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Oh this 'trust' of TV characters! Yes, the trust is meant to be more than they 'trust' themselves. The trust is supposed to be never dying. Never fading.
But, one incident, one outside poisoner, and boom goes the trust out of the door. There are suddenly ego problems, anger, discarding behavior, tantrums.
This is divine love. This is divine trust. Wow, I am amazed.
Guys, do you know what is the meaning of the word trust? Trust is knowing what the person would do in a given situation. Trust is not for once doubting that person's thoughts, words or actions. Trust is letting a person not be 'himself' and yet believing there must be a reason behind that changed.
Trust is being in the state of assured resting of the mind on the integrity, veracity, justice, friendship and principles of someone.
But look at Dev's trust. He trusts Radhika's love. He knows she can't love anyone more than her. But suddenly he is questioning her integrity, veracity, justice, principles? What for? For the few words that a murti of sacrifice, Barkha told him. What is his ground to trust Barkha? He has known Barkha only for a few months through Radhika. He trusts Barkha because "Barkha" sacrificed for Rpiti, him and his family. Point taken. But if he can question Radhika based on Barkha's input, why can't he question Barkha based on Radhika's input. Even Radhika has done a lot in the past, if not more, equal to Barkha to gain his trust. Had Barkha not married the two, Radhika had willingly sacrificed her love, and was ready to lead a single life in his remembrance. Had Barkha and him not stopped her, she had willingly let go of her suhaag for her. And, if it is only 'natural' to be a human being and be jealous of Barkha, wouldnt you once think it is only natural and human for Barkha, to be jealous of the praise Radhika gets?
No, Dev has no trust in Radhika. All his trust is in Barkha.Because, in his mind he knows "No matter what Barkha will do no wrong!". Not, "No matter what Radhika can do no wrong"
It pains me to write this, but sad as it is, His trust is on Barkha. The unquestioning trust that should have been on Radhika instead!
Agar "trust" ko hamesha prove karna pade, ya ek impression ya perceived behavior ka mohtaj rehna pade... agar trust tab hi ho jab insaap aapke mutabik behave kare, jab trust ka matlab ho ki insaan ko prove karna pade, to trust kahan ka bhaiya? Sach pe to sari duniya vishwas karti hai. Suraj ko duniya suraj kehti hai. Vishwas to tab hai jab mein suraj ko chaand kahun, aur tum duniya se lado, ki duniya tu nahi mera sanam sachha hai!
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