Firstly Anju Di, wish you a VERY Happy Birthday.
Once again Di, an awesome and a very well thought analysis. Love it and I completely agree with what you have said. Firstly before I start with anything else i absolutely loved Sid today, finally he took action and it was a pleasure to see it. He showed Nivi exactly the right place regarding Dwita, and she had it coming. Loving Dwita and giving her motherly love doesn't mean you forget everyone/everything else. In the pre-cap when he said to Nivi 'Dwita is his responsibility, and he won't tolerate anyones interference' he had to say that 'cos Nivi was becoming out of control when it comes to Dwita he said that is such a rightful way. I'm sorry to say but when Nivi was hurt about Sid's faisla I didn't pity her at all, after she hurt everyone today by her decision she kinda deserved it. I was so happy when Sid showed her the right place.
Moving on, after todays episode, I'm truly disappointed in Nivi. I'm sorry if i hurt anyone but I was really very disappointed in her. Everyone explained to her calmly, Dadaji spoke to her privately about it, she even realised that her decision is hurting everyone, that its hurting Viren the most, she knew exactly how her decision had effected the family member, even after her elders have spoken to her, YET she stuck to decision. knowing how much it hurt everyone it had no effect on her, she STILL stood by her decision. If this the Nivi we knew? The Nivi who is cannot tolerate her loved ones in pain? And as you Said Di how does this show Nivi's samajdhari? How can you stick by a decision knowing that so many members of your family are disappointed in it. Even Dadaji was disappointed in her decision he just left after she announced it. How could she have ignored Viren's love for her and stick by it? When Viren signed the papers for her that showed how much he loves her, he knew that she really wants this, even though it'll hurt him like hell yet he signed it, 'cos he saw how frustrated and despondent she was. For her happiness he even signed the paper, the paper which will snatch away his fatherhood. How did she seeing all this, still not change her decision? How can a wife stand by her decision knowing how much it hurts her husband?
Also when Nivi went to say thanks to Viren, that part irritated me. How did she have the audacity to go and say that to him. What was she expecting him to say? He was hurt, I felt awful for him, he must have felt terrible. After he inflicted so much pain you come and say thanks? WOW!! That really comforts his doesn't it?
Honestly speaking I'm hating this track i can't wait till its all over. x