Posted: 25 May 2011 at 11:06am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ashred12
Rachu.. I could understand nivi's reasons except d latest one.. I'm not against viren, neither am i defending her for d operation decision.. But he is not blameless.. Why cant he understand dat given her char, she wont be normal fast? Esp wen he claims dat he knows her more than herself.. I'm all for her getting nice scolding fm viren for wat she was going to do.. N i dont want him to forgive her easily.. But he shud've thot twice b4 asking for a baby n pushing her to extremes, wen he knows she has always been obsessed with dd.. He too is to be blamed for nivi's wrong decision.. Coz instead of trying to talk out things properly, he too pressurised her n she ended up making wrong decision..
Sorry 2 say Ash bu I completlyy disggre wid u .
U can't blame Viren nt even 1% for Nivi's decision . he is completlyy innocent in dis . whtever he did at tht night by discussing abt child 2 Nivi was a normal thng whch any husband will do . I agrre tht Nivi was in guilt at tht time n still is n all . but He never ever forced his decision abt dis nt now n nt anytime in his whole life . He never ever forced Nivi for anythng .
he ws nt sayngg Nivi lets go n hav a child now itself .had he done tht then it could b called as pressure frm Viren's side He just kept his view abt havng their child tht2 wid logical reasons wid compelte justification n in a polite manner . he just tried 2 explain Nivi abt d importance of havng child n all . n he asked abt d child becozz somewhere Nivi hav 2 start coming out of her guilt , So Nivi was nt dongg anythng for tht So it's definatelyy hav 2 Viren who had 2 do tht So i was his way of bringing Nivi out of guilt . For nt a sec He pressuried her for child . It was Nivi who rashly just refused it . She could have easily taken time for it n Viren would hav happily aggred 2 it . but she told tht She will nt hav a child in her whole life now tell m e whch husban will bear it ? n whch husband will support it ?after all Viren 2 is human , he 2 hav some feelings , he 2 hav some future wishes , Hu cn Nivi stamp all tht in just 1 sec ? it was WRONG ash n nothng cn justify it .
oh plzz ash don't tell tht Viren is like sid . Hu cn u even thnk abt it yaar ?
Kya Viren kabhi staute ki tarah khada raha jab bhi Nivi ki insult hui like sid used 2 do ?
Kya Viren ne kabhi bhi Nivi ki insult bardasht ki like sid did ?
kya Viren kbhi bhi galat ke khilaf ladne se peeche hata like sid ?
Kya Sid ne kabhi bhi Viren ki tarah Nivi ko had se bahar jaake pyaar kiya ?
kya Viren ke rehte hue Nivi ko koi bhi kuch bol payaa like it used hapen when there was sid in her life ?
Kya viren ne kabhi bhi sharamas ki insult ki like sid did ?
n u r talking abt blame . U 2 know tht Viren is again n again bashed for everythng . Dis u 2 hav 2 accept it . had he b like sid , Vo ab tak kitna kuch kar chuka hota sabke khilaf jitne blame usko mile hai . kitna kuch Sid ki tarah suna chuka hota ab tak sabko .
So plzz don't say tht Viren is like sid . Viren sid ki tarah hota toh Nivi ki married life abhi tak narak ban chuki hoti . n usse shaadi ke agle din hi bahar nikalke phaik chuki hoti CC . Viren tha isliye usse itni respect mili ghar me , Viren tha isliye CC ki aaj tak himmat nahi hui Viren ke rehte hue Nivi ko hath bhi lagane ki .
I m sorry if i hurted u frm my words . But can't aggre wid ur points .