Posted: 20 September 2011 at 10:48am | IP Logged
Originally posted by princessunara
one question to all who says it was kinjal's faults that made them
marry her off to dhawal..why did they have to marry her off to dhawal in
the 1st place? it wasn't like she was really pregnant..a stupid young
girl did something blinded by love..for that one moment of insanity does
that mean give her an irrevocable punishment?
so what would happen
if she didn't get married at that time? they didn't have to find an
extremely traditional type family for her..there r enough rich families
around who r not stuck in the age old traditions..she'd have been happy
in such a family n they wouldn't have had any problem accepting her
either..they could have waited n done such a marriage for her..
what would have happened if she didn't get to marry at all? is marriage
the do all n end all? dhawal is a nice guy n all..but she'd have been
way better off if she was single all her life than the life Koki made
her live by marrying her off to Dhawal..
i was an ardent kinjal hater(not that i love her even now) cz of everything she did to Gopi..i have cursed n wished every ill fortune on her head at the beginning of the serial.. but what she was made to do was wrong..
Okay, I used to have this modern type of thinking, marriage is not everything, Indian movies are just shaadi shaadi only, I don't want to watch them, to my parents...
But now, I believe it's better for a woman to have a life partner (therefore marriage), imagine your parents die, your brothers and sisters marry and have their own families, you are the only one who goes to them at christmas and occassions, you end up dying alone in your house man, it's not a life to be without a companion, without children, it's not good.
Bringing the story back to Kinjal, she had ruined her reputation, the milkman had told all the rich families that Kinjal was pregnant from her boyfriend and that her rishta was dissolved because of this. Had the Modi's told the rich families in their circle that crazy kid she had spread a bad rumour so she doesn't get married, which family would accept that???
They would think two things, the Modi's have aborted the baby or gosh she's so crazy what rumours is she going to make up once we have her as a family member, she will destroy the family izaat, and also her thinking will spoil the daughters we have in our house...remember the aunty in the US rejected her because they had bahu they had daughters and they didn't want a girl with bad reputation they, it might influence the girls in their family.
So taking this all in they had a proposal from Dhawal, relative of Rashi and Gopi, he has a good heart why not marry her there. I think it was right to marry her to Dhawal, because had they now said okay lets send her abroad to study, she is a wilful girl she would have genuinely come back having been fooled by another guy and possibly come back pregnant for real, or sold into prostitution or something bad like that.