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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 6:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by rainy.days

Not really sure how I feel about this episode. I do sympathize with Akshara, but Varsha does have a right to worry for her child and I don't think she overreacted one bit. As much as Varsha annoys me half the time, trying to be completely unbiased I'm going to say that Akshara's constant "Ananya-this, Ananya-that" was going overboard. There's only so much one can tolerate - Akshara always wanting to carry Ananya, putting on the dress, doing this with Ananya, doing that with Ananya really was getting frustrating for Varsha. You could tell throughout the episode that Varsha was getting annoyed. Bringing Ananya home was just the sort of thing that made her burst. I love kids and my niece and nephew mean the world to me, but one needs to understand one's limits. No matter how much you love the baby, she is not yours. I know Akshara meant well and wanted to take Ananya away from the heat and congestion of people, but that doesn't mean you take her home without telling her mother. So what if Bindiya said she would tell them?! If Bindiya is around, then Varsha would probably have been close by, right? They should have waited for her a little longer. Akshara needs to get out of her misery and move on. I'm glad this tiff happened - hopefully Akshara will stop feeling sorry for herself and start living again.

But anyway, I'm glad Naitik is with Akshara - we all know he'll be the wonderful husband that he is and help her through this issue. Day Dreaming

And not going to lie, I found it cute how Nikhil was standing on the other side of the mandir looking at Rashmi. Tongue


Very correctly and precisely put... just what I was thinking... It started with the dress and blew up with taking the baby home... A mother wants to do all things her way for her child... and its would have been so frustrating when she could not dress Ananya as she wanted... Akshara needs to stop revovlving her happiness around Ananya so much... In context of this post i should say that Varsha was not overreacting but Akshara should stop becoming over excited about Ananya... 


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Posted: 21 May 2011 at 7:02pm | IP Logged
Varshas reaction was toally justified...i was really happy to see her not say anyting when akshara got ananya all dressed up i mean thatshows that she really cares about akshara and didnt want her to feel bad but Varshan is a mother and of course she would be owrried!!! akshara needs to undersatnd varshas point of view also...i understand that she miscarried but i feel like she is acting way to depressed its not like the doctors said she couldnt have another child...i now its very hard for her to get through this but i feel like akshara is overacting and not varsha

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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 2:22am | IP Logged
I am following this thread since very long, yesterday when i was seeing this drama. I myself was feeling bad for varsha, the way akshara was keep on taking ananya from varsha. Love is something but getting attracted or possessive about someone is other thing. I do not blame akshara for this, she was depressed, varsha and naitik took ananya help to cheer her up but they did not thought that a depressed person can turn into psychotic by seeing the baby. Akshara is so much into ananya now that it will be very sad when varsha will not let akshara come near ananya. "meri ananiya" showed the symptoms of motherhood for ananya by akshara which is wrong and elders of the house should make her understand in a polite way that akshara is ananya's bua and varsha is the mother. I felt really bad when akshara without asking varsha made ananya wear that dress and did not even feel that varsha felt bad and in pooja too she keep on picking ananya, the way she was doing it can irritate any mother. Thats what i wanted to say, yes i feel that akshara should have not taken ananya home without varsha's permission. There was car, they could sit with the ac so ananya should not feel hot so i think akshara is overreacting not varsha.

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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 4:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by rainy.days

Not really sure how I feel about this episode. I do sympathize with Akshara, but Varsha does have a right to worry for her child and I don't think she overreacted one bit. As much as Varsha annoys me half the time, trying to be completely unbiased I'm going to say that Akshara's constant "Ananya-this, Ananya-that" was going overboard. There's only so much one can tolerate - Akshara always wanting to carry Ananya, putting on the dress, doing this with Ananya, doing that with Ananya really was getting frustrating for Varsha. You could tell throughout the episode that Varsha was getting annoyed. Bringing Ananya home was just the sort of thing that made her burst. I love kids and my niece and nephew mean the world to me, but one needs to understand one's limits. No matter how much you love the baby, she is not yours. I know Akshara meant well and wanted to take Ananya away from the heat and congestion of people, but that doesn't mean you take her home without telling her mother. So what if Bindiya said she would tell them?! If Bindiya is around, then Varsha would probably have been close by, right? They should have waited for her a little longer. Akshara needs to get out of her misery and move on. I'm glad this tiff happened - hopefully Akshara will stop feeling sorry for herself and start living again.

But anyway, I'm glad Naitik is with Akshara - we all know he'll be the wonderful husband that he is and help her through this issue. Day Dreaming

And not going to lie, I found it cute how Nikhil was standing on the other side of the mandir looking at Rashmi. Tongue

i agree.. Varsha is right but not in getting annoyed with Akshara over little things like pallu n baby standing...just bec. akshara had a miscarriage, varsha is thinking that akshara is showering ananya with all her mamta, fulfilling all her motherly desires.,  that's wrong, ..ye kya thinking hai Confused why is she feeling insecure??? what if rajshri was there in akshara's place??? if Varsha is thinking that way, it's very wrong..the way she was talking, aisa hi lag raha tha, that's why everyone is blaming varsha here..

akshara or any layman doesn't know how to handle kids..what is good for them and what not...like when bhola wanted to hold the baby, she said "abhi choti hai, isko infection ho jayega" ..LOL i agree, nobody, i repeat, nobody likes this "motherly talk" but aisa hi hai ! that's why i'm saying akshara must not take it to heart , only bec. she had a mc, varsha ne ye sab nahi sunaya but she wud have said the same if akshara was pregnant or she was a mother of 2...MAY BE


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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 4:37am | IP Logged
i feel varsha is right at her place n this track's gonna rock...!may be this is not her mistake or she is doing this jaankar...but it's really natural...no one can tolerate another person taking their baby n pampering it so much that the baby isn't ready to go to her mom...as such aisa hota nahi hai lekin just wanna convey this ki varsha isn't wrong...

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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 7:38am | IP Logged
as a mother varsha's action is justified n also she gave in to akshara's wishers too even tho she felt bad 

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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 11:36am | IP Logged
I feel Varsha is overreacting beacause in the first place when akshara had a MC,varsha just allowed her to play with Ananya all the time and she kind of promoted the attachment between two of them and when Akshara was getting more and more attached to her,she started feeling insecure..Okay Akshara also should understand that she is her bua not mother but come on she is going thru that face and nobody absolutely nobody is encouraging her to face the reality...

Also even earlier Varsha kind of made sure that Rajshri takes care of her daughter whenever she wants to sleep,go out etc but then Ananya started getting attached to her,she didn't like it at all..So I am kind of confused with varsha's character,what exactly creatives wants to show...

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Posted: 22 May 2011 at 11:54am | IP Logged
as i feel tht yaa she ovre reacted  coz she ws frustated from her coz akshi make her wear th cloth th akshi brought. ..th way she lokd at akshi asa lagraha tha tht she steel her child or some thing like tht ...and she knew tht she is with akshi sooo y to make sooo much of hungama Ermm

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