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Essence of being a WOMAN - My thoughts by Anju (Page 4)

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 11:02pm | IP Logged
i loved the way U have explained what an essence of awoman actually means and what it means to be a woman...she alone has the this privilege to create life...Niveditha by even considering such adrastic step is really demeaning herself ..her love and her privilege as a woman..Till now i could not really bring myself to really judge her this harshly coz i always found something which really brought out her essence in one way or the other,,,inspite of her flaws for me she was so innocently naive and selfless BUT now i feel totally disillusioned
She has killed the very essence of being a woman...U have rightly said that and How could RS do this???how could he kill this beautifully created chracter in such a harsh manner?
Do come back..Ur posts are much awaited for!!

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pipicat IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 11:36pm | IP Logged
true a woman is someone who was made to love and care... it is the mother who has paradise under her feet such a great honor and could only be given to  a being who has the wonderful gift of carrying a baby then giving birth to it..   I am a mother an i know a woman is only incomplete with a baby of her own... nivi is going towards being incomplete ... i no think the articles were wrong as sid's behavior proves that he wants both nivren to be together

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anjubala IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 25 May 2011 at 9:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by crazy4neha

Originally posted by Raj_Luv_NiViren

I saw the episode today after reading the update and the first thought that came to my mind was :-
"Essence of being a woman - So well described and said by Sushmita Sen"
"Just being a woman is God's gift. The origin of a child is a mother, a woman. She shows a man what sharing, caring, and loving is all about. That is the essence of a woman."
And what is our dear Nivedita doing - getting rid of this very essence. Is she really a woman? Does she understand what a woman is? She in her so-called guilt is killing (yes this is killing and not sacrifice) the very meaning of being a woman. 

hi anju, if the very essence of being a woman is motherhood then was Mother Theresa a woman? She was a woman of substance, who is a saint now, did not have a biological child.  so nivi does not need have to biological children to complete her womanhood. 
@crazy4neha - You know it was your comment that kind of made me come back to the forum and post my reply. Thanks for writing this. And now, you do not have to comment for the sake of just commenting as your reply has really saddened me.
I am sure you did not even read what you posted. How can you compare Nivedita with Mother Teresa? Mother Teresa, the noblest person this earth has seen... Yes she is a mother of millions of needy people. And she  embodied, showed us what a true woman is and she showed what essence of woman is - LOVING, CARING and SHARING... and being a nun she gave up worldy pleasures...Please do not demean her work, her efforts, her cause, her selfless motives by compaing her with any female who are enjoying the earthly pleasures.
So please do not compare her with Nivedita... Nivedita is not a nun, has a husband, has physical relationship with her husband, loves her husband, has her for her having her own baby will complete her as she will be bringing a life in this world. If she has medical problems that is a different thing...But so far she does not..

Edited by anjubala - 25 May 2011 at 10:09am

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anjubala IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 25 May 2011 at 9:47am | IP Logged

Thanks to all of you who commented on my post.. Really appreciate it.

I was pleasantly surprised to see Bani and Kavitha posting here but I guess there are certain things that we all agree upon. And yesterday's behavior of Nivi made us sit and think again that is this what we expected from Nivedita? Yes, CTs ruined her character and let us see how they revive it, if they do.

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