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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 11:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nivren

Originally posted by kavianand

[QUOTE=shanil_p]instead of asking Sid-Putul fans these question u better ask CVs these questions.

1.  when Viren married his brother's lover forcefully, it was fine. ( So u ppl will do that?)

2.  Viren tried to kill his wife, it is justifiable. (So u ppl will do this too.)

I'm proud to say that i'm a Sid-Putul fan. really didn't ever like all these ridiculous twists and turns and that's my problem and i asked questions to CVs only and not to so called Nivrens.

i have stopped watching this show ever since Nivren marriage. now i really don't care who marries whom or who dies, who not... and i really don't care who sacrifices whom.. really CCBM is the most ridiculous show i have ever seen.  Actually girl Nivedita does not deserve Siddharth. he is really a great character in this show.

so better ask CVs these questions...


Very good answer..thank you...There are lot of things which happened in the beginning..almost close to incest...If It can be put that way...Should the women of today Go for Midnite dates and Take pheres with one and then marry the brother...These things dont happen in reality...atleast girls from good background will not do such things...so dont ask us these questions...Will any younger brother do this knowing his elder brothers love life...will any younger brother out of jealosy do such heinous things...In reality such things dont happen,,,its a fiction...
Now from the very beginning It was very clearly said that the story was about Sid and Nivi...many promos were made...many songs were made for them...All this was done with the script in mind ..that they will reunite them in the end...They did not even give aproper closure...becoz of this..
I know Right now Nivi looks like she loves Viren coz she feels she should and Viceversa so that is wht the storyline wants us to believe...Only when u truly love ..U can undersatnd and sacrifice...I knew that Viren will fall irrevocably in love with Nivi..Only then will he realise where her true happiness lies...But please remember Nivis heart has been a big secret,...no one has never known wht desires she has hidden in it!! 
 
U should also remember that They have always shown and maintained that Sid could never love Divya the way a husband should have..having a kid does not prove any thing...Many loveless couples have kids and then marriage breaks apart...so there again Sid is never shown to be happy...there must be a reason for it...
 
The adhoore pheres and the locket...Her accusation of sid being the stalker...Virens revelation... her marital problems...Etc nothing has stopped Nivi from thinking that Sid is her best friend...so many things have happened But Nivi is laways shown to directly or indirectly involved with Sid and his problems .Be it Divya Or their unborn child and Now Dwitha...
 
This shows that whatever the show had spoken about in the beginning they are showing that only...Divya s death has proved that now...
 
For us Nivaarth fans the only marriage that has taken place in CCBM is the Sid and NIVi one...so we dont really feel the other marriages will last...
 
It is our perspective of seeing the story...It doesnt mean that Tomorrow Nivi will leave Viren and Jump into Sids arms...that would be disgusting!!
 
Lots of things will have to happen even before Sid and Nivi will even think of each other in that way...
 
There is nothing wrong in speculating things based on the storyline which was promised to us...If it happens great..Otherwise Also i would always Feel that Siddharths character was never dealt with fairly...and it is just unfortunate!!
 
It has been a painful journey For us Nivaarth fans To see Nivi and Sid in others arms,,It has been a torture actually!! MAy be u are unaware of the fact that there are lots of Nivaarth fans who dont really Visit the Forum,,Becoz they are Bullied...But that doesnt mean they dont exist...
 
Dont talk about TRPs and Cheapen NIvren..If Nivren has appealed to so many then there must be something really good about it ...so do not commercialise it with the name of TRPs...which most of them are doin and by the way this particular point is not for the topic maker but in general  for those who judge CCBM by TRPs...
 
 
 
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Dont talk about TRPs and Cheapen NIvren..If Nivren has appealed to so many then there must be something really good about it ...so do not commercialise it with the name of TRPs...which most of them are doin and by the way this particular point is not for the topic maker but in general  for those who judge CCBM by TRPs...

I have been also watching CCBM from 28th June...though I joined IF only in December...I agree with u on this one point...tht only TRPs are only not concerned with Nivren...people have seen something good in it...though members speaking in the language of TRPs r less:)
   @ Shaf...though we had a bitter talk...i agree with u wholeheartedly...tht we Nivarth and Nivren members should not fight...and help in making this forum ...a happy one :)
 
thnx for agreeing with me Tongue
so from now on no fights Tongue

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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 3:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sahuja

