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Posted: 24 May 2011 at 12:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by krutiv100

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i agree with you completely and i'm so glad that somebody is defending Varsha! Akshara making Ananya wear her clothes was not a small thing! it was a very big thing. just imagine and think like a first time mother with a brand new baby and the baby's first festival. every mother has lots of armaan for her baby and so had Varsha. Akshara completely over-stepped boundaries by taking Varsha for granted. ever since her MC, she keeps getting too involved in Ananya and she has to realise that after a while, it is bound to offend the mother! Varsha didn't just yell at her because of the bringing the baby home incident, she yelled at Akshara because everything had finally added up for her and become too much to bear silently.

everybody is quick to judge her but they need to remember that so far, Varsha has done nothing but be nice and supportive to Akshara. and the sacrifice she made today over the new clothes and jewelry wasn't small, it was big and if Rajshri didn't step in at that time to support Varsha, she should stay away now also.

Akshara is pinning all of her mamta for her lost child on Ananya and it's unhealthy for everyone involved. she needs to step back and acknowledge the boundaries as well as respect them. she needs to let herself heal by turning to her husband. i also find that Akshara is engrossed in her own pain that she often forgets that Naitik is going thru the same pain. Naitik lost his child too and he also needs Akshara's support to heal his own heart. so far, he is just taking care of Akshara and no one is really helping HIM heal.


@ bold i said the exact samething to my mum...in uk we are a week behind..at at the moment naitik is doing everything to support akshara but theres no shoulder for him to cry on...maybe i should go and give him a hugEmbarrassedLOL

and agree about Varsha...her reaction was justified...an ananya is first child so she's bound be over protective. I hated today's epi ( india epi.. i watched on youtube)  when varsha was begging forgiveness of rajshri..i thought rajshri was being such a big hypocrite...hats of to dadi for pointing that out to herClap
this time akshi felt first tiem that naitik was equally hurt by this mc guys really seh never bothered about naitik even naitik use to tell her uska naam last main hai aatha hai lekin akshi started realising naitik is improtant in her life she now started thinking about thinking too may be elders in the family thinking  about akshi not naitik but akshi also feeling naitik too have pain but he doesnt show.

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agree wid u totally...
it's a true fact that a woman is really left broken heart after a MC but it doesn't mean life has end up or she can not have a baby...i feel akshara should built up the strength in her n be positive...usse haalat ka saamna kana chahiye...agar she tries to forget everything things may get back to normal which the whole singhania family n mainly naitik wants...he wants her lovely wife to be back...akshara shud just forget sorrow n remember happiness...coz this is the only fact of life...khushi bhi utni hi hoti hai jitna dukh...
@ varsha's side i think she's right...n dadi se toh i'd totally agreed jab unhone kaha ki varsha bhi apni beti ko rote nahi dekh saki n usse itna rota dekh may be she cudn't stop herself aur usse jo bhi mann mein aaya usne kaha for which she's really sorry for...i don't feel she's wrong at any place..it's really very obvious in real life too wid mothers...they may not feel that their child should be over pampered...!ok...to an extent it's fine that a child needs love but jab it starts crossing limits then is a problem...
i know being a naksh fan n not shava's fan i shud take akshara's side but think of those mothers who've really gone under this condition...akshara come on now...forget ur sorrows n apni khushiyon ko yaad karo...!
i know t's not akshara's or varsha's mistake but friendship mein jab we have a fight it hurts...i've got a practical experience a fight wid ur best buddy is the worst part of ur life...each moment of ur life is none less then a life in hell...it's better that we make up soon n forget that we ever had a fight also...it's  a practical thinking of one's mind also n also a thing that is the person really sorry on his deed or not n when he feels that he's wrong he shouldn't wait for other to cum n say sorry but he himself shud go n make up...!
varsha did right ki she went herself to akshara n said her sorry,...!atleast if she isn't wrong @ a point but it's better that woh dono dobara friends ban jaaye n live their happy lived friendship together back again wid loadzz n loadzz of happiness...!Big smile
sorry for any wrong point...it's my first ever post which gets to be so long...!hope u understand what i meant to say is...!


