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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 9:26pm | IP Logged
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@Sarita - I would love to participate in the discussion. Even if the discussions are based on serials, it is not just chit-chatting about the serials. I feel it is a good platform to discuss about our views/ideas based on some story/characters. But as you know, IF is really addictive. I try to keep track of the time I spend here, but time just flies when I am in IF. 

Regarding YR, I can not compare myself to Akshara, but I like her character sketch basically because of her innocence and self-less nature (though it is too much at times). However, I don't like the over protective moms of YR. Even a small problem in their life, mothers will get hysteria. May be such moms exist, I am not denying it. But, I feel they should not just show hysteric moms all around. They should show some strong moms (or moms who will become stronger with circumstances). For example, I feel there is nothing wrong in Rashmi going abroad. Yes, G3 will feel bad. But, Rashmi is not the only daughter here. There are people to take care of Singanias and more over G3 and Rajbanna are still young. They should know there is a world beyond Udaipur also. 

It would be better if they show how their perceptions of "parampara" changes with time. What was true in 18th century doesn't hold now. Change is the only thing which is permanent.  

@Charu - Yes, motherhood is overrated in YR. Seeing these moms I start doubting whether I am a good mother or not LOL Both Rajashri and G3 are interfering moms. Actually, all moms (except dadi and kaki) are irritating to the core. But surprisingly no mom is worried for the real cause. For example, G3 never bothered about Naitik's career interests when he wanted to do independent job (don't know as I didn't see all the episodes then). Also, Rajashri not bothered about Akshara'a hobbies/skills and whether she want to continue that. Most of the time these amazing mothers are bothered about Khana. LOL However, there are people to control Rajashri but it is tough to control G3 and G3 knows how to get her work done. She is smart compared to Rajashri LOL

Nice discussion and analysis on characters. As I have already written before, I love to read yours and Sarita's posts. To be honest, whenever I get time I only read the posts and don't watch the serials. LOL

Talk about forum addiction...LOL Moms live to cook & feed in YR. I have wondered that several times, khane ke alawa dhuniya mein aur bahut kuch hai. But to be fair, jab bhi I visit I feel it is indeed true. Jaha pe jao toos toos ke khilathe hai; mujhe kabhi kabhi ghussa aatha hai when they force feed to the point were breathing is impossible...LOL But I get the typical answer, usme bhi unka pyar chipa hai, tho I just enjoy the attention & the pyaar...ROFL


The YR mom's are obsessive about their kids to a point where you want to thank your stars that your parents gave you room to breatheLOL G3 ko Nikhilji's girlfriend was resolved with just an explanation from him to Rashmi but the going abroad was an issueConfused Rajsri ko hur baath ki chinta; just staring into space for no apparent reason ever so oftenLOL Bacche ab bacche nahi rahe, duh...D'oh

At least Rajsri let her d-i-l go to college after much persuasion but for G3, education is not on her radar. Maybe it is for the daughter but not the d-i-l. BM, humne kaha kiya hai yeh sab is her excuseConfused Yeh bhi koyi excuse hai? Shocked

Sari, Akshara is not interested in studying, it was made clear..when she's not a good student n she never showed any interest then therez no point in starting the college track with akshara..instead they must show her taking interest in some other activity/helping naitik in his business, that wud be progressive..Varsha madam hi left her studies, how will akshara attend college at this stage now?

giving due credit to BM and Gayitri, they have changed a lot Clap Gayitri toh even tasted pasta n allowed akshara to cook "different" cuisine LOL chalo, for rashmi's sake but change to aa gaya...Gayitri has improved as a mom, not too much interfering these days (may be bec. she's busy with rashmi), let munna and bahu live their life..this change came after batwara Clap Rajshri has yet to show some improvement Ouch some pooja or havan is also done, woh bhi akshara ke liye hota hai ! 



