Posted: 22 September 2011 at 5:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _SiinnceMaan_
Originally posted by aa123.80Hey hun, first and foremost thank you for providing your views. I agree completely with your perspective and I understand where you are coming from. But it's not Arnav that I am solely worried about, it's Khushi. Now us being girls - we all have that friendship rule. Never go out or fall for your friends partner or ex. It's against the rules. Now as I said Khushi & Lavanya aren't really friends but they are women. And who should know more about a woman's feelings than a woman herself?
Umm, I kinda agree with you. It's not fair to Lavanya cause she loves Arnav, or so I presume. The love hasn't really been shown, so assuming that Lavanya does love Arnav, and she's trying her best to fit in his family, it would seem unfair if she doesn't get love in return.
However, it's not really unfair, cause Arnav doesn't love her back. It's pretty obvious that Arnav really isn't in love with her, and it would also be wrong to think that La is being treated unfairly or wrongly, cause it's not really Arnav's fault if he doesn't love Lavanya. And if he doesn't love her, she can't really expect him to stay in a relationship with her just cause she loves her. So yeah, although it's sad for Lavanya, it's also something that can't be helped, cause there's no explanation for love. In fact, I think once La realises ASR's feelings, she'd want to break up with ASR herself (presuming the CVs take the track ahead logically and sensibly) cause you don't wanna be trapped with someone who'd never reciprocate the love.
However, it's for both La and ASR to realise that they're going nowhere with this relationship, and the sooner they realise the better.
In Khushi's perspective - Arnav and Lavanya are in a serious relationship. Now I'm just confused how the show will proceed in showing such a respectful and courageous girl forget about the fact that although one sided, Lavanya does like him and thus continue to fall deeper in love with Arnav. For example: If I knew a girl liked a guy, and despite the fact that it might be unrequited and one sided, I would still find it wrong to pursue the guy. Even if the guy turned around and claimed that he liked me and not the girl I knew, I would find it wrong to be with him because I already knew about the girl's feelings. Do you know what I mean?
Yep, I do get your point, and I do agree on most bits. It's wrong if Arnav and Khushi get together WHILE Lavanya and Arnav are still in that relationship (although it doesn't even seem like one atm).
It's wrong if Lavanya is kept in the dark about Arnav loving Khushi and Khushi loving Arnav while she's still in the belief that Arnav loves her. But what if their relationship ends before that? Just cause Lavanya loved Arnav, I don't think that's really a huge reason for Khushi to stay away from Arnav. Cause he didn't love her back, as I said in my earlier post. It's wrong if Khushi lies to Lavanya while she herself goes and tells Arnav that she loves him. But since I'm sure this isn't gonna happen, I don't find it wrong. Once ASR and La break up, or ASR realises his true feelings for Khushi, it's definitely not wrong on Khushi's part...
In fact, what I don't realise is that if Asr and La are in the serious relationship that they both claim to be in, how can La not see ASR's indifference towards her? And not even question him on why he wants to have her as a girlfriend?
Edited by aa123.80 - 22 September 2011 at 5:31am