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Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

agree wid u totally...
it's a true fact that a woman is really left broken heart after a MC but it doesn't mean life has end up or she can not have a baby...i feel akshara should built up the strength in her n be positive...usse haalat ka saamna kana chahiye...agar she tries to forget everything things may get back to normal which the whole singhania family n mainly naitik wants...he wants her lovely wife to be back...akshara shud just forget sorrow n remember happiness...coz this is the only fact of life...khushi bhi utni hi hoti hai jitna dukh...
@ varsha's side i think she's right...n dadi se toh i'd totally agreed jab unhone kaha ki varsha bhi apni beti ko rote nahi dekh saki n usse itna rota dekh may be she cudn't stop herself aur usse jo bhi mann mein aaya usne kaha for which she's really sorry for...i don't feel she's wrong at any place..it's really very obvious in real life too wid mothers...they may not feel that their child should be over pampered...!ok...to an extent it's fine that a child needs love but jab it starts crossing limits then is a problem...
i know being a naksh fan n not shava's fan i shud take akshara's side but think of those mothers who've really gone under this condition...akshara come on now...forget ur sorrows n apni khushiyon ko yaad karo...!
i know t's not akshara's or varsha's mistake but friendship mein jab we have a fight it hurts...i've got a practical experience a fight wid ur best buddy is the worst part of ur life...each moment of ur life is none less then a life in hell...it's better that we make up soon n forget that we ever had a fight also...it's  a practical thinking of one's mind also n also a thing that is the person really sorry on his deed or not n when he feels that he's wrong he shouldn't wait for other to cum n say sorry but he himself shud go n make up...!
varsha did right ki she went herself to akshara n said her sorry,...!atleast if she isn't wrong @ a point but it's better that woh dono dobara friends ban jaaye n live their happy lived friendship together back again wid loadzz n loadzz of happiness...!Big smile
sorry for any wrong point...it's my first ever post which gets to be so long...!hope u understand what i meant to say is...!
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completely agreed... it is neither akshis nor varshas fault.. both had a point.. but to some extend.. akshi was wrong

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agree wid u totally...
it's a true fact that a woman is really left broken heart after a MC but it doesn't mean life has end up or she can not have a baby...i feel akshara should built up the strength in her n be positive...usse haalat ka saamna kana chahiye...agar she tries to forget everything things may get back to normal which the whole singhania family n mainly naitik wants...he wants her lovely wife to be back...akshara shud just forget sorrow n remember happiness...coz this is the only fact of life...khushi bhi utni hi hoti hai jitna dukh...
@ varsha's side i think she's right...n dadi se toh i'd totally agreed jab unhone kaha ki varsha bhi apni beti ko rote nahi dekh saki n usse itna rota dekh may be she cudn't stop herself aur usse jo bhi mann mein aaya usne kaha for which she's really sorry for...i don't feel she's wrong at any place..it's really very obvious in real life too wid mothers...they may not feel that their child should be over pampered...!ok...to an extent it's fine that a child needs love but jab it starts crossing limits then is a problem...
i know being a naksh fan n not shava's fan i shud take akshara's side but think of those mothers who've really gone under this condition...akshara come on now...forget ur sorrows n apni khushiyon ko yaad karo...!
i know t's not akshara's or varsha's mistake but friendship mein jab we have a fight it hurts...i've got a practical experience a fight wid ur best buddy is the worst part of ur life...each moment of ur life is none less then a life in hell...it's better that we make up soon n forget that we ever had a fight also...it's  a practical thinking of one's mind also n also a thing that is the person really sorry on his deed or not n when he feels that he's wrong he shouldn't wait for other to cum n say sorry but he himself shud go n make up...!
varsha did right ki she went herself to akshara n said her sorry,...!atleast if she isn't wrong @ a point but it's better that woh dono dobara friends ban jaaye n live their happy lived friendship together back again wid loadzz n loadzz of happiness...!Big smile
sorry for any wrong point...it's my first ever post which gets to be so long...!hope u understand what i meant to say is...!
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completely agreed... it is neither akshis nor varshas fault.. both had a point.. but to some extend.. akshi was wrong
that only...akshara ne galat kiya n she agrees then why not rajshri?yesterday was she not feeling bad for her daughter varsha se naraaz ho gayi but varsha was all helpless...usse jo sujha she spoke up...i wud have also done the same...leave me tell won't u have done that...!
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Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