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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 9:41pm | IP Logged
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Temple mein kya crowd tha...Shocked But even in that crowd, Akshara spotted Naithik & Nikhil spotted Rashmi from God knows where...ROFL Right when they needed to find Varsha, bahut beedh hogayi & they could only find Guniya..LOL ussi waqt dudh bhi fut gaya, Varsha phone bhool gayi...Sab ek itefaaq tha...ROFL

Wow, tumhari story tho Varsha se bahut milthi haiLOL  Padke bahut maza aaya...ROFL Yeh baache kya kya karwaate hai na...LOL Now Dimri may take tips from your story & extend this Varsha trackLOL Kutte ka even I have a problem; no dogs for me either. Accha hai na if she is with dadi for a little bit; tumhe thoda tho time miltha hai na apne liye...Smile

kuch time nahi milta LOL i have to look after the house, kitchen, 2 kids, IF all at the same time Cryafter 2nd baby i've become very weak, kaam nahi hota... hats off to u guys, u do everything w/o a support system...i've become a prisoner...i can't go out for little things which i want...i have to wait for my baby to sleep..abhi yest. i went out for an hour, uski dadi golgappa ban gayi LOL krisha was not sleeping, kitchen ka kaam blah blah Dead all dadi's r not like rajshri...aajkal ki dadi's say ke apna bacha sambhal ho jaise bhi, don't trouble us..n if u insist, u will hear "ah, my back is paining today" too often LOL mine says "mujhe toh chakkar aa rahe hai, mujhe toh kuch ho raha hai"ROFL sometimes i get very jealous ke life serial jaisi kyun nahi hoti Cry sabzi bhi maharajji le aate hai Cry bana bhi dete hai, khila bhi dete hai Cry roz bas saaree n jewellery pehen ki baith jao LOL raat ko hubby sar dabayega ! Day Dreaming mujhe koi badam milk nahi poochta Cry
 
meri story varsha se milti hai ShockedLOL nahi varsha is far better than me...varsha toh shouted at akshara, i dun see whoz in front of me when i'm angry ...

YR mein sab co-incidence hi hota haiDead remember the shivratri episode? itna crowded tha ke Singhania's hi nazar nahi aaye ROFL after a min. all were staring at naksh doing pooja...ananya was abs fine , ekdum se rone lagi when she saw the crowd Ouch i just hope EK baar toh maate stops talking to varsha LOL n complain n complain...




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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 6:17am | IP Logged
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Sari, Akshara is not interested in studying, it was made clear..when she's not a good student n she never showed any interest then therez no point in starting the college track with akshara..instead they must show her taking interest in some other activity/helping naitik in his business, that wud be progressive..Varsha madam hi left her studies, how will akshara attend college at this stage now?

giving due credit to BM and Gayitri, they have changed a lot Clap Gayitri toh even tasted pasta n allowed akshara to cook "different" cuisine LOL chalo, for rashmi's sake but change to aa gaya...Gayitri has improved as a mom, not too much interfering these days (may be bec. she's busy with rashmi), let munna and bahu live their life..this change came after batwara Clap Rajshri has yet to show some improvement Ouch some pooja or havan is also done, woh bhi akshara ke liye hota hai ! 


@bold - If our parents never pushed us, how many of us would have been educated? School hi nahi jaate...LOL Naithik being an MBA should instill that in her, padai kitni jaroori hoti hai for your personal betterment. Haan, they are rich so they don't need bahu to work. But is not just about kaam karna; it opens your horizon, your thinking expands beyond rasoi.


Chalo, kam se kam uska passion hi follow karthi. Go for music classes; DJ ke liye naya bhajan...ROFL Yeh khana pakana bahut ho gaya. Google/Sanjeev Kapoor shows ke zamane mein koyi cooking classes jatha hai?Shocked All cooking classes may be going out of business but Akshara ko mushkil se admission...ROFL



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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 7:14am | IP Logged
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Sari, Akshara is not interested in studying, it was made clear..when she's not a good student n she never showed any interest then therez no point in starting the college track with akshara..instead they must show her taking interest in some other activity/helping naitik in his business, that wud be progressive..Varsha madam hi left her studies, how will akshara attend college at this stage now?

giving due credit to BM and Gayitri, they have changed a lot Clap Gayitri toh even tasted pasta n allowed akshara to cook "different" cuisine LOL chalo, for rashmi's sake but change to aa gaya...Gayitri has improved as a mom, not too much interfering these days (may be bec. she's busy with rashmi), let munna and bahu live their life..this change came after batwara Clap Rajshri has yet to show some improvement Ouch some pooja or havan is also done, woh bhi akshara ke liye hota hai ! 


