast the Guptas have this info.

Hi Anu...Unfortunately, the character of ASR has not budged from his initial belief that money commands respect nothing else...Frankly speaking I would rather have seen some progress and some change in his ill conceived notions ...which respects not only money but only people who have it...and degrades people who don't ....I kind of see a parallel between people who are racists...and can't get over their fundamntal beliefs...however ill conceived they may be...

  

Sorry this may offend any one who wants to believe after all he is good in heart ...he loves Khushi..and so on...but his behavior was simply disgusting...and there is no excuse... Edited by MsUniverse - 12 years ago

@Sush - I agree with you - he hit very very low below the belt.  And by going by the tears in his eyes, he realizes how heinous it was.  He even uttered to La that he had to get out of there because he couldn't face the dukh, and then quickly covered his tracks.  So, in this way, he is different from racists, in that he recognizes that what he did was wrong, that his words inflict harm and are not an absolute. If you believe that he is so depraved, you also have to believe that he is beyond saving.

@Shastradhari - it was a whole week building from the fallout of the ME.  It had to be done.  We knew ASR will not take the news of engagement well.  Just how badly we had to see.

Originally posted by: momma1128

@Sush - I agree with you - he hit very very low below the belt.  And by going by the tears in his eyes, he realizes how heinous it was.  He even uttered to La that he had to get out of there because he couldn't face the dukh, and then quickly covered his tracks.  So, in this way, he is different from racists, in that he recognizes that what he did was wrong, that his words inflict harm and are not an absolute. If you believe that he is so depraved, you also have to believe that he is beyond saving.

 I am surprised that you think he believes she is a gold digger.  I think that belief of his went out the window when he started helping her.  There are too many things he noticed about her working and being honest.  At this point in the story, he needles her with this point because he knows that is one of her hot buttons...just like KKG knows that getting him to admit there is a god is his.

I found his behavior apprehensible, but I also found KKG behavior irritating when she tricked him into doing puja and interfering in the business of La and ASR live in because these were foundations of her belief system, not his.  It is easier to stomach KKG's tenets as they may be close to our own, while his are alien and very much against the belief in the goodness of men.

I am however dying to know why it is that he believes that everyone can be bought.  I don't know when the CVs intend to reveal this.

Edited by MsUniverse - 12 years ago

@Sush - I think the difference in principles shown from the beginning was that he believes that everyone can be bought (that promo before the show started on the golf course where he says khareed koro us admi ko, and where he threw the wad of money at her with the scooter promo).  But I agree, the writers do use this aukat business at every turn, as they do her Devi Maiyya.  That being said, I think they did it on purpose to show how deeply he wounded her and how he has to crawl back.

Great analysis as always👍🏼
Both Barun and Sanaya nailed the scene today, could feel both of their pain😭

great post and great discussion. Edited by peachesandcream - 12 years ago