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Originally posted by: lalixlilyMy dad asked my mom to stop working and told her that he could provide anything to her. He did so cause my mom did struggle a lot. My dad is a firefighter - so he wasn't often there. And for him -- at least one parent has to take care of the kids. My mom was ok with that - even if she did some various jobs to get money.
To think of it it was a good thing - she was there and learnt us to read to do our homeworks...And my father is not a chauvinistic male - he never abused any woman - my mom was free to go out or to see her family...I think Salman wants someone who likes her home and is keen on taking care of him...That doesn't mean she has to wear a burqa and learn recipes by heart to satisfy his appetite...Salman has a precise idea of whom he wants to be his life partner...He's allowed to ...isn't he? It's better than other star wives who "fake" to work. or pretend to be oh so modern and still they stick to an unhappy compromise...I'm not sure whether Salman will get what he wants...unless he finds her in some village...or was raised to be a good housewife of a powerful man. Or maybe a woman who'll be willing to make some compromise & slow down her "career" to please him.Good luck with that.For a couple to work - the two have to share the same desires, almost the same ones.
that is also true... every situation is different...!
but there are men, especially desis and some others who force the woman to stay at home, while they go around having fun... case in point, hrithik, srk... of course, their wives are also supposedly involved in other things now, but in a way, it's their husbands who put them in such a situation... perhaps, suzzanne should have known considering she comes from a filmi background... but gauri as an outsider, most likely did not sign up for such a life, when she first married srk...! 😛😛
bollywood obviously does not share the same values which are supposedly the 'norm'...!
but yes, it is his life... and he has the right to choose his partner, as per his preferences, just like others... however, i still think it's stupid of some men to expect their wives to 'make their homes', while they are free to fool around... many men would justify raising their hand on the women, citing such reasons... that's how the real world works, unfortunately...!!
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