Originally posted by koolsadhu1000You know , yesterday's episode makes me ask many questions .
1] Does Charu who was once the epitome of dignity not know the simple etiquette of asking her husband questions ALONE , without any children present by curtly dismissing Devki saying I need to talk to him alone please ? Does ANYONE say infront of young bahu Main apne Pati ko jaanna chahti hoon etc and Be careful u may have to give Safaai ? I thought Charu was too well bred for that .
apparently not.. her mahaanta ki hawa pushes all culture out of the door.. my parents bicker all the time.. but when its serious.. we know the door closes and we dont have access to it.. even now we just have no room btw that equation.. well enough Charu wanted ans from her husband.. what has D with smug face and folded hands gonna achieve other than sadistic pleasure.. har rishtey ki had hoti hain.. D has conveniently overstepped EACH AND EVERY step.. worst was Charu digging their past in front of D.. telling him my dad chose you when you were a nobody.. waah what a honorable thing to say in front of one's daughter.. har kisiki izzat.. izzar and iMVs izzat is kachra..
2] Why did Devki NOT answer the question that IMV asked ...Just who put you in charge of taking decisions in the Virani household ? I wanted an answer to that , as she is being very cheeky .
She is the self-assumed JOan of Arc entrusted to emancipate the burden each Virani lives with.. whether its VV or Rajvi or Sid.. tomorrow she will fight for Charu's cause if she found out abt CP.. mark my words.. this keeda has no prophylaxis.. How BB said she forgets respect for elders only when pushed.. How much has she pushed others.. IMV blasted her after she incessantly nagged him.. after she overstepped every boundary.. after she lives beyond her expiry in the household.. WHY IS SHE STILL THERE..
3] What did she mean she wanted to know the future of Vaibhav's honewaali WIFE ? With WHAT right ? Is she Sabina's Mummy ? Guardian ? Sister ? WHO ?
find out about your own future woman.. you are not even a share holder in V. Ind to have the right to find out the future of Viranis for your own money.. you brazenly capsize all the investment they do in your ventures and then you have the right to stand face to face to ask for Virani bahu future.. and WHO Sabina.. You want to know her future.. i think both Sabina and iMV are old and independent enough to think for themselves.. last they need is a glorified idiot questioning or fighting for them
4] Why should IMV answer ANY thing to Devki ? What made her think he is answerable to her ? He had not FORCED her in this marraige , he had merely forced Sabina out . Her Grandpa relayed her YES with HER Marzi . If while signing on divorce papers she did not feel answerable to either BB or IMV , the two elders who brought about this alliance , why should IMV be in any way answerable to her about issues that r in no way related to her and strictly between him and his son ?
Exactly.. She runs and comes to ask him the answers.. coz she feels let down as a disciple.. first of all she never even justified that role beyond reading his book.. secondly.. he is NOT someone who has to be questioned.. there is a difference between questioning and enquiring.. Her attitude was rather direspectful.. and today she did the same to BB. who is SHE.. to ask him.. when her mother never did..And I loved how he treated her.. I gave you the choice didn't I.. then what's all this questioning about.. yes she doesnt feel the need to be answerable to ANYONE.. but wants answer from everyone.. I want parimita to come back and tell her to grow up.. not take herself seriously till she can THINK and evaluate..
5] Who is Devki , a mere chit of a 24 year old girl , to talk about LIFE to any elder of IMV's age ? To talk about life or to philosophize about it , one needs to LIVE it . Has she even BEGUN living it uptill now ? What does she know about it that she dares to teach fifty or sixty year olds about it ?
not just a 60 yr old.. a 60 yr self made man who has seen the best and worst of life.. without any protection.. without his parents security.. she is capable of talking big about life coz she read it somewhr. .she did not have to live shelterless for a day.. without food and basic necessities to know when life strikes romanticism takes the earliest hike.. her claim to harsh reality is finding out the one her hubby loves is an actor she likes too.. BIG DEAL.. just coz you like her how can you expect everyone to like her.. heck you like GOLAS.. now is IMV supposed to be sucking it coz you think that real joy..
6] Who told Devki that infamous pasts can be 'washed away ' with 'LOVE" ? What kind of super bullpucky statement was that ? Where did she see it ? Infamous pasts HAUNT you for life . In her 24 year old life , whose infamous past did Devki see being washed away ?
