Posted: 22 May 2011 at 6:26am | IP Logged
I read many comments like nivi doesn't deserve viren and viren and nivi is going to separate and nivi lost herself and she can't keep her husband happy etc..and I'm not at all agree with all these…that's why I'm posting my opinion abt this track….
Firstly I want to say…Viren and nivi r meant to be together…and they r soul mates and no one can separate them…..here the word single has no value…Marriages r made in heaven..and no one is perfect..here both nivi and viren r not perfect…Marriage is a sacred institution and it's like weather….sometimes it'll give coolness…bt sometimes we can't tolerate the hotness….bt as humans we have to adopt the circumstances and have to gel with each situations….
Mrs.Nivedita viren Sood……before she became Mrs.viren sood she was just nivedita…. who loves her sister more than anything..she was afraid to face the difficulties in her life…she always need a support to move forward in her life…...now she is not that nivedita..she is bold..she can't face the difficulties in her life...Nivedita is such a girl who loves her sister more than anyone…YES…she loved divya more than anyone….she can leave her home,her father,brother,dadi everyone for divya's happiness..She married viren to see her sister happy…viren too has his own reasons….And she suffered all the tortures from everyone including divya only for her di's happiness…..Now that sister is no more…and when she tried to recover from her sadness she again came to know that unknowingly she became a reason for her di's death…how can a sister can digest that fact so easily…if I'm in nivi's place I can't…Bt as the rule of the world nivedita too moving forward in her life…and now she loves dwita so much…dwita is her di's akhiri nishani and she feels that she can shower her love for her di through dwita…and she also feels that dwita is her responsibility….yes agree with all…she has to keep a balance btw dwita and viren…bt we can't blame nivi completely….bcz it's not an easy task for nivi to get rid of her guilt and responsible mode...
And I know that all r unhappy abt the precap….bt is it a wrong time to ask for a child…I know as a husband viren always supports and loves nivi…bt I must say dwita is just one month old and she born as a premature baby….it is normal from nivi's side that she can't think abt a baby at this moment as she thinks that she needs to pay more attention and care towards dwita….So she can ask viren to give her some time...and viren will surely understand her situation...Bt nothing can be judged by a single precap….then why can't all think positive as u all done during viren's stalker track….That stalker track is more horrible when compared with this baby track…All r bcz of the CT's….
Bt as a nivren fan I want to mention abt something….when viren was revealed as the stalker it was so painful to watch viren hurts nivi by his words more than his actions…Whatever he done was wrong….Bt we always found positive vibes among all those ridiculous tracks….i still remember how we all justified viren's actions before and after the stalker incidents…it's all bcz of our faith and love towards our jodi…Then what happened now…If we can accept viren with his drawbacks then why can't nivi…?When viren left nivi at the pub at midnight….we justified him by thinking that he may be hide somewhere and left from there only after nivi got a taxi…was the CT's ever showed something like this..no..and we all said tht viren want to push his family and nivi away from him and he wanted to prove himself wrong in front of the family….Was he ever admitted tht…no…Bt it's our love for our jodi made us to find more justifications and we always supported our jodi..Bcz the line that connects nivren fans with their favorite couple is HOPE.and only hope…We can always hope…we have nothing to lose and nothing to gain….Bt what happened now….where all those love had gone…or is still all r nivren fans..?..bcz now I have doubts….Bcz now here I can't see nivren..either nivi or viren…It's really sad…:(...We can support viren..Then why can't nivi...?..now most of us thinking that nivi doesn't deserves viren..how can we..We need to support nivi and viren equally…Nivren is made up of both nivi and viren…and not by a single person….
I'm saying all these bcz during and after stalker track we kept quiet and supported our pair..bt only few episiodes make most of us to go against nivi..and even all r thinking abt a new girl….it's not logical just like sid-nivi reunion…Viren and nivi loves each other..their love has no boundaries...during the stlaker incidents viren's love is overshadowed by his hatredness...and now nivi's love is overshadowed by her love for dwita...viren found his happiness with the help of nivi..and got rid of his hatredness...time can change anything...both r not perfect...here both hatredness and love played their roles in niviren's life...the path of marriage life is not always decorated with smooth rose petals..sometimes there will be thorns...so we have to be careful and have to find the thorns which r hidden behind the rose petals...and we need to throw away all the thorns and make our journey even more smoother...
Nivedita and viren has to solve their problems and they will be…we all just needs to wait and watch….and hope for the best as we always did…and pls don't think like nivi is not perfect for viren and all…..They deserves each other…and if nivi can support and accept viren with his drawbacks then why can't viren…I'm sure viren will understand nivi and help her to overcome from her current state of mind… and pls don't bash and point ur fingers against nivi..we can't do tht….Bcz we never did this against viren during his stalker incidents or his insecurity and jealousy track…That time we all cursed CT's… I know still most of us r cursing CT's for playing with nivi's character..…bt more than CT's here all r making posts against nivi and talking abt viren and nivi seperation….It's not correct….If we r true nivren fans we have to keep our fairness and love towards our couple…Is our love is this much shallow so that it can be vanished when something bad against viren's happienss..my answer is no..bcz for me viren and nivi are equal…and I supported and find positive points to justify viren's actions in all his bad time like my nivren friends…so still I want to do the same for nivi..bcz nivren r a couple and not single persons…..No one is perfect..as our nivi and viren….Bt true soul mates always completes their incompleteness with each other….The ultimate truth is nivren is composed of both nivi and viren...!!without nivi viren is a big zero and vice versa...!!They deserves each other and meant to be together...and we all need to support our nivren...!!nivren forever..:)))..
It's just my point of view and opinion….u can agree or disagree…bt I want to write abt my feelings and opinion..so I did…Love nivren… u people r the best couple ever..!!
Edited by sana4kinha - 22 May 2011 at 10:51am