Originally posted by kamjal
i totally disagree with you. it's not what she said but the manner in which she said it and the fact that she was also disregarding her husband because her is of a lower status than her modi family. she was arrogant and selfish blaming everyone for her marriage other than herself. didn't you notice the way she pushed dawal's hand when he was preventing her from falling, it show disrespect to her husband who i believe would have supported her has she told him before hand. Ahem being a dutiful son would not want to see their mum being disrespected in that manner and i do believe that if i was in his shoes then i would do the same to either my brother or sister. we live in 21 century does not mean we forget respecting the elders and that where she was at fault and to be honest this time i support ahem
Kokila has raised a harridan like herself, even Rashi thinking it at the end of the episode said whose daughter is she, Kokila thinks she is always right, and similarly Kinjal, Kinjal watched her mother bamboozle her dad Parag that is why she also behaves the way she does with her husband...yes Dhawal should have been consulted before doing this modelling and his a good sort of guy, if she had taken the time to explain why she is doing this work he would have understood and even volunteered to over her protection on her modelling assignments, but you have seen her mother Kokila disregarding Parag, not taking any advice from him, making all the decisions regarding her children by herself. She's a harridan and So is Kinjal.
I also believe Kinjal was brought up spoilt, all the luxuries, yes she ruined her reputation and the parents had no option but to marry her to Dhawal (see my answer to princesssunara above for the other options they discarded). But marrying her to a guy that can't afford air conditioning, that can't afford her way of living, living in the slums where people are peeping in the windows at her, no separate bathroom, no privacy, theft of her things, these things were new to Kinjal, she had never associated with such people or such places...so I believe she was right to say when you married me off, you washed your hands off me, you never wanted to know what is happening and how I am, Kinjal was a Modi it's still her birthright and she deserve a house somewhere else, a car as she had a car with her parents for her personal use. They have the money to provide this for her now, that's the problem with parents when you raise your kid with luxuries it must always be behind your mind that she/he will think this is normal life, that is what has happened to Kinjal, she's asking for what she has been accustomed to.
Also I'm sorry you believe a man should raise his hand to a woman who has half his strength, hitting is never the answer, she was only talking, Aham should have talked unless he is thinking his not capable of convincing her with his argument, I agree the situation was tense, Kokila has collapsed before he was thinking I've got to stop her talking because I don't know what she is going to say and mum might collapse as you could see Kokila's breathing blood pressure was rising, but he should have pulled her aside and talked her calmly, because even when they got home Hetal & Chirag were asking why she has done this, so Aham missed an opportunity to understand then and there what her realities are...why she is seeking work in the first place...and Kinjal didn't finish college, she's not skilled, she is only a pretty face so modelling is what is open to her, also if Aham hit her he will mark her face, whilst a woman wouldn't, the same face she wants to earn a living with it also. So I believe because she stuck to the facts pertaining to her, she didn't deserve the slap. When her mother slapped her when she was pretending to be pregnant, I was cheering though...π
Edited by Nafisa_blossoms - 12 years ago