Give ASR a break - Page 3

@Su - folks can't relate and don't want to because the girl is hurt.  And they think in our support of ASR, or rather understanding of the character and his issues/his brain, we cannot relate to the girl, which is a falsehood. Edited by momma1128 - 12 years ago

Lets have characters who are human, with some emotions and faults, we can relate to them, yes what Arnav did maybe is not right but then he is human at times we do act with our head and not our heart...

Thank god the font size can't go above 7. My head was spinning reading some of the colourful,huge posts!!!! People just can't expect a person to change in few days. All these ppl were waiting for a proposal today I guess. He treated khushi the same way he has treated her all these months but today arnav-bashing andolan is at its peak and the drama hasn't even started..

Those of us that found ASR's behaviour today reprehensible are not doing it because we are not mature or adults or whatever else you may think. Most of us are just upset that so many women find ASR's behaviour acceptable! That's shocking! Women usually are their own enemies; heard of cat fights? Even in the corporate world there will be women who will be less inclined to understand another woman's pov and try to outsmart one another!

I am not saying that what ASR did was out of character for the sketch the CVs have provided us, but what he did was not something any woman can accept. Khushi has been humiliated, insulted and demeaned too many times by him and she was ready to forgive all of those past actions... I can't imagine how the poor girl can ever trust him again!

I totally agree with you sunaina! nice post👍🏼

Originally posted by: ipkknd_2011

Those of us that found ASR's behaviour today reprehensible are not doing it because we are not mature or adults or whatever else you may think. Most of us are just upset that so many women find ASR's behaviour acceptable! That's shocking! Women usually are their own enemies; heard of cat fights? Even in the corporate world there will be women who will be less inclined to understand another woman's pov and try to outsmart one another!

I am not saying that what ASR did was out of character for the sketch the CVs have provided us, but what he did was not something any woman can accept. Khushi has been humiliated, insulted and demeaned too many times by him and she was ready to forgive all of those past actions... I can't imagine how the poor girl can ever trust him again!

Edited by momma1128 - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: momma1128

Not in a single post did anyone say that what he did was right.  Not a single one.  What they say is that the behavior is understandable because of his character, which you do too.  But you obviously feel that we have to choose a side, and actually, I am on ArHi's side.  Together.  The pain is shared.  He hurt himself by also hurting Khushi.  You will see it.  He will ache for her but right now, anger is ruling his mind and his decisions.  Having never been in love before, ASR doesn't understand no matter how much he hurts her or distances himself from her, he cannot unlove KKG.  And because I understand this side, I feel bad for both of them.  Does it excuse him, no, but it explains why I won't be calling him a creep.

I do not think Khushi is any of those things you mention right now, her tears are for her heart breaking and the unsaid answer to her question, which she already knows the answer to.

Bingo, Anu!

^ I agree with Momma! Edited by Simply_Smart - 12 years ago

@momma1128
I am not taking sides either! We all love a good love story! I am a total chick-flick kinda gal, but I cannot stand by and condone a man's crass actions! When it dawned on him that he had blundered, a simple "sorry" would have assuaged our hurt pride (Khushi's, I mean :-)

Originally posted by: ipkknd_2011

@momma1128
I am not taking sides either! We all love a good love story! I am a total chick-flick kinda gal, but I cannot stand by and condone a man's crass actions! When it dawned on him that he had blundered, a simple "sorry" would have assuaged our hurt pride (Khushi's, I mean :-)

Edited by momma1128 - 12 years ago