Marriage is not just about being with the right person but also being the right person YOURSELF.
Marriage is not just a physical relationship and about two individuals coming together. To sustain a successful marriage it is important that an effort is put in from both sides.
I've noticed that Nivi is and has always been affectionate towards everyone apart from Viren right from when they first got married she has been really unaffectionate towards him, when he always stood by her (this was while she was still oblivious of fact that he is the stalker) and then showing a limited amount of affection towards him even after they got back together and moved back in the Sood house. It's like she knows that she can get away with anything when it comes to Viren because he loves her so much.
Not many will agree with me but i think she is emotionally abusive, but also want to say that even the most loving person is capable of emotional abuse. She is using dwitas love to get what she wants when in fact it is out of guilt she is taking such a drastic step (something i think she doesn't even know herself that she is full of guilt) she is making all the decisions on Viren's behalf.
Emotinal abuse grinds you down and She is emotionally draining Viren by her constant demands, he is having to give in to these demands as he said himself that he is only agreeing to this (signing the papers for the hysterectomy) out of love, but you can see that he is close to breaking point. I'm surprised he hasn't had a nervous breakdown yet as he is investing so much into this marriage but is getting nothing in return.(e.g when they rushed back from the resort, when Nivi started demanding to return for dwita) He has a wife who is busy pleasing others and doesn't have the slightest hint of what the repercussions of her decisions are having on her husband. All this is now leading to Viren being the victim of feeling depressed, worthless and helpless.
Not only that she is also sexually selfish, she is okay to go to him to have her physical needs met but making it out that it's his physical needs that she is meeting and it's not fair to refuse him!!!!!
I do apologise if I have upset or offended anyone.
"Love me without fear.Trust me without wondering.Love me without restrictions.Want me without demand.Accept me how I am."