@bold - If our parents never pushed us, how many of us would have been educated? School hi nahi jaate...LOL Naithik being an MBA should instill that in her, padai kitni jaroori hoti hai for your personal betterment. Haan, they are rich so they don't need bahu to work. But is not just about kaam karna; it opens your horizon, your thinking expands beyond rasoi.


Chalo, kam se kam uska passion hi follow karthi. Go for music classes; DJ ke liye naya bhajan...ROFL Yeh khana pakana bahut ho gaya. Google/Sanjeev Kapoor shows ke zamane mein koyi cooking classes jatha hai?Shocked All cooking classes may be going out of business but Akshara ko mushkil se admission...ROFL


I totally agree about the education part. Education It is not just for looking for job. Somehow, I feel education (in any form) should be a part of one's life through out. That way we become better year by year. It may be difficult when the kids are small. But, not difficult for Akshara or for mothers who have grown up children. Yes, during our initial years our parents were pushing us to study. But in higher education, we have the choice of subjects and we can pursue our interest.  

Even I found the cooking class part very hilarious. LOL There are 1000 cookery shows on TV. By the way we havent seen TV in Singhania/Maheshwari mansions.


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Posted: 23 May 2011 at 9:59am | IP Logged
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Well put all along,Clap especially hard hitting just as habitual mediocrity creeps in along with habitual overstretchesBig smile...though must say, in this round, overstretching itself is not so out of place...a lingering knot and attending tribulations or its tackling are still in route, but manufactured Bindiya pregnancy or engineered Varsha are not.Ouch In this context your hilarious parody is analyzing the scenario most aptlyClap...Butting in late and possibly repeating some already observed points...just indulge...Smile


  • Cvs are deliberately positioning Varsha in an offensive rudeness mode, Just as Dj was showed too mean and stingy (with excusable injuries) ' almost as inconsistent-so is now Varsha. The character is stretched to buttress the vulnerability of the Leads- a kind of pushed at receiving end of insensitivity.
  • That said, objectively, from what has been showed, Varsha does come across inconsiderate.Ouch And rude to BOTH. For first time, she completely disregards Naitik's presence in her fit- almost co accusing him. This is very unusual, for she had always been showed deferential to SIL of the house. Her insensitivity has extra edge of incredulity, for it was she, who'd first adduced Ananya as a healing touch.
  • So far, she'd been irritating many a times, with almost condescending attitude to her husband, sometimes making one wonder, were Nani's pragmatic observations had some grain w.r.t. her?LOL...though of course over done. But to akshi, she'd been always redeeming positive- all the more inconsistent today.Confused
  • Looks like, their primary goal is to further emphasize an irreplaceable interdependence of a couple, outlasting even those who are nearest or dearest. How intensely close will they meld ahead?Embarrassed Till a point of singularity?!LOL
  • There is a slightest chance- a BTish twistShocked (and hence almost unlikely here- thank godBig smile). Is Varsha deliberately rude to her closest friend? A shock therapy- to jolt her into a lasting mettle. If so, a very unusual jolt.Confused But then built in Bindiya conversation or unprepared Anaya would have been too circumstantial (or red Herring) to consider such twist. So better, dropping it from outset.
  • In the end, your suggestion, 'Radhe 'Krishna Varsha Bhabi', Akshara and Naitik simultaneously, would be a high point of this Varsha ruckusStar...But then how would they prolong!?...LOL

Once again, it was treat to read the post...


