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Essence of being a WOMAN - My thoughts by Anju (Page 2)

moniluvskinshuk IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 10:54am | IP Logged
Anju dear 1st of all a biggg bigg huggg tht u posted ur thoughts althouh thru Raj but U did n u r nt leavngg us . Thank u dear . thanxx a lott . Will waitt for ur return , take ur own time dear as i know u r nt in status 2 com in d forum . but d time will come soon .
lovelyy lovelyy asusual wonderful analysis dear n no need 2 say tht i lovedd lovedd lovedd it . on't hav words 2 describe it .
yes dear u know i 2 was thnkng d same tht Atleast DD opted for abosion so tht means she had option of becoming mother again but wht Nivi is gongg 2 do 2dy is just UNFORGIVABLE n TOTALLY SELFISH thng . hu cn she take such a bigg decision wout even letting Viren know ? hu cn she do dis 2 Viren ? whom she claims tht she loves him ? hu cn b so selfish ?
yes dear i lovedd d guestroom scene n ohh their convo n their little intimate scene was so just got me goosebumps , the way Viren comes closer 2 her 2 kiss , ohh lovelyy . wht a awosome chem KinhA shares yaar
n dear me 2 didn't like at all wht DS said 2 Viren . Again it showed d disbelief of DS on Viren . n it again showed tht now also DS doesn't trust Viren when it comes 2 relationshp . he still considers him BACHAA like he says 2 him 2dy " kamre se takiya bistar leke nikal jaana bachpana hai " wht rubbish . Why always DS thnkns tht Viren is wrong n Nivi cn't do any mistake . I 2 liked hu Viren didn't say openly 2 DS abt d main reason of their fight , dis shows d respect n love Viren hav for his wife n he is nt like Nivi who insults her husband infront of whole family Why DS always thnkns tht agar koi bhi fight ya dispute Nivren hav , reason will always b Viren , why ? why for a once he can't thnk tht Nivi 2 may b wrong .
tomm i want Viren 1st thng 2 do is 2 give a TIGHT SLAP  2 Nivi 1st n then He shld drag her 2 whole soods n shld say it openly tht wht their ladlii bahu  was gongg 2 do ? i knowas far as we know our Viren , he will never ever disclose Nivi's mistake or shld say Crime n sin infront of family , he will shout at her but will nt do tht . but we cn hope rght ?

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dyhardfan IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 11:13am | IP Logged
Thanks Anju for writing again really appreciate it. Thanks Raj di for posting this for us.
I totally agree with you. CTs have played around with each and every character. I'm really disappointed with the way Nivi's character took a U-turn. I seriously didn't think she could cross this limit. It is really sad what the show has come to. I honestly feel like quitting this show but due to hope that NivRen will still work this out and my love for this couple, I'm unable to give up, just yet. But I'm sure the day is not far where I will quit coz I have had enough with CTs and they illogical tracks. Thanks again Anju.

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zarmeeno IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 11:58am | IP Logged
Anju jaani as always loved ur post and totally agree with u. Honestly I dont have words for Nivi anymore. And the problem is that she is not even doing it for her love for Dewitta she is just doing this coz she thinks that she is obligated to do. Her marriage and Viren is not even secondary position for her. She was suppose to be sanskaari girl and I thought that for sanskaari girls opinions of their husband matter a lot. But honestly I've started hating her character.

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anjaani07 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 1:02pm | IP Logged
Hi Anju, just watched the epi and then re-read ur post and i agree with everything you've written!!
I dont even know what to say about Nivi today, there are just not enough words. For god's sake, this is supposed to be a sanskaari girl who has been brought up by NT DADI of all people and THIS is how she behaves?!! Yahi sikaya tha Dadi ne usse?! If Dadi saw her now at that hospital she would give her a tight slap. And she would be fully justified in doing that.
I just cannot understand how and from what angle she thinks this is a good idea?! There are so many women out there who cant have children - my older sister is one so i know what and how much someone in that position goes through and here Nivi is wanting to throw it all away and for what?! To look after a baby who has a father, gradparents, great grandparents, aunt, uncle...this isnt an orphan who has no one and even if it was, there are billions of women out there with more than one child, it's total and utter madness!
And tomoro, when Viren finds out how will he feel? Did she even think of that?! Oh sure, she spared one token thought for him before disregarding him totally and going ahead with it anyway. And what, she expects him to just sign the papers because 'maine tumhe kaha toh tha Viren' - she thinks 'telling' him should be enough for him to just be ok with it...?! Has she lost her mind?! How can she not see how many lives her decision is affecting, she has always been like that but this is just the limit.
I know Moni has made a post on this already but I really truly hope that the family finds about this decision of Nivi's because today DS unfairly automatically blamed Viren (as usual!) and he was his usual self & didnt say what the actual problem was for Nivi's sake but now it's gone further and they need to be made aware of how far Nivi is willing to go in her madness.
Im sorry if my post offended anyone but these are just my feelings right now, i'm totally shocked by Nivi's behaviour and i have no idea why they are showing her like this, this is supposed to be the shows leading character, a role model for young girls, but after today how can she be?! How is she any better than Divya? At least she was only having an abortion of one child (not that that's acceptable either) but Nivi wants to totally end any hopes of having kids without consulting Viren who's whole life will be changed by her decision. No matter how much i think of it, there's no way of justifying that!
Sorry for such a long post and i hope it made sense because everything is a mess in my head right now.

