Chhoti Bahu - Sawar Ke Rang Rachi

Mistis thoughts 20th may 2011 - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Misti, you are absolutely right.  The anger was spontaneous and a result of a lot of his conflicting feelings.  Even though there is no monologue, logically for me this is the projection of his own guilt as it is easier to blame Radhika than to look at himself because as you wrote several times in last few days that this means questioning everything he has been led to belief or even taught by Amba for that matter.  


Now the new promo talks about Dev becoming pleasant to Radhika. This action of his is a catalyst for that because he has to know that he went too far. So again if they just cut this scene and suddenly he is smiling at Radhika who is also happy won't be natural.  There has to be a self-retrospection here and also at least have to realize that he was blaming Radhika for something that wasn't her fault.  He has to understand her misery and probably this physical abuse (because it is contrary to his nature or at least I hope it is) has to eat him up alive with remorse. He should not be able to move forward until he apologizes to Radhika for this.

Angie watch the promo...it has been posted by Nipun ...there is a slight softening of expression on Devs face and I don't think either is smiling at the other...they are facing each other in their own rooms...Radhika in her room overlooking Devs room across the courtyard...she is putting on bangles and feels a presence looks out of the window and they show Dev standing there watching her with a contemplative look and voice over saying "Radhika ke prati pighal rahi hai Dev ki Karvahat"...so maybe the physical abuse will be a catalyst as you have mentioned...but they have to show his remorse at his actions...him breaking down and apologizing to Radhika... otherwise again they will leave loopholes between what has been shown in the past week and Devs softening towards Radhika.  

But again, this intentional plan of making Radhika would be a change in the script and does not go with the previous episodes and all his thoughts shown so far.  Now the question is the sudden change in his behavior.  Is it because the audience are getting repulsed by Dev and they had to change his character?  If audience are getting repulsed, I don't blame them.  As Misti said, fans are comparing him with Dev of CB1 and here no perspective was ever given and they made his thoughts so one-sided (only thinking of Rohan as he wasn't even talking about Dadaji at that time) that he started coming across as extremely selfish and self-centered who liked to blame Radhika for his wrong actions.
That is why for Dev monologues are important to connect him with the audience.

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Posted: 12 years ago
Misti liked ur interesting comments and the discussions on the thread and all interesting points covered by all of u Dadaji did not tell anyone till today as BB never missed out giving the injection on time and the only time she missed out was in this episode and then Radhika whom DDG liked from the 1st instance was there so he tried to tell  her everything,and a correct person too as she will think in a rational manner as she has no bias or predetermined mindset about any of the members except KK😉.But then if she finds anything wrong in him she will also not hesitate in calling a spade a spade.

As for the promo till now we have 2 new promos shown dont know whether they will come in the show or not as promos can also be misleading😉😛
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Angie watch the promo...it has been posted by Nipun ...there is a slight softening of expression on Devs face and I don't think either is smiling at the other...they are facing each other in their own rooms...Radhika in her room overlooking Devs room across the courtyard...she is putting on bangles and feels a presence looks out of the window and they show Dev standing there watching her with a contemplative look and voice over saying "Radhika ke prati pighal rahi hai Dev ki Karvahat"...so maybe the physical abuse will be a catalyst as you have mentioned...but they have to show his remorse at his actions...him breaking down and apologizing to Radhika... otherwise again they will leave loopholes between what has been shown in the past week and Devs softening towards Radhika.  

 

Misti,  I just watched the promo and his reaction made more sense.  But again hope they show the remorse properly where he is ashamed of himself for doing that to Radhika.  No matter the provocation, it didn't justify his behavior and in this case Radhika was not even provoking him.  She meekly agreed to his rude statement about her not interfering in his time with Dadaji and offered to come later.  

So this scene has to come after he apologizes to Radhika for his behavior and they reach an impasse where he is not rude with her but avoiding her.  Then this scene would make sense as he is the one to close that window and now he is opening that window.  Since he has accepted his feelings for her (don't want to call it love at this time as he doesn't know the meaning of love; previously it was attraction and now it is attraction plus something more), he is drawn towards her and this window gazing at her in the privacy is what he would do.  Radhika on the other hand would also look at him but would be wary of him as he truly hurt her and she may not want to open herself to more hurt.  Anyway, have to see how they show it on Monday,
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Posted: 12 years ago
This content was originally posted by: chalhov

Misti liked ur interesting comments and the discussions on the thread and all interesting points covered by all of u Dadaji did not tell anyone till today as BB never missed out giving the injection on time and the only time she missed out was in this episode and then Radhika whom DDG liked from the 1st instance was there so he tried to tell  her everything,and a correct person too as she will think in a rational manner as she has no bias or predetermined mindset about any of the members except KK😉.But then if she finds anything wrong in him she will also not hesitate in calling a spade a spade.

