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maybe-just IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 7:02am | IP Logged
@alanta: Good post.

Gulaal's and Kesar's relationship can never be that of a mother/son because the most obvious answer is that she is NOT his mother, she catered for him for a little while when he was a kid but that is not enough to brand her a mother. 

Now that Gulaal has started to get on the Kesar-Perception-Bandwagon, she can clearly see the changes in Kesar and his behaviour.

  • The scene where Kesar grabs Gulaal not knowing that it was Gulaal - it shocked Gulaal a little and she became embarrassed and quickly realised that she had no Pallu on her head.
  • The jungle scene where Gulaal sees Kesar staring at her completely lost in her beauty, it makes her a little self-concious and obviously the fact that he helps her and gives her his hand kinda surprises her. 
  • The scene where Kesar spends all night looking after Gulaal.
  • Followed by the hair scene where he tells her she's looks beautiful with open hair.
  • Next he tells her she's a part of his life too.
  • The scene with the letter and how she kept him away for 10 years
  • And last but not least the chunar scene, she's taken back to see that the chunar was for her and not Talli indicting she's Kesar's khaas! 
And on top she's being pushed out of her Gulaal box to see the bigger picture rather than the her own perception by the elders of the house which is making her realise that about Kesar feelings for her...and now she's in a dilemma. Let's see if she opens her heart and mind to the possibility of her union with Kesar.

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rakni Senior Member

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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 11:34am | IP Logged
Gulaal's discomfort comes from the fact that she does not have the same feelings toward Kesar. Gulaal is very much in love with Vasant - even today. She speaks with Vasant's picture on a regular basis and even in the presence of Kesar. If Kesar were the new "pati" she wouldn't be pouring her herat out to her old "pati" in front of him.
Kesar on the other hand loves Gulaal - he always loved her but now loves her like a "husband" Confused. He is attracted to her albeit the age gap. But then again, love does not happen in a calculated way - it just happens.
Gulaal is an unusual story in many ways, so it will have unusual relationships as well. That's what makes this show so interesting. In any other show, the wife will never forgive her husband's killer, but in this one, Gulaal not only forgave Dushyant but also supports him like a friend. I just don't see how one can be so forgiving and generous. That part seemed very unusual to me. Maybe that's the way, the creatives left a room for Vasant to be back. When kesar sees Gulaal talking to Vasan't picture, he doesn't seem to feel bad or jealous. That is another part I find odd.
There is no doubt that Kesar is head over heels "in love" with Gulaal but Gulaal's feelings are very complex and cannot be defined as anything we know - there is no name for her feelings - it's above all names and relationships.
I just love this show - except, Talli's character - she really annoys me cause she talks so much.

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alanta IF-Dazzler

Joined: 12 May 2011
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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 10:45pm | IP Logged

Vasanth is ofcourse her first love and will remain in her memories forever and Kesar need not to be jelous with Vasanth. Vasanth is the connecting link of Gulsar and he is well aware of this and moreover he knows what Vasant is for Gulaal and he is willing to accept Gulaal along with the memories Gulaal has in her with Vasanth. 


If Gulaal's discomfort comes from the fact that she does not have the same feelings toward Kesar, and if she really wants to avoid such  situations, then why can't she move out of his sight instead of staying there. It is true that she becomes nervous infront of him but not at all irritated. She would definitely be irritated if @bold was right.


Each and everytime when JK refers to Gulsar relationship, Gulaal's expressions reflects a glimpse of silent acceptance of the fact and not of rejection.


So unconsiously she craves for Kesar and his love, but her conciousness reminds her of Vasanth, and her promises to the family and Thalli and she never made clear to any one  about  her feelings towards Kesar for she herself is not aware of that as she has'nt given herself a chance for a deep analysis of her own mind.

The Ultimate truth is that  Gulsar is destined to be together. It is the DESTINY that pulls Gulsar towards eachother.Gulaal can remain indifferent  to Kesar's feelings for her (if she is so strong- willed to ignore such a love of great intense and beyond all imaginations) and even to her own feelings but how long she shall deny the destiny.


Edited by alanta - 23 May 2011 at 10:48pm

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