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Posted: 27 May 2011 at 7:24pm | IP Logged
Yeah, he wants to do lots of things for her but they aren't having a physical relationship. how can people call them bad for that? Is it really an affair, if they aren't messing around?

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Posted: 27 May 2011 at 8:57pm | IP Logged
 
 
Let us look at the LOVE Statistics:
 
Pl correct me if I am wrong.
 
 
They guy loves Gal =  80%
 
 
 
Gal loves Guy         =  30%
 
Parents of girl object to the marriage = 80%*
 
*So this is the main problem area.
  Secondly the gal's love is also not strong enough to change the numbers unless it can be improved.
 
 
Conclusion: It will not work.
 
 
So what is the solution ?
 
If guy really wants to marry the gal, he must convince the parents.
Parents firstly sees that the guy as being unsuitable due to education etc. This has to be rectified first.
He needs to win the gal's parent"s respect and approval.
 
 
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Posted: 28 May 2011 at 12:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by punjabi#1

Yeah, he wants to do lots of things for her but they aren't having a physical relationship. how can people call them bad for that? Is it really an affair, if they aren't messing around?


if two people love each other, are committed to each other then what wrong in them having a physical relationship??...
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Posted: 28 May 2011 at 12:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by blue-ice

Originally posted by punjabi#1

Yeah, he wants to do lots of things for her but they aren't having a physical relationship. how can people call them bad for that? Is it really an affair, if they aren't messing around?


if two people love each other, are committed to each other then what wrong in them having a physical relationship??...Nothing Wrong in it...But our Soceiity/Court/Religous groups wont support these acts Bcos they believe in papers and contracts!Smile
 
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Posted: 29 May 2011 at 4:00am | IP Logged
Originally posted by punjabi#1

Yeah, he wants to do lots of things for her but they aren't having a physical relationship. how can people call them bad for that? Is it really an affair, if they aren't messing around?

Not calling 'them' bad. Not calling anybody bad. But when you're not ready to commit yourself to someone (in this case, getting married), why take advantage of the person even if he is letting you to take advantage of him?
If the girl lets him go, he might find another girl, if not sooner, then later. Sometime or the other. That way, his efforts wouldn't go in vain either.


Edited by .Doe. - 29 May 2011 at 4:01am
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Posted: 31 May 2011 at 3:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by blue-ice

Originally posted by punjabi#1

Yeah, he wants to do lots of things for her but they aren't having a physical relationship. how can people call them bad for that? Is it really an affair, if they aren't messing around?


if two people love each other, are committed to each other then what wrong in them having a physical relationship??...

I don't believe in physical relation before marriage and our society/culture/religion all frown upon it. Thats why i made sure to mention they weren't fooling around

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Posted: 31 May 2011 at 3:52pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by .Doe.

Originally posted by punjabi#1

Yeah, he wants to do lots of things for her but they aren't having a physical relationship. how can people call them bad for that? Is it really an affair, if they aren't messing around?

Not calling 'them' bad. Not calling anybody bad. But when you're not ready to commit yourself to someone (in this case, getting married), why take advantage of the person even if he is letting you to take advantage of him?
If the girl lets him go, he might find another girl, if not sooner, then later. Sometime or the other. That way, his efforts wouldn't go in vain either.

She wants to let him go after reading everyone'e responses but she is struggling to do so. Even if she takes one step back, he just takes one forward. If she tries to talk to him, he gets annoyed. He says he is not forcing her to do anything and always listens to her but she can't force him to stop loving her or to move on. 

She can't leave his life completely till she gets married but even then she is doomed. Every time her hubby does something, she will just compare the two, especially if the hubby is not as nice as this guy. 

Idk, this guy already declared he is not marrying and even if his family forces him, he will tell the girl immediately that he loves someone else. 

This has become just wait and watch thing. I wish this would just end, so she would let me live in peace. Why are people so indescieve? 
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Posted: 31 May 2011 at 8:18pm | IP Logged
Ah a case of Fatal Attraction.
 
Better be careful, could be a suicide case.

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