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Runjhun's reaction To Guddu: What the Heck? (Page 2)

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 4:09pm | IP Logged
Runjhun kind of has feeling for Guddu but she doesn't want to get intimate with him quite yet because

1) She doesn't know he loves her. We all know for a fact that Guddu loves Runjhun and is really attracted to her. Which explains why he kissed her in today's episode but she doesn't. She doesn't even know she loves Guddu. However, the CV's are throwing in scenes here and there which kind of prove that she's kind of getting some feelings for him but not too much.
2) Since Runjhun does not know that Guddu loves her, she thinks it's a challenge and after 30 days Guddu will either change or stay the same. With that being said I don't think she wants to get intimate with someone knowing that she will not be with that specific person for so long. I feel bad for Guddu but I know if I was in Runjhun's position I would probably do the same. Guddu is no less than a stranger for her. They are married to the world but behind doors they are two people who haven't really gotten to know each other.
Now I am going to contradict myself.

I agree with you on the part where you say Guddu's touch still makes her feel uncomfortable. I don't understand why she does not want Guddu touching her at ALL! I mean if it was Abhigyan she really wouldn't mind? I mean she was really close to him and she would let him touch her (well not like that of course but she didn't get disgusted she would actually be shy and be happy about it later) but when it's Guddu she hates it. Maybe because he has done so much to her, and how everyone was pointing fingers at her a questioning her chastity when she was with Guddu one whole night. I guess she's still scared from that night and is not ready to let go of what happened. I can kind of understand why the CV's are showing her being so indifferent with Guddu.

Riya 

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 5:14pm | IP Logged
Lovely post - will comment after i see the episode tonight.

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 10:44pm | IP Logged
I do not like the mamis and the mamas! Always upto no good, I think devi's pregnancy will put her mother to shame.

AS far as Runjhun and Guddu go- well R needs to accept his as her husband. Poor guy really looked out for her and he truly loves her. REally want to see them as happy couple, loving Guddu. 

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Posted: 26 May 2011 at 11:03pm | IP Logged
     To be honest, I kind of understand Runjhun's dread at what may have happened. Firstly, what girl would have been okay with being unconscious, even if it's with one's husband? And secondly, Runjhun still fears that Guddu will leave her after the 30 days are up, remember the SR scene from a while back? If she sleeps with him and he leaves, according to her, she will be forever "ruined." She still does not trust his commitment to this marriage, while Guddu does not trust her reasons for her commitment to this marriage.

     I really wish we saw more of Runjhun being attracted to Guddu, whether it be his looks Wink or his character (i.e. standing up for himself in the face of stupid rules such as at the hospital, being a self-made man with his carom club business).

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Posted: 27 May 2011 at 7:04am | IP Logged
The reaction which runjun shows is right on one side.  She does have a feeling of insecurity of guddu leaving her after 30 days.  Yes, runjun show guddu so admiringly when he came out with his new shirt.  Infact, when runjun places the same dress (after the accident) which guddu usually wears, not talking about amma in front of him, not forcing him to go to mandir; these all shows that runjun has accepted guddu as he is.  I would say guddu hasn't understood this.  One day he is fine with her and the very next minute his character changes. Infact, runjun accepts this also.  Even in the intoxicated condition she is see guddu only.  But this is all unknown to guddu and runjun herself.

Both of them have never expressed their feeling except saying " thank You" all the time and appreciating one another.  Never did they appreciate one's love for other.  

Runjun's fear that what would have if he leaves her after 30 days is very natural fear a woman would get. Atleast the problem will be confined only with her if he leaves.  But once the relationship goes to the next level and he leaves, everything is gone. So I feel its a natural and justified in a way.

But I feel the problem will persist, until they speak out.

