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I start with some Thoughts on Guilt :
Guilt is an emotion that comes up around thoughts of the hurt and pain that we cause others. Guilt is also the ego's way of saying, "Look at all of the bad things I have done. I am no good (enter shame) and I don't deserve any happiness." Guilt is a pity party, a way for the illusion that we call ego to stay alive. If we focus on the guilty feelings and shameful thoughts, we are focused on the self, and we are not dealing with the problem in a straightforward manner. So we have guilt reminding us of all the wrong deeds we have done, and shame telling us we are bad. These two emotions keep us in a cycle of thoughts and feelings that keeps us acting out on others and ourselves in a totally negative way, and we build negative karma that keeps us in a suffering state.
Thoughts on Narcissists :
narcissists are less sophisticated and they use all manner of abuse to domesticate their kin and partners in life. This includes physical violence, verbal violence (during intensive rage attacks), psychological abuse, brutal "honesty", sick or offending humour, and so on.
When we are trying to get
what we want out of life
- life can be very hard.
When we learn to want
what we get in our lives
- life can be very easy.
Guilt is an emotion that comes up around thoughts of the hurt and pain that we cause others. Guilt is also the ego's way of saying, "Look at all of the bad things I have done. I am no good (enter shame) and I don't deserve any happiness." Guilt is a pity party, a way for the illusion that we call ego to stay alive. If we focus on the guilty feelings and shameful thoughts, we are focused on the self, and we are not dealing with the problem in a straightforward manner. So we have guilt reminding us of all the wrong deeds we have done, and shame telling us we are bad. These two emotions keep us in a cycle of thoughts and feelings that keeps us acting out on others and ourselves in a totally negative way, and we build negative karma that keeps us in a suffering state.
Thoughts on Narcissists :
narcissists are less sophisticated and they use all manner of abuse to domesticate their kin and partners in life. This includes physical violence, verbal violence (during intensive rage attacks), psychological abuse, brutal "honesty", sick or offending humour, and so on.
When we are trying to get
what we want out of life
- life can be very hard.
When we learn to want
what we get in our lives
- life can be very easy.
Cheri Huber
To awaken within the dream is our purpose now.
When we are awake within the dream,
the ego-created earth-drama comes
to an end and a more benign and
wondrous dream arises.
To awaken within the dream is our purpose now.
When we are awake within the dream,
the ego-created earth-drama comes
to an end and a more benign and
wondrous dream arises.
Eckhart Tolle
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