Edited by anjaani07 - 24 May 2011 at 1:22pm

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lams Goldie

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 2:06pm | IP Logged
Thanks a lot for your analysis Anju ... When I opened my post I also had a single question to Nivi which no one answered - You are in the SOOD House because of Viren and Viren only and secondly from day one itself Viren has been supporting you but you have never ever acknowledged his support in front of  the family ...lets see your dad might not have been alive if it was not for Viren ...
Yes I know Viren stalked you ( but I wish CTs had shown it properly the reason and whether he did all the things as proclaimed  - a huge mistake on part of the CTs )
For the 2nd time this month Sid has been shown to use some intelligence and I really liked the way they showed him living up to be a dad .
Yes the CTs have ruined Nivi' s character and this is because of the hindi drama and twist that they have to show...which really upsets me .. What I am mad about is Nivi refusing to listen to Viren ...she just closes her ears to his explanation ...but if DS and VD tell her she listens ...why is that ? Viren asked her to join work she said no but DS asked her and she was ok .. Viren asked her to come on a vacation she said no but VD asked her and she said yes ... So basically Viren is her hubby and to whom she should at least at times listen to but she refuses to ... Its so easy to say sorry the next day .
Why is that she gives importance to HL and CC and DD and not to Viren and Dadi ... That is not how an Indian woman behaves and thats what has messed up nivi's character . Her showing that she only has DD in mind when she left Sid and now her daughter when she is messing up her relation with her husband , thats so wrong and I dont know whether to blame CTs or Nivi

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Nikita99 Goldie

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 4:01pm | IP Logged

Thanks Anju for the analysis and Thanks Raj for posting it. Nivi to me was a most selfish person today. She went to Viren to apologize but really did she meant it?? I am sorry but I felt that she's using Viren. It felt like that she is giving some intimate moments to Viren so she'll eventually have her ways. And I think Viren should stop covering up for Nivi and let family know what's really happening in Nivi's mind. I think family should know that this time its Nivi not Viren who's causing trouble in their marriage. I know someone mentioned in her post that in this day and age it is possible to reverse tubectomy but I know many cases where they had no turning back and I live in a developed country. And yes CT is totally playing with Nivi's character.

And that thought u left for us is so true...what if all the rumors are right and at the end Nivi is with Sid is she still not going to have a child with Sid?? Oh all this is really getting on my nerves.

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zarmeeno IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 4:45pm | IP Logged
If Nivi always puts others before her then y not now put Viren before her zid. Y she is so adament now for Viren to accept her decision and not putting anybody else before her.   In short she does not put anybody else before her. She only puts her zid before her and she thinks that whatever she thinks and whatever she does is right.

Edited by zarmeeno - 24 May 2011 at 4:50pm

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Anisha_91 IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 6:05pm | IP Logged
Awww Anju Di, I'm so happy to see your thoughts on today's epi, thanks Di and Raj for posting it! 

About today's epi, I completely agree with you Di, I also loved the guest room scene, but wasn't sure why she said sorry though was is cos of what she said about not wanting a child? that she will never say such things again? But then she still went for the vasectomy. But anyway putting that to a side i truly loved that scene their love or each other was evident. Its so sweet how Viren can never see tears in her eyes as soon as he sees her crying he forgets everything and goes to console her aww. Loved it. But I'm very disappointed in Nivi for taking such a big decision knowing her husband will be upset about it. x

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