Posted: 20 May 2011 at 9:34pm | IP Logged
Lots of posts lately about reuniting Sid-Nivi and I have read lots of justification from the point of view of Sid-Nivi fans. I have seen Sid-Nivi as a couple and Viren-Nivi as a couple. They both are cute couples. However this issue is not about which couple looks better. So far even though CCBM started as Sid-Nvi love story it was changed to Nivren love story. Sid and Nivi had a relationship at one point, they made promises to each other and planned to be married. This did not work out so they both moved on in their own ways.
Nivi -Viren are now married and they have committed to one another. At this time they have fully committed. It does not matter WHY they married or what happened in the past, the Nivren marriage needs to be accepted for what it is at this time. They have dealt with their past issues and now are a truly married couple. Aat this point to intrduce something to cause them to sacrifice their marriage or break up the marriage to reunite Sid-Nivi is to make a mockery of marriage as well as viewers intelligence. It does not show respect for marriage or even for the character sketches that we have been given.
Sometimes people do have relationships and then are married to someone else. This happens and people are happy with thesse marriges and move forwards. Now if their old flame shows up one day with the responsibilty of a child does it make sense that they would throw away their spouses at the first provocation and run to this other person just because they are their "first love". First love may be special because it is the first awareness of these feelings and the novelty that comes with this. How many people are married to their first love. And of the people who are not are they unhappy.
If the Sid putul story was going to happen then it should have happened through out the running of the show and Nivi should have remained Putul. Now Nivi is Nivedita and as her character hasgrown she requires someone who is compatible with Nivedita. To turn Nivi back to Putul is going backwards. RS needs to show a strong marriage that faces the hurdles and emerges stronger. This would be worth watching. This would be the logical conclusion.