Together again at the Coffee Table - Page 22

@Sami - actually baba had willed away his house to zoya years before ahmer and zoya met for the first time. he just didnt know zoya is actually baba's grand daughter (whom he hated 😆) 

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@Sami - actually baba had willed away his house to zoya years before ahmer and zoya met for the first time. he just didnt know zoya is actually baba's grand daughter (whom he hated 😆) 

Waise - i m sure when adapting DK to KTLK, they would have kept Indian sensibilities in mind. Afterall most of the cast and crew is from North and Central India. And I'm sure most  of them remember the hoopla caused by that sister-stepson story in Bandini. This one in a way is a much closer relationship. 

On a side note - what is a gotra? heard this term in Laado last year and havent fully understood it.

Tanu i read it just yesterday and i didnt understand it 😳 Is gotra distant family 😕? and the sages part confused me as well ... So several million people are connected thru a common ancestor and hence cant marry 😕and then d court thingy was the final nail in the coffin ... bcos it made it sound like that people themselves are confused 😕

USHAAA 🤗🤗🤗 Edited by Arwen. - 12 years ago

arwen gotra in simple terms is say Ur last name eg in Pakistan too i know in jat community they use last names bhati grewal gill which we Sikhs use too we call that last name as gotra and we r not allowed to marry even a non relative who is from our father and mothers gotra aka last name...so when i had to get married they had to exclude any potential groom from my dad and my mom's last name side..in old days they also used to exclude Nani and dadi's maiden last names...nwo with big population they allow that in some communities

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Tanu i read it just yesterday and i didnt understand it 😳 Is gotra distant family 😕? and the sages part confused me as well ... So several million people are connected thru a common ancestor and hence cant marry 😕and then d court thingy was the final nail in the coffin ... bcos it made it sound like that people themselves are confused 😕

Edited by Armu4eva - 12 years ago

arwen last name marriage is big ethical question in India,bec with this many million population relationship obviously is not possible genetically which is valid only up to 7 generations according to scietists..but still its considered big no no ..in Bengal as  its said its descendent's from rishis..same is in most of north india...basicaly its like common ancestors...but courts sometimes allow such marriages bec legal system is based on British ways Na

But Sami dont people prefer marriages in their own communities/clans?  So people from different gotras can be part of the same clan 😕? Edited by Arwen. - 12 years ago

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last names reminds me ... is their a debate where Bollywood movies are concerned? I mean Ranbir Kapoor and Sonam Kapoor romancing on screen etc 😕

arwen population bahut jayaada hai re never r rishtas ki kami this type of strict regime is done in Bengali Hindus and also jat Sikh communities in some other casts and also other north Indian communities like Brahmin's etc..