Thank you @smrth... Your feedback is always valuable, der se hi sahiClap Much has been made of Varsha's insecurities. I just don't get it, like there was a talk about adoption or like Akshara was a surrogate mother? It barely has been 2 or 3 days YR time & Akshara has met the girl on 3 different occasions;  a mother feels insecure w/just 3 days of attention from her bua?Shocked

  • People in Udaipur really need to get out more often, at least the M's & S'sLOL Parents leave their kids in daycare, babysitters, etc where there is a possibility of neglect/abuse. Here Varsha is complaining about Akshara showering her child w/loveConfused
  • Yes, Akshara was wrong, a little too intrusive with all the Ananya rut. Varsha tried showing her displeasure but by now Varsha knows, Akshara never gets hints. College dropout, Varsha's notes were her lifeline...D'oh 
  • Can Varsha not step in & stop her, have a little chat? Nahi Akshara mujhe yeh dress zyaada pasand hai or I got this specially for this occasion, end of story. Why would Akshara take offense? Knowing Akshara, she would simply say sorry to both Anaya & VarshaLOL They talk about their personal lives, husband ki burai/acchai on a daily basis; how would this conversation any different?Confused
  • Varsha needs to be mindful of the fact that this may affect the family relations. This is her s-i-l's sasural who are very traditional & maintained their ladkewaale status. Varsha was screaming at her with a total disregard for Naithik. He was also an accomplice in the whole Ananya saga...LOLWasn't it Varsha's & subsequently Naithik's idea to begin with?
  • Where is the respect for Jamaisa? Shaurya although older than Naithik always treated him w/great respect & he was very subtle when he accused Naithik during the Shivratri incident. Naithik chose to hide it from his parents to avoid conflicts.
  • I hope she doesn't utter anything stupid todayOuch Whether it was intentional, only CV's have the answer but I believe what is in your subconscious always comes to the surface when you are angry or you're drunkLOL

Naithik has been showing great maturity in the last few months; & I expect a classy Naithik to surface here. He needs to show his badapan in all of this & Varsha rightly needs to feel embarrassed. Akshara needs to distance herself from both the mother & daughter & concentrate on her future. 



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kuch time nahi milta LOL i have to look after the house, kitchen, 2 kids, IF all at the same time Cryafter 2nd baby i've become very weak, kaam nahi hota... hats off to u guys, u do everything w/o a support system...i've become a prisoner...i can't go out for little things which i want...i have to wait for my baby to sleep..abhi yest. i went out for an hour, uski dadi golgappa ban gayi LOL krisha was not sleeping, kitchen ka kaam blah blah Dead all dadi's r not like rajshri...aajkal ki dadi's say ke apna bacha sambhal ho jaise bhi, don't trouble us..n if u insist, u will hear "ah, my back is paining today" too often LOL mine says "mujhe toh chakkar aa rahe hai, mujhe toh kuch ho raha hai"ROFL sometimes i get very jealous ke life serial jaisi kyun nahi hoti Cry sabzi bhi maharajji le aate hai Cry bana bhi dete hai, khila bhi dete hai Cry roz bas saaree n jewellery pehen ki baith jao LOL raat ko hubby sar dabayega ! Day Dreaming mujhe koi badam milk nahi poochta Cry
 
meri story varsha se milti hai ShockedLOL nahi varsha is far better than me...varsha toh shouted at akshara, i dun see whoz in front of me when i'm angry ...

YR mein sab co-incidence hi hota haiDead remember the shivratri episode? itna crowded tha ke Singhania's hi nazar nahi aaye ROFL after a min. all were staring at naksh doing pooja...ananya was abs fine , ekdum se rone lagi when she saw the crowd Ouch i just hope EK baar toh maate stops talking to varsha LOL n complain n complain...




Itna stress muth lo yaar...not good at all for yourself or everyone around you. Kyonki, most likely you if you are like me you will take it out on the kids or the husband. Itna tension lekhe tumhara dhimak bhi kharab & then your health too will be compromised.

Thoda kaam ko kissi aur ko delegate karo, I meant servants not maajiLOL Apne liye thoda time nikhalo, bahut zaroori hai. Haan, humhe sab karna padtha hai but that is because we don't have a choice. Mein tho every day ek ghanta for my workouts, only thing that keeps me sane & cheerfulLOL Since I can't hit the gym w/kids; ghar mein hi kar lethi hun. Aisa hi kuch karo; it relieves the stress.

Aaj dekha nahi but hopefully we don't have to see the maate-Varsha bout anymore but Bindiya track aur bhi pakao haiOuch Kya kare, humhara kaun suntha hai? Dead




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