BAVD 25th May, WU - Page 2

 

Plus, there were so many things wrong with the way the message was being narrated.

- Don't make love to a dwarf!

- Don't trust your wife if she tells you everything is fine and dandy

- Doctors are liars!

- Doctors in India are tactless (this is the 2nd time this show is implying this)

- Kill yourself worrying over nothing!

 

Only two things helped me simmer down after I watched this.

 

1. Mridang looking hot in those cream pants 😉, and

2. Murli giving Bharti a kiss on the forehead. I would love for someone to wake ME up like that every morning! 😊

 

 

 

And when that doctor asked 'did you consumate your marriage last night'. my hands flew to my head and I thought 'Where the **** is she going with this?' 😲

 

From that moment I just knew it was all going to go downhill.

 

I don't have a problem with the issue at hand.  That some women have this reaction after sex the first time.  But to imply that it is a result of the fact that Bharti is a dwarf is so wrong.  OK, I know the doctor said to Bharti it isn't.  But she has led Murli to believe that it is.  If she had brought Murli back into the room and said the same thing, we wouldn't have a problem.  We could have just passed it off as one of those things.

 

I don't understand where they are going with this? 😕  It serves no purpose other than to be used as a means to create tension between BharLi.

 

It seems somewhat foolhardy, to spend almost a week depicting such growing closeness between them, such understanding and intimacy only to drive a wall between them almost instantly.

 

I mean I've seen CV's come up with worse things.  Don't ask me why, because I really don't know myself, but this doesn't sit well with me at all.

 

Outstanding job @bavdfan!  I personally like minute by minute narration - especially when it comes to Murli and Bharti. So, the more detailed the better. For those who don't like a long article can always speed read or skip some paragraphs - but as for me, I read and re-read everything about Murli & Bharti. I just cannot get enough of the two love birds. 😃

 

Thank you for your efforts. 👏 Indeed you are adedicated fan to post at 2 am!

 

Most women who are dwarfs only have limbs that have been affected.  Usually their bodies or the torso is normal size.  Aside from her hands and legs, Bharti's actual body (from her collar to her pelvis, and across) is probably about the same size as mine.  which means they have the depth and width needed.  Childbearing is a different matter altogether, and not all dwarfs have problems even then.

 

I wasn't too keen on them moving so fast with this relationship.  But now that they have I would hate to see them messing it up with all this faltu ideas which appear to be utitlised to create drama for drama's sake.

 

I need to see BharLi having a proper heart to heart over the matter.  None of this 'I can't say anything as I don't want him/her to be pareshan'.  Real couples don't this hiding things from each other crap.  We lay everything out on the table and deal with it.  it's the key to a successful marriage, trust and honesty.

 

If Murli doesn't tell Bharti his fears she won't understand his behaviour.  In turn she will be confused and hurt and not know how to behave with him.  Which in turn will alleviate his fears even more, and so the cycle continues.  And before you know it we have a marriage on the rocks!!!  I wouldn't put it past CV's.  Those lobotomised nutters have no shortage of crazy ideas!

 

So a proper convo between the two is needed.  CV's please don't make this into an actual track.  Whatever 'this' is, needs to be very very short-lived 😡

Originally posted by: Rakhie_08

They had better clear up this issue, and fast.  Because I swear I'll do my nut, if they carry on implying that as a dwarf Bharti is unable to maintain a physically intimate relationship with her average sized husband

 

Most women who are dwarfs only have limbs that have been affected.  Usually their bodies or the torso is normal size.  Aside from her hands and legs, Bharti's actual body (from her collar to her pelvis, and across) is probably about the same size as mine.  which means they have the depth and width needed.  Childbearing is a different matter altogether, and not all dwarfs have problems even then.

 

I wasn't too keen on them moving so fast with this relationship.  But now that they have I would hate to see them messing it up with all this faltu ideas which appear to be utitlised to create drama for drama's sake.

 

I need to see BharLi having a proper heart to heart over the matter.  None of this 'I can't say anything as I don't want him/her to be pareshan'.  Real couples don't this hiding things from each other crap.  We lay everything out on the table and deal with it.  it's the key to a successful marriage, trust and honesty.

 

If Murli doesn't tell Bharti his fears she won't understand his behaviour.  In turn she will be confused and hurt and not know how to behave with him.  Which in turn will alleviate his fears even more, and so the cycle continues.  And before you know it we have a marriage on the rocks!!!  I wouldn't put it past CV's.  Those lobotomised nutters have no shortage of crazy ideas!

 

So a proper convo between the two is needed.  CV's please don't make this into an actual track.  Whatever 'this' is, needs to be very very short-lived

 

@ Rakhie_08 Yeah! And how come the writers are forgetting that it was THEY who made Rupesh Chauhan tell the first suitors that "yeh maa bhi ban sakti hai"! This means, all the tests and capabilities were established very early on.

 

The writers didn't have any problem to drag jagre and kamina pan in the script. They even dragged a love story that wasn't even there, between sudha and Murli. Yet, when it comes to Bharti, they ALWAYS shortchange her!

 

Why? Is it because they don't believe that love between a dwarf and average height person is possible?  Or are they finding it hard to express it because they haven't been in such a situation themselves? If the later then they are truly unproffessional.

 

I want Bharti and Murli to share a bond that is spun from realism. So far, they had managed it. That is, Murli not accepting Bharti early on was real and natural because he felt shame to be married to a midget. Later, Murli accepting Bharti as his legal wife but not touching her was also normal, for a DECENT person who settles for 'what is'. 

 

Uff, I think some of us should hijack the love track and teach the show's writers on how it should be done!

 

 

 

 

since i saw this epi, I cant even tell u whats going on my mind. Well one thing I have done today. researched about dwarfism, and the different types of it, Actually this is what i use to do always when someone around me got sick, research on net, asking some doctors in my friend circle etc etc.point is, y cant Murli do this. Even no idea of collecting any infos.Bharti and Murli should talk open about this misunderstanding, and everything would be solved. The doctor passed with i dunno what, but i am pretty much sure , she doesnt had any psychology classes, what is necessary for doctors, at least in europe. But, what I really cant get, the CVs🤬 do not live in this world. They better should solve this stuff, otherwise, the story will become too unreal. And, finally, i use to skip more or less all scenes without Bharli. I watch this serial just cause of this sweet romance.