Originally posted by stuti_naksh4eva

Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

agree wid u totally...
it's a true fact that a woman is really left broken heart after a MC but it doesn't mean life has end up or she can not have a baby...i feel akshara should built up the strength in her n be positive...usse haalat ka saamna kana chahiye...agar she tries to forget everything things may get back to normal which the whole singhania family n mainly naitik wants...he wants her lovely wife to be back...akshara shud just forget sorrow n remember happiness...coz this is the only fact of life...khushi bhi utni hi hoti hai jitna dukh...
@ varsha's side i think she's right...n dadi se toh i'd totally agreed jab unhone kaha ki varsha bhi apni beti ko rote nahi dekh saki n usse itna rota dekh may be she cudn't stop herself aur usse jo bhi mann mein aaya usne kaha for which she's really sorry for...i don't feel she's wrong at any place..it's really very obvious in real life too wid mothers...they may not feel that their child should be over pampered...!ok...to an extent it's fine that a child needs love but jab it starts crossing limits then is a problem...
i know being a naksh fan n not shava's fan i shud take akshara's side but think of those mothers who've really gone under this condition...akshara come on now...forget ur sorrows n apni khushiyon ko yaad karo...!
i know t's not akshara's or varsha's mistake but friendship mein jab we have a fight it hurts...i've got a practical experience a fight wid ur best buddy is the worst part of ur life...each moment of ur life is none less then a life in hell...it's better that we make up soon n forget that we ever had a fight also...it's  a practical thinking of one's mind also n also a thing that is the person really sorry on his deed or not n when he feels that he's wrong he shouldn't wait for other to cum n say sorry but he himself shud go n make up...!
varsha did right ki she went herself to akshara n said her sorry,...!atleast if she isn't wrong @ a point but it's better that woh dono dobara friends ban jaaye n live their happy lived friendship together back again wid loadzz n loadzz of happiness...!Big smile
sorry for any wrong point...it's my first ever post which gets to be so long...!hope u understand what i meant to say is...!
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completely agreed... it is neither akshis nor varshas fault.. both had a point.. but to some extend.. akshi was wrong
that only...akshara ne galat kiya n she agrees then why not rajshri?yesterday was she not feeling bad for her daughter varsha se naraaz ho gayi but varsha was all helpless...usse jo sujha she spoke up...i wud have also done the same...leave me tell won't u have done that...!
yup.. mein bi yeh hi karti,.. she knows she was rude.. and she accepted it... thats gud na... she went to meet her,,, i mean varsha did sooo much to make akshi happy... and now.. just bcoz utne itna bola... rj held her guiltyDead
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Originally posted by stuti_naksh4eva

Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

Originally posted by stuti_naksh4eva

Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

agree wid u totally...
it's a true fact that a woman is really left broken heart after a MC but it doesn't mean life has end up or she can not have a baby...i feel akshara should built up the strength in her n be positive...usse haalat ka saamna kana chahiye...agar she tries to forget everything things may get back to normal which the whole singhania family n mainly naitik wants...he wants her lovely wife to be back...akshara shud just forget sorrow n remember happiness...coz this is the only fact of life...khushi bhi utni hi hoti hai jitna dukh...
@ varsha's side i think she's right...n dadi se toh i'd totally agreed jab unhone kaha ki varsha bhi apni beti ko rote nahi dekh saki n usse itna rota dekh may be she cudn't stop herself aur usse jo bhi mann mein aaya usne kaha for which she's really sorry for...i don't feel she's wrong at any place..it's really very obvious in real life too wid mothers...they may not feel that their child should be over pampered...!ok...to an extent it's fine that a child needs love but jab it starts crossing limits then is a problem...
i know being a naksh fan n not shava's fan i shud take akshara's side but think of those mothers who've really gone under this condition...akshara come on now...forget ur sorrows n apni khushiyon ko yaad karo...!
i know t's not akshara's or varsha's mistake but friendship mein jab we have a fight it hurts...i've got a practical experience a fight wid ur best buddy is the worst part of ur life...each moment of ur life is none less then a life in hell...it's better that we make up soon n forget that we ever had a fight also...it's  a practical thinking of one's mind also n also a thing that is the person really sorry on his deed or not n when he feels that he's wrong he shouldn't wait for other to cum n say sorry but he himself shud go n make up...!
varsha did right ki she went herself to akshara n said her sorry,...!atleast if she isn't wrong @ a point but it's better that woh dono dobara friends ban jaaye n live their happy lived friendship together back again wid loadzz n loadzz of happiness...!Big smile
sorry for any wrong point...it's my first ever post which gets to be so long...!hope u understand what i meant to say is...!
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completely agreed... it is neither akshis nor varshas fault.. both had a point.. but to some extend.. akshi was wrong
that only...akshara ne galat kiya n she agrees then why not rajshri?yesterday was she not feeling bad for her daughter varsha se naraaz ho gayi but varsha was all helpless...usse jo sujha she spoke up...i wud have also done the same...leave me tell won't u have done that...!
yup.. mein bi yeh hi karti,.. she knows she was rude.. and she accepted it... thats gud na... she went to meet her,,, i mean varsha did sooo much to make akshi happy... and now.. just bcoz utne itna bola... rj held her guiltyDead
she feels for her daughter jo usse zyada ab kissi ki bahu hai...!rj ko varsha ki mental condition sochni chahiye thi naaki yeh ki usne kya galat kiya aur kya nahi...!

