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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 9:26pm | IP Logged
Totally random topic but what do you guys think of this scenario: 

A friend of mine (this has happened to a couple of them)... has been together with this guy for the past two years and she is 25 so thinking about everytime for the long run. She has been taking this relationship as her step towards marriage and a future but two months ago the guy said he is going to marry the girl of his parents choice and that he had fun with her and it was a good relationship but he doesn't see it going to the marriage stage. The girl he is going to marry is from India from a very well to do family with great stand in society and all that jazz... Do you guys see this play scenario play out a lot as well where an NRI guy is down to date anyone from the country he is at but when push comes to shove he marries the girl his parents pick out from India? 

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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 9:29pm | IP Logged
@Kat you meant chit chat #21 right lol!  Anywaz wass up?
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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 9:40pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Pari.K

Totally random topic but what do you guys think of this scenario: 

A friend of mine (this has happened to a couple of them)... has been together with this guy for the past two years and she is 25 so thinking about everytime for the long run. She has been taking this relationship as her step towards marriage and a future but two months ago the guy said he is going to marry the girl of his parents choice and that he had fun with her and it was a good relationship but he doesn't see it going to the marriage stage. The girl he is going to marry is from India from a very well to do family with great stand in society and all that jazz... Do you guys see this play scenario play out a lot as well where an NRI guy is down to date anyone from the country he is at but when push comes to shove he marries the girl his parents pick out from India? 
 
Yes, but not jus NRI's but in general especilly when a guyz or even gals parents are old school. They go out enjoy and then settle due to pressure by the parents. These days those marriges by pressure dont last long though. With this situation I think it was wrong on this guy to mislead the gal. He should' ve told in the start that his parents are strict and this relation is pass time in the beginning this way the gal knows whether its worth her time to pursue this relation because some guyz are blunt but  this guy who lead this gurl on is despicibleStern Smile


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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 10:38pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Pari.K

Totally random topic but what do you guys think of this scenario: 

A friend of mine (this has happened to a couple of them)... has been together with this guy for the past two years and she is 25 so thinking about everytime for the long run. She has been taking this relationship as her step towards marriage and a future but two months ago the guy said he is going to marry the girl of his parents choice and that he had fun with her and it was a good relationship but he doesn't see it going to the marriage stage. The girl he is going to marry is from India from a very well to do family with great stand in society and all that jazz... Do you guys see this play scenario play out a lot as well where an NRI guy is down to date anyone from the country he is at but when push comes to shove he marries the girl his parents pick out from India? 
  yup seen this scenario... and the guy ended up getting divorced with the girl he married from (Delhi)india.. and she was a spoilt brat from a really rich family Ouch
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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 12:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dexterphile


Don't know of any such scenarios. But hold on...did this guy at any point in his relationship with your friend inform your friend about his possible arranged marriage with a girl of his parent's choice? Or was he just a grade A douche throughout keeping it all a secret. If he was open and honest about it and your friend still dreamt of a future with him, then she is gullible. If not, he deserves to be hit on his head a few times! Dead

Nope, he up until his very last visit to India made her believe that they were in it for the long run. She had mentioned marriage several times and he always agreed to it but after he had his career settled and stuff. He never told his parents but she never told hers either so she didn't find it fishy... it was just easier for them to keep the relationship a secret until they were sure about their futures together at which point they were going to convince the parents... 

I see it often and its annoying as a girl growing up in another country where the guy will have fun with a girl here but marry the girl the parents choose from India. 

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