Posted: 26 May 2011 at 7:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by radha_bilahari
It is very nice to see you back with your saga posts and a much needed one.
This edition of CB has been quite different where the importance has been given to the impact on various relationships because of the child marriage of Dev and Radhika, Radhika made to accept this marriage while Dev was totally in oblivion and now in denial.
This brings forth the question of who is most effected by this? Any girl who has entered the threshold of marriage needs help to adjust and acclamatise herself in the new household. She has new relationships with totally different people be it her husband, FIL, MIL, and the others. She carries the value systems that has been given to her and this alone is her friend initially.
Coming to the situation of Dev and Radhika---Radhika is not so blessed. While she has accepted the child mariage, her husband has not been very supportive. I do remember when Dev told radhika explicitly that once Rohan recovers and tells the truth her presence at PB will not be required. Today when she has come for her pag-phere rasam her mother demands something out of her as payment time towards this family, otherwise she has no place in this house too.
Where does this leave Radhika? This should be the ideal situation for the birth of Dev-Radhika love. Dev must realise that because of his reluctance to accept the marriage, Radhika is left in the lurch. To be fair to Dev, he is also an orphan and has mindsets and obligation factor to the adopted family. Leaving Mansaram, no one is willing to accept Radhika for who she is---there is some expectation from her always.
Both of them need to realise the nuances and the subtle issues which forms the basis for relationships. I do not very much believe in love at first sight but anyday prefer the growth of love in relationships in sheer understanding and the willingness to make others happy
This is one of the many reasons why I like this season of CB.
You have put all the thoughts so beautifully.
Yes Cb2 is so different from Cb1.. I am so happy we all are supporting it and seeing the differences.
Yes it is Radhika's journey where she is married but is all alone and with out husband and family support..it is how she will overcome all and gain the love and support of her husband.
In the episode Dev came to the realization that it is not in her head that they are married, her father supports it too...Avina acted well...but Avinash takes the loot.
Edited by sigrid - 26 May 2011 at 10:48am