Single Mother Vs Abusive Husband?

In the show, what bothered me was when Niharika* and Ishika* told Nuts to marry Kartik because she was pregnant,, and although in the show we know that he's okay, 

 Single mom status is better than living in a abusive relationship...The stigma attached to the single Mom is disappearing...It's better to raise your kid in a peaceful environment  than in a abusive relationship where both child and mother become emotional cripples.

Good question 👏👏...

Nice topic.

Yes, a child should never be in an abusive relationship. But, let's place the facts--Kartik is a victim of abuse first--NOT NUTS.  Emotional and Verbal abuse is far worse than physical abuse, just because you can't see the damage on the person doesn't mean the abuse and damage hasn't occurred.  I'm not defending Kartik's slap, but let's suppose if Kartik was being verbally abusive and Nuts slapped him--people would say "Way to go girl".  Let's not forget Natasha's abusive behaviours--taking drugs (which she was shown sniffing at the rave), ridiculing staff, telling Kartik that her shoe will marry him")--this is far more scarring that a slap and if a guy said this to a girl--I can tell you no one would accept it.  So, why do people all around the world have double standards when it comes to abuse against men??????

In this case, Nuts is not fit to be a mother and quite frankly if the child is Kartik's, he should be allowed to raise the child in a psychologically, normal environment.

Now how did we get to conclusion of "Abusive Husband"????? Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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Good question 👏👏...

My opinion only...

 

I think a single mother is preferable to an abusive husband... (mind you i am not calling KArthik abusive, only asnswering your question with my view at a general level)

 

Why consign yourself to a miserable existence just for the sake of 'log kya kahenge'...

 

Of course, it depends on whether or not you really want to raise a kid...

 

In Nuts' case, i think she is too immature to handle herself let alone a kid... i think abortion is the best bet or someone else raising the kid... i shudder to think the plight of that kid...

 

I think Niharika just wants to marry her off for the sake of her izzat not coz of forcing Ram & Priya... that she can do in other ways too...

 

My POV, no offence meant

If Natasha can sleep with a man and have sex than she is old enough to give birth and raise that baby. Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago

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Now how did we get to conclusion of "Abusive Husband"?????

 

That is not the case here in BALH..Actually we have abusive psycho fiance~ and a very good future husband.  Karthik needs to stay away from psychos as he alreadly lost his cewl once.

 

 

Anyways the situation OP described being single mom and raising a child w/o abusive husband is always better.  But Mom has to be strong and capable.

This content was originally posted by: Dabulls23

Now how did we get to conclusion of "Abusive Husband"?????

 

That is not the case here in BALH..Actually we have abusive psycho fiance~ and a very good future husband.  Karthik needs to stay away from psychos as he alreadly lost his cewl once.

 

 

Anyways the situation OP described being single mom and raising a child w/o abusive husband is always better.  But Mom has to be strong and capable.