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Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

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Originally posted by sweet_deepshi

agree wid u totally...
it's a true fact that a woman is really left broken heart after a MC but it doesn't mean life has end up or she can not have a baby...i feel akshara should built up the strength in her n be positive...usse haalat ka saamna kana chahiye...agar she tries to forget everything things may get back to normal which the whole singhania family n mainly naitik wants...he wants her lovely wife to be back...akshara shud just forget sorrow n remember happiness...coz this is the only fact of life...khushi bhi utni hi hoti hai jitna dukh...
@ varsha's side i think she's right...n dadi se toh i'd totally agreed jab unhone kaha ki varsha bhi apni beti ko rote nahi dekh saki n usse itna rota dekh may be she cudn't stop herself aur usse jo bhi mann mein aaya usne kaha for which she's really sorry for...i don't feel she's wrong at any place..it's really very obvious in real life too wid mothers...they may not feel that their child should be over pampered...!ok...to an extent it's fine that a child needs love but jab it starts crossing limits then is a problem...
i know being a naksh fan n not shava's fan i shud take akshara's side but think of those mothers who've really gone under this condition...akshara come on now...forget ur sorrows n apni khushiyon ko yaad karo...!
i know t's not akshara's or varsha's mistake but friendship mein jab we have a fight it hurts...i've got a practical experience a fight wid ur best buddy is the worst part of ur life...each moment of ur life is none less then a life in hell...it's better that we make up soon n forget that we ever had a fight also...it's  a practical thinking of one's mind also n also a thing that is the person really sorry on his deed or not n when he feels that he's wrong he shouldn't wait for other to cum n say sorry but he himself shud go n make up...!
varsha did right ki she went herself to akshara n said her sorry,...!atleast if she isn't wrong @ a point but it's better that woh dono dobara friends ban jaaye n live their happy lived friendship together back again wid loadzz n loadzz of happiness...!Big smile
sorry for any wrong point...it's my first ever post which gets to be so long...!hope u understand what i meant to say is...!
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completely agreed... it is neither akshis nor varshas fault.. both had a point.. but to some extend.. akshi was wrong
that only...akshara ne galat kiya n she agrees then why not rajshri?yesterday was she not feeling bad for her daughter varsha se naraaz ho gayi but varsha was all helpless...usse jo sujha she spoke up...i wud have also done the same...leave me tell won't u have done that...!
yup.. mein bi yeh hi karti,.. she knows she was rude.. and she accepted it... thats gud na... she went to meet her,,, i mean varsha did sooo much to make akshi happy... and now.. just bcoz utne itna bola... rj held her guiltyDead
she feels for her daughter jo usse zyada ab kissi ki bahu hai...!rj ko varsha ki mental condition sochni chahiye thi naaki yeh ki usne kya galat kiya aur kya nahi...!



guys rajeshri is very selfish. Varsha always treats her like a mother but rajeshri will never consider varsha as a daughter. And we have seen so many examples of that. But for yesterday's episode at least she should have tried to understand varsha's feelings I mean only a mother can understand what a mother is feeling.

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