Originally posted by vivacious_gurl
Deeps please dont think am upset with u or anything... just that wanted to let u know... if i give positive feedback i hv the right to voice my opinion when the feedback isnt very positive right?? since the time Geet has started looking for options for Pari to become mother... somewhere i lost teh chord with the story.,.. it isnt appealing to me ... however close a person might be, a normal healthy person can nvr understand the pain a person who has shortfalls experience... and hence its always adviced to let them deal their pain and not to make them realise it again and again... thats teh truth of life whiche they hv to handle on their own... Geet's intentions though nobel are really interference... and kinda making mocekry of Pari's condition... letting a person know that u adopt coz u cant conceive is like making a mockery out of her condition... adoption or not is something which shud hv come to pari's mind on her own or Yash's mind... Geet giving those ideas isnt right at all... whatever be ur explanation... i wont be convinced that what she is doing is right... also from ur precap i sense that Geet might suggest to being a surrogate mother for the baby for Pari and Yash... Surrogate mothers r generally someone who are unrelated to the couple so that they dont create problem in couple's life later... a surrogate mother who is close to the couple can create probs or hv probs later.. though the egg and sperm hv nuthing to do with the surrogate mother, the fact that she nurtures the child in her womb for 9 months attaches her to the baby...
if its a known person or person close to the couple, she in later years might feel she has a right on the baby and hence generally known people are adviced not become surrogate mothers...
there r things which unmarrid young writers do not understand... u all try to do research ur way but when u r handling such sensitive issues please do indept research...
coz what Geet has been doing till now is total interference in matter making it tougher for Pari...Yash and Maan are absolutely right in thinking that Pari shud be left alone n shud be away from Geet... Geet always allowing Pari to handle Arya and ppl telling Pari that her baby is so cute and Geet or Pari hving to say that Arya isnt her baby... is something no friend who cares about the pother frnd's feelings wud do...
I''m sorry if u felt bad but i needed to tell u that some issues will always be there of which ur understanding isnt very good, such issues will always be a point of conflict between u and ur readers... hope u understand what i just said
if i give positive feedback i hv the right to voice my opinion when the feedback isnt very positive right?? -
agree with u infact waiting for ur feed back...because i know that whatever i write is not correct and appreciableu all try to do research ur way but when u r handling such sensitive issues please do indept research -
me doing the same and i have even planned all the things u have mentioned about surrogacy
coz what Geet has been doing till now is total interference in matter
making it tougher for Pari...Yash and Maan are absolutely right in
thinking that Pari shud be left alone n shud be away from Geet -
as u said Geet is interfering too much...agree with u ppl telling Pari that her baby is so cute and Geet or Pari
hving to say
that Arya isnt her baby... is something
no friend who cares about the
pother frnd's feelings wud do... -
the
situation that i have created that Sheetal misunderstood Arya as Pari's
kid in nothing new it generally happens when the person is unaware of
who is the mother of the kid...Pari tried to tell that Arya is not her kid as that is the fact...Geet didn't say that Arya is not Pari's baby...she told that Pari is baby's maasi...there is a lot of difference in telling that he is not Pari's baby and Pari is baby's maasi this what i tried to convey and
I''m sorry if u felt bad but i needed to tell u that some issues will
always be there of which ur understanding isnt very good, such issues
will always be a point of conflict between u and ur readers -
the issue which i am dealing itself is a controversy i do know about it...it has different opinions among different people as u said
and yar it's just a request from my side...i agree that i am young and not married but plz don't keep this in ur mind while reading the updates Edited by sldeeps - 12 years ago