Posted: 27 May 2011 at 7:33am | IP Logged
Thanks for responding with such interest
There was only one scene in which Charu chides Rupal for ditching her parents and coming back ...implying she came back for the good life .
And Rupal answers that ALL , even Charu misunderstood her and thought that she came back coz she missed the good life but her goal in life was to make money like Mota Kaka and who else could teach her that better than her Mota Kaka .
Upon that , she runs away crying .
Now what I assume by this 'making money' is that she intends to go into business . And like Devki , wants to learn it from IMV .
True , they have not shown her learning with IMV etc . I think thats a CVs blooper ...coz they were busy projecting the lead heroine Devki and put Rupal's track on hold for the time being .
I understand that as parents they feel betrayed ...I wud too , if my child left me . But this is also partly Baa's fault . She gave IMV that same sense of betrayal when she left him to stay with Manhar ...and this ball of this betrayal sense started rolling . Baa did it quite purposefully ...she wanted to stomp on IMV where it hurt . She knows her son well .
Otherwise what was Baa gonna really do by showing 'support ' to Sonal ? The decision had already been taken ...she was gonna be what she wanted . Manhar didn't even have a house . His financial condition was so so . Infact Baa wud have been a problem ...they 4 wud have managed somehow .
What I liked about Rupal was that she very quickly came to a decision of what she did NOT WANT in life . She did not want this love for poverty and was uninterested in ideals . She immediately came back .
And my only point is ...after the initial sense of betrayal , by now, they shud have shown Manhar and Jyotsna trying to understand this daughter too . There is a sense of betrayal in the beginning ...then one starts thinking as one calms down . About WHY this happened .
And also ...if the sense of betrayal is so acute , they shud really really NOT do things in which ANOTHER person feels betrayed . Like purposefully befriending BB , encouraging Devki etc etc .
They started the ball rolling FIRST . The next thing IMV knows after they left his house is that they r living on BB's charity . Seriously HOW was he supposed to feel ? Imagine THAT sense of betrayal !
He too hurt them where it really hurts by taking Rupal away . Then they started squirming . But he had squirmed TWICE before he retaliated ...One when BAA left , and one when they accepted BBs charity and gave him the message that we care a fig for ur personal enemity with BB .
Am not defending him , dont misunderstand . Merely telling u how I saw it .