Posted: 18 September 2011 at 2:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by poppy2009
I wish the creatives handle the entire love triangle between Arnav, Khushi and Lavanya, without turning La into a vamp! The onus of guilt in this case should rest more or less on Arnav's shoulder and it should not be Khushi who should be blamed for creating a rift betwen Arnav and La!
And most importantly, La shouldn't be made a scapegoat to justify Arnav and Khushi's relationship! I just hope, they show a logical and sensitive track, where Arnav realizes his feelings for Khushi (and vice versa) and explains things to La, rather than just have a knee-jerk reaction!
On the other hand, to simplify things, the creatives can show that La herself is not sure about what she feels for Arnav and when he refuses to marry her, realizes that this is not what she needs from her life and breaks off from him!
So glad someone else pointed this particular love "triangle" out, as its been bugging me for a while. I dont actually think La will suddenly realize that she doesnt have Arnav's heart and step back with a "thats okay," in fact, I would have a hard time buying the idea of her character backing off so easily. There are excellent reasons for her to be furious with Arnav and with Khushi as well. Arnav has not made the commitment of marriage with her, but this is no ordinary live in situation either between the two of them. This bringing her into his household is a commitment as well, certainly their relationship is deeper right now than when they were dating and hanging out at the office and her own place.
She is living with his extended family, in my joint family-style house. They are not by themselves in a private place. She is being treated like a prospective spouse by everyone, Nani is mad at her because she isnt good enough to be a WIFE, not a girlfriend. i is teaching her what she needs to fit in as a wife, not just as a girlfriend. She is even changing herself, however much she might hate it, and learning all this to become marriage material.
She has every right to assume that her relationship with ASR is a serious one, which might very well lead to marriage if he just changes his mind, and if she changes sufficiently to please Nani. In all of this, Khushi is a complete shocker. Arnav hopefully, has known La for a while, he prefers her, cares for her as far as she knows. They have had a physical relationship for a while, long enough for her to feel comfortable going to his room at night.
Also, I think we can all see, however reluctantly, that La really loves him, wants to please him, and doesn't want to upset him in any way. She is not the guilty party here, even if she is being mean to Khushi and is clearly an idiot, Arnav has CHOSEN her for himself, and known her to be exactly like this. He cannot choose to do so much with La, and then drop her because another woman haunts his mind without paying for it in some way. I think La being a vamp and a future antagonist would be a justified development, and there is no real hope of Khushi and La being friends even for a short while. No girlfriend will remain oblivious to her man's obsession with another woman permanently, everyone isn't Anjali !!