hey...its pretty complicated... but one needs to be practical in terms of life.. ther can be only two solutions possible...
1. Marry
2. Not marry...
Chose one and do whatever it takes to make it work!.. but any roads inbetween is jst going to agonize them further and either bring lot of shame and disrespect to their respective families... or both or either of them will fall in a bottom-less pit of depression, guilt, and sorrow ...
the way i see it is the boy is over sentimental.. and selfish too... yes... his solution to their problem is stupid.. he wants her in his life bcoz he cant live without her at present and at sake of her dignity.. wat parents or society and she herself would accept her as a "mistress" of this guy.. i know its shocking to read this.. bt eventually tht is wat it wud turn out to be after his marraige.. it would be termed as an ex-marital affair which would be even more disgusting and dismaying..
so instead the grace of their love lies in either accepting it completely and fighting for their love... or denying it completely and moving on to their separate paths.. any intertwining is just going to make their life a hell.. and the girl's life even worst.. coz as far as i gather they hail from a conservative society.. and it would be tough for her to tackle this proposed ex-marital affair..
I know chosing one decision is not going to be simple.. bcoz they and their families r close and interact pretty often.. but life is never simple.. and the situation would look complicated unless and untill we've been through it... borne it all.. time is greatest healer.. and its natures way that nothing remains same.. it changes constantly.. and one who doesnt change withers away.. they will have to take some tough decisions here...
i know people would always want a fairytale love story.. but i say if it is to happen, it would happen no matter what.. and if its not to happen, it would not happen whatever they might do.. bcoz.. fate is nothing but consequences of our actions + behaviour + our attitude towrds life, ourselves, and others... and so instead of making a grt love story, thy might end up making a shameful love story...
so my advice pick one and stick to it... all the best..
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