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Posted: 27 May 2011 at 7:53am | IP Logged
Welll here is my thoughts on Runjuhns reaction. Even if a woman is head over heels in love with her husband, I dont think she will show any other reaction if she feels like her husband took advantage of her in her unconcious state. In a way it is a rape if that happened and no woman will appreciate that.  To add to that  here Runjuhn is still not clear about Guddu's state of mind yet.I think to her Guddu may leave her at the end of the 30 day period and probably thats why she dont want to get physically intimate with him.
 
As to how the show can end in a week, I totally agree. This end is being forced upon by the channel and the team will have to do a premature end to this lovely story. There was one article which talks about both BBAT and Sangini going off air but the channel has not confirmed either one ending. If it does end next week, to me it shows how spineless the channel is to act this way. They should be straightforward with their viewers if they are planning to end these shows.

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Posted: 27 May 2011 at 8:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Rach1

Welll here is my thoughts on Runjuhns reaction. Even if a woman is head over heels in love with her husband, I dont think she will show any other reaction if she feels like her husband took advantage of her in her unconcious state. In a way it is a rape if that happened and no woman will appreciate that.  To add to that  here Runjuhn is still not clear about Guddu's state of mind yet.I think to her Guddu may leave her at the end of the 30 day period and probably thats why she dont want to get physically intimate with him.
 
As to how the show can end in a week, I totally agree. This end is being forced upon by the channel and the team will have to do a premature end to this lovely story. There was one article which talks about both BBAT and Sangini going off air but the channel has not confirmed either one ending. If it does end next week, to me it shows how spineless the channel is to act this way. They should be straightforward with their viewers if they are planning to end these shows.
 
Rach, as you well know, I have no respect for the PH that produces Sangini.  Its base for any soap they produce is cliched to begin with, so anything that they show is repetitious?
 
This PH handled things a lot differently all along so the contrast in the episodes was easy to pick.
 
I agree with you 100+% about any husband taking advantage of a sleeping wife.  A tender kiss given by a husband to a sleeping wife after coming home late from somewhere is one thing, but to show this when you have based a story on "touch" issues and without any signs of previous intimacies is a hard sell to me.
 
I would not go as far as rape but certainly an inappropriate or unwarranted gesture.  I think in this case people are influenced by Guddu (aka Himmanshoo) and his charms and fail to see the point.
 
Runjhun has more than one reason to suspect men's intentions - first Abhigyan failed her miserably and now Guddu has his ups and downs with her.  Does she really know where she stands with him?  Giving in to your husband intimately is a big deal for any wife - it is the ultimate union of a marriage.  What has Guddu done to date that gives Runjhun a sense of security with him?  Just look at today's episode and the precap.  It is very telling.  So if Runjhun accepts him in every which way, is he going to be a changed man?  Will he be good only after intimacy with his wife?
 
Oh well, I may not convince everyone of my viewpoint and I am ok with that.


Edited by gardes - 27 May 2011 at 8:56am

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Posted: 27 May 2011 at 11:25am | IP Logged
Gardes, I agree with you.  The way I look at it though is there there are two different relationships between Guddu and Runjhun.

1.  The drama relationship dealing with getting Guddu arrested, Guddu touching Runjhun, Guddu breaking Runjhun's engagement, Guddu hating Runjhun, Runjhun being disgusted by Guddu...

2.  The developing relationship of a loving husband and wife who are getting to know one another.

There are scenes when they are strictly in phase #2 and then scenes where they are in phase #1.  I still haven't seen the scene but I think the kissing her scene was #2 until he finds the calendar and then it goes back to #1.  The two have not confronted their feelings so they both act like two different people around one another.  Because I view the kissing scene as #2, I am ok with it because in that moment the past dram was not there and he was just being a loving husband looking at his beautiful wife (who is spent the day with and really enjoyed the time together...)  I really think the two relationships exist between the two of them so you almost have to see what role they are playing with each other today...drama role or marriage role.

I wrote in the WU for today that Guddu's thoughts are heading for a clash, and I hope that these two relationships are heading for a clash as well.

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