Originally posted by annika20
No need to bash Anandi or the actress who plays Anandi, just because some of you are J-G fans!
Anandi is in depression! Do you even know the meaning of depression? Do you expect her to be all happy or moving on with life so soon?
People in depression become expressionless, looking morose or lost all the time and they feel bogged down. Even getting out of bed, eating or washing their face and simple everyday things become difficult for them! They are so consumed by their grief that they are not able to do anything! Google to learn more about depression and its various forms.
And people are bashing Anandi to glory!
Anandi was still trying to be okay when Jagya-Gauri were not in the house. But how do you expect a woman to be all happy or behave as if nothing has happened, when her husband and his second wife are staying in the same room where she herself used to stay, and all this tamasha is happening under one roof?!
Students get fixated over poor marks in a board or entrance exam and end up in depression or commit suicide. While here we're dealing with a girl who was brought up to live with that guy and treat him as a husband! She completely submitted herself to J and his family!
Anandi is not a dumb or stupid character like others in some post 10 PM shows on Colors! Anandi was vivacious, bright and a chilled out human being.
DS and later on, his spoilt whimsical laadesar killed her dreams!
Anandi is the LEAD of this show. The show started with her. Others like Jag or Gauri came later. The Singh family was not even in the picture for initial weeks when this show started! And the girl who plays older Anandi, was chosen by viewers through a nationwide SMS and online poll! She was not brought out of the blue like some other characters/actors!
I'm sure, once she is past the grieving and learns that Jagya is truly not worth the tears, she will pick up the broken pieces and move on!
If there are a couple of people who fast forward videos or change the channel when Anandi scenes are on, then there are even more viewers who murmur curses or gaalis whenever Gauri scenes are on!
Gauri must have also gone through frustration and even depression when she encountered all the ignominy after being chucked out by Singh family. But she was shown as a 17-18 year old. In those 6-7 years post that incident of forced child marriage with Jagya, she must have also slowed down, become morose, but later attempted to move on and make something of her life.
Whereas people here are not willing to give Anandi any time to grieve and later heal. Who knows what Gauri had become after that incident? How much time it took her to get back to normal? How can people pass a judgement on Anandi so quickly?
I hope this show never becomes like that 10 PM show - a triangle, rectangle or whatever!
I don't care if Jagya loves Gauri or not, or brings another beendni if someday he comes across a smart woman who's a Nobel laureate in medicine!
It's too early to say anything about J truly loving Gauri. If he truly loved her, then they should have forgotten everything else and just went on with their ''love'' like SRK-Rani in KANK or Amitabh-Rekha in Silsila! In the both these movies, the couple in love doesn't feel guilty, doesn't think about their respective spouses, they only hesitate a bit, but give in to their passion soon!
Why is J having hallucinations of Anandi in the room while he is with Gauri? The guy is still hanging in balance!
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I couldnt agree more with whatever you wrote. And regarding the moderator's note, I dont think there can be any forum without criticism. Whenever there is a discussion there is bound to be different opinions and criticisms.