I have a lot to say but will only say Sharada does not know the reality of her marriage so her advise is right ... a successful marriage can't happen if you keep sharing your things with others, you have to maintain the trust, trust is the most important factor in any relationship and once that is broken nothing can mend it ... and that trust requires keeping certain things to yourself. Many women ruin their household just by suspecting every act of their hubby ... kastur does not know Mohan's truth so she is right in not suspecting him over every little thing. I don't think Mohan has done anything as yet to make her suspicious ... except when he screamed at her for jewellery ... but there too she knows or thinks she made a mistake as he had asked her to keep it to herself and no one should find out and now Saroj might since she gave the jewellery to her, so kastur feels she has let Mohan down ... i don't see anything wrong in the advise sharadha gave since neither she nor kastur know the reality. And yes its trye Gala household is a different household but Desai's also know Mohan is different from them so they feel if Mohan is good to Kastur nothing else matters and so far Mohan has not done anything which will make them super suspicious or even make kastur suspicious.
All the things you mentioned were the ones they should have thought about before marrying Kastur to Mohan, now there is no point in suspecting until Mohan does some big disaster because lets assume even if they find Mohan is bad now, Kastur can either get a divorce after that or will have to put up with whatever comes her way. So I feel there is no point wearing the suspicion glasses now till Mohan's truth actually comes out. I am saying this from a wife's POV ... i feel kastur is doing the right thing, since she does not know the truth she has to trust Mohan, if a wife starts suspecting hubby over everything she will only make her life hell.
We know the wedding is not an ideal arranged marriage kinda thing, they don't so they are right ... yes they should have done the inquiries before wedding, which they did not, wrong on their part ... now sharadha's advise is the right one in my opinion and kastur not suspecting mohan over every little thing is also right approach because amidst all other things Mohan has done few small things to make Kastur feel he does care about her (whether he meant or not is another debate) and that is one reason why kastur is not suspecting i think
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