As for the promo till now we have 2 new promos shown dont know whether they will come in the show or not as promos can also be misleading😉😛


Thanks Chalhov...even  if anyone else other than Radika had been with dadaji then I also don't think that he would have told anyone anything ...he knows how everyone behaves with badi bahu. Maybe he told Radhika because as you have said she is an outsider and will be more objective. 

I will wait for the episode...the promos are usually shot to generate interest...
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Misti,  I just watched the promo and his reaction made more sense.  But again hope they show the remorse properly where he is ashamed of himself for doing that to Radhika.  No matter the provocation, it didn't justify his behavior and in this case Radhika was not even provoking him.  She meekly agreed to his rude statement about her not interfering in his time with Dadaji and offered to come later.  

So this scene has to come after he apologizes to Radhika for his behavior and they reach an impasse where he is not rude with her but avoiding her.  Then this scene would make sense as he is the one to close that window and now he is opening that window.  Since he has accepted his feelings for her (don't want to call it love at this time as he doesn't know the meaning of love; previously it was attraction and now it is attraction plus something more), he is drawn towards her and this window gazing at her in the privacy is what he would do.  Radhika on the other hand would also look at him but would be wary of him as he truly hurt her and she may not want to open herself to more hurt.  Anyway, have to see how they show it on Monday,


Angie they might not show this on monday and they might also show something not exactly the same but similar. Sometimes promos are shown in the episodes and sometimes something similar is shown...promos are usually shown to generate interest. Last week for fridays episode they were continuously showing a promo of Radhika feeling that someone is watching and then she is following a shadow...and then articles about Maheshwari being xposed...those were just to generate interest. What they showed on friday was similar yet different...Radhika did get a message that there is someone who is out to do something bad to the family but badi bahus identity to her might be exposed a bit later...the same thing might also happen with this promo. Either they will show this or something similar.

As for Dev he should be shown breaking down and filled with remorse for his actions and ashamed too...it does not matter whether Radhika came to talk to him or not... abuse is never justified and this is the second time he has done this...first one was with the suitcase and he should realise that if he is not careful then he might cause serious harm to Radhika.  On the other hand Radhika should be shown withdrawing...and maintaining a distance..Thn hat scene can come. But  I don't know how chunnu munnu will show it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Yes !! yes! yes!!!! DEV JANU was tooo  good!!! i reli luved the episode...hats of avinash!!!! u've done it once again n proved ur the BEST EVER !!!! love u lots!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ☺️ 😍

DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️😍
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Posted: 12 years ago
This content was originally posted by: chalhov

Misti liked ur interesting comments and the discussions on the thread and all interesting points covered by all of u Dadaji did not tell anyone till today as BB never missed out giving the injection on time and the only time she missed out was in this episode and then Radhika whom DDG liked from the 1st instance was there so he tried to tell  her everything,and a correct person too as she will think in a rational manner as she has no bias or predetermined mindset about any of the members except KK😉.But then if she finds anything wrong in him she will also not hesitate in calling a spade a spade.

As for the promo till now we have 2 new promos shown dont know whether they will come in the show or not as promos can also be misleading😉😛



but yar he was wearing the same shirt of friday's episode? maybe the promo its tonite's episode..since he had tol tat he love her sooo much ..even till today!! 😍😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes !! yes! yes!!!! DEV JANU was tooo  good!!! i reli luved the episode...hats of avinash!!!! u've done it once again n proved ur the BEST EVER !!!! love u lots!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ☺️ 😍

DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV DEV!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️😍

 
Tigu you are back...😃...Yes your Janu was very good.👏
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 May be this Promo is continuity of that scene  of his breaking down and feeling remorse how he physically abused  and hurt her ...But have to show him asking for  forgiveness for his behavior to her otherwise what,s the use of his softening attitude towards her  and why should Radhika be shown happy with his little bit of smile , its kind of you are throwing some crumbs after hurting a person ...But its high time Creatives have to connect him  emotionally to viewers that can not be done without him feeling bad with his behavior  in solitude and start showing some kind of ehsaas he feels for her ...Agree with you Misti Radhika has to distance herself from him