Lemme guess some chindi romantic novel or a self help book that glorifies love and life.. that all one needs is love.. so who cares if you sleep hungry on the footpath or live with a tainted mother's past.. all you need is LOVE..well she may be capable of that love.. but not VV.. when Sabina's now infamous mother will be thrusted every morning in the papers.. coz they may love her.. but no one else feels tht compulsion
7] For that matter , is Devki qualified to talk about 'LOVE" when she herself has not been in any relationship uptill now ? When she herself has merely experienced only a strong attraction in the teething stage for Vaibhav who never even responded to it in the slightest degree , how can she claim to be such an expert on understanding what Vaibhav is going through etc etc ?
Don't you know the mahaan unrequited love is the greatest of all and the bearer mother supreme.. she can write books and books on love apparently.. based on her mahaan feelings.. her dire need to see fulfilment in her lover's life.. so what if V may never see that fulfilment thro S who now lives an incomplete existence and is incapable of complementing him right now.. Love for her is ROMANCE and fulfilment.. if she knew 2 things about love she would love her father in law.. her family and give them respect and rights not ramble non-sense and thrust her POV.. her idea of love is rather misconstrued.. by what right is she stopping Viraj now.. by the same logic he has all rights to love too right
8] BB had refused Ishvar as he did not have money for his daughter . He accepted the same Ishvar when he HAD the money and status years later for his granddaughter . What had Devki thought was the criteria of her grandfather's acceptance of Ishvar's proposal ? She need not really know the secrets of Ishvar's past for it at all , this is basic common sense . Had BB given permission coz she was at that time in 'love' with Vaibhav ? Who told her that permission for marraige is given when one experiences 'love' ? Devki was in 'love' when she married ? That today she asked BB WHAT SHOULD BE THE BUNIYAAD FOR MARRAIGE ...LOVE OR MONEY ?
Baa clearly told her.. I am worried for your FUTURE.. I had a dream of seeing you SECURE in a GOOD FAMILY.. with a GOOD REPUTE in SOCIETY.. relieve me of my burden.. wont you? what part of this request was incoherent to her..what part gave her the impression that it was only admiration and affection for motilal master.. what part? wasnt her qs obvious what good was dali for her grandfather to chose him except family repute.. why ask obsolete questions.. use tht lil things in the skull called brain.. if the buniyaad of marriage was only love.. there wont be so many divorces in recent times.. the divorce rather is directly proportional to lvoe marriages and which age does she live in.. look around every other day some guy or gal is FALLING OUT of love..
9] What was she exactly accomplishing , going to now question BB about Ishvar's question etc ? Has she once thought WHERE she is headed to and WHY ? Digging worthless pasts , glorifying husband's ex , honestly , has she NO LIFE ?
She deserved his ambiguity.. totally deserves it.. coz she is dumb to disregard the obvious.. taking everyone and everything on face value.. looking at the pretentious glorification in people's projection of moralities.. and upholding it.. that her LIFE STATEMENT.. zilch substance at this point.. cant do an insect's worth in life.. now m waiting for Viraj to crush her
10] Who was Master to give permissions like a king who disperses his durbar about go and do joint enquiry of Ishvar ? Why the pompous utterance of MOTILAL MASTER KI BIWI again yesterday if the utterance of IM VIRANI is disliked so much as arrogance ? WHO is Motilal Master ...Motilal Nehru or something ?
Exactly that pissed me off more... who is he to delegate rights.. and why so unfair.. If Vaibhav's mom has rights.. her first exercising right should be to questioning her OWN SON.. for tricking her and the family under a forced sham.. for making a mockery of their sentiments.. for making a mockery of marriage.. who is she or D to ask IMV anything.. at least IMV has convictions.. whats Vs excuse of getting married.. esp when he was going to ctrl alt delete it anytime he wanted..and I dont get it.. what is his big grouse on the kathputli etc.. where does he COMPROMISE .. exactly where.. he can live a designed mangrol life in a mansion in mumbai.. munch away the gathiyas he wants.. have his jhula.. if IMV's kids really wanted to break free they would.. has Sid ever wanted to consciously fight for his dreams by staging a walk out.. VV still doesnt know tht he potentially walked out on everything.. If they so detest IMV assuming rights over his children.. is he not doing the same.. assuming that his POV and ideologies be respected by his son and the future generations.. unnecessary victimization.. sit in the arms of luxury and cry foul.. They sound as superficial as Paris hilton and her issues in life