Ok guys I have read what everyone I questioning and I just want to raise one point here. Let's not talk any what should have happened. A lot of serials start with one story and turn to become something else along the way. Nivren's here are questioning that with the present track and story now that we know nivren love each other, is it morally right for vireo to divorce nivi and nivi to return to sid? had this had to happen , our question is why after dd death? Sid and nivi's feelings have not changed for each other now. They still regard themselves as friends and jeth-devarani. So just bec nivi is under the guilt of having killed her own sister, is it acceptable reason to divorce ur current husband and go back to ur ex lover just bec his wife gas died now and his child needs a mother. Nivaeths marriage was incomplete. It was never completed. So an incomplete marriage become more important than a complete marriage- complete in every sense. If nivarths think it is morally right that nicety shoul get back, then we believe that all the girls an boys supporting out this would be ready to take this step in their personal lives too. I am sorry if I Hirt someoe, but I am just talking any being practical and morality here. Is a woman a ball, that can be thrown into anyone's life . Nivi and sid made their own decisions any marriage. If anyone is to blame for novarth split-up it should be nivi and sid. They never trusted each other to fight it out. Viren was not the reason for their breakup. Hope u realize it. Had nivi not married viren that day, she would have still found a way to get Sid and dd married. So how can everyone just blame viren.
@ Suhuja, no one is not blaming Viren. Viren is also somehow the vitims of misunderstnading. His mother never raised him or love him properly. Viren knew she was in love with Sid and he had enough time to stop the wedding instead he insisted her to marry him so he can make revenge on Sid. Sid is his brother not a stranger. But now he repented. I am a girl how can i forget and forgive so easely when a guy stalked me? Question is does Nivi ever love Viren or she just making excuses after excuses to covered it up her lost. Cc is making her life meserable at the same time Nivi taking away her son's happiness. When CC came to know about this she doesn't have no choise but breaking them up...just like any other mothers. When it come your own then only you would understand. On the other hand Viren is in love with her. Love is all about trust when there is no trust there is no love. It takes two sides.  This is my understanding about this little story.  I hate to see its ending like this!

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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 3:59pm | IP Logged
Hello everyone. Do you think I asked a very difficult question. I think a simple yes or no would have been sufficient. You know this is a forum where we do not know even each others spouses


Edited by samin096 - 18 May 2011 at 4:09pm
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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 4:13pm | IP Logged
Sorry I pressed like button by mistake.
 
Wow having kid does not mean anything for u? Simply wow. Having kid in a marriage is a huge thing sweetie. Go and ask somebody who is married. U just dont go and conssumate ur marriage with somebody if u dont love that person. And even S. did do it without love. What about Nivi. She consummated her marriage with love for Viren.
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Press it again and it will disappear..I know U Zarmeeno from way Before..U are totally rude to Nivaarth fans Coz U hate Sid for some reason and U deliberately taunt us..I will not fall for ur bait..Sorry..I have seen my best friends fall for it and get warnings..So please do not reply to my posts..Its a request..CCBM is almost at its fagend atleast now lets be at peace Dont personalise ..its only a serial!![/QUOTE]
 
Excuse me I'm not rude at all and please dot say that to me again. If I hate S. u are also not in love with Viren. Clearly u also hate him so please


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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 4:22pm | IP Logged
Good questions Sarah.  Is Nivi a thing to be just tossed around between brothers.  Being in love or being infatuated (because that is what I felt Nivi and Sid had for each other)  is one thing. Having married and then willingly fulfilled the vows of that marriage body and soul is another.  It is sacrosanct.


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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 4:40pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by minu2011

Good questions Sarah.  Is Nivi a thing to be just tossed around between brothers.  Being in love or being infatuated (because that is what I felt Nivi and Sid had for each other)  is one thing. Having married and then willingly fulfilled the vows of that marriage body and soul is another.  It is sacrosanct.


Minu I just think that she was just happy that S. was the first guy who gave too much attention to her and she just thought it was love. Coz if it had been a true love she would have not given up that easily for DD and it did not take her much time to get over it as well.

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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 4:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zarmeeno


Minu I just think that she was just happy that S. was the first guy who gave too much attention to her and she just thought it was love. Coz if it had been a true love she would have not given up that easily for DD and it did not take her much time to get over it as well.


Zarmeen, I agree.  It was her first experience and that too with someone she had a childhood friendship with.  If it was everything for her, she could never have sacrificed it as you say.  And with Viren too, destiny played a role all along.  They met on that bridge and sparks flew, even without their realizing, and then fate brought them across each other so many times even before they actually discovered who they were.

You know, there is a very nice segment just after the karvachauth controversy between DD, Nivi and HL.  Remember when HL takes her home and accuses her?  DD is also in the house. Then Nivi follows DD to her room and DD asks her why did you marry VIren, tell, me. I know it is not for love because you hardly knew him and met him only 2-3 times.  What Nivi said in response was very interesting. She says Di, love sees no time.  It happens when it does.  And you don't even know it kab ho jata hai.  And it was after Karvachauth that she began to look at Viren differently, move from appreciating his care for her to feeling affection and friendship for him...so it evolved, and when she finally accepted it at the Sharma house, it was very real.  and true.  Nivi is not someone who will give her body and soul and heart easily.  That kind of love for her will happen only once.

and with Sid, she has deep respect, had that infatuation, but has moved on, and even those who talk about pheras, they were never completed.  Only 4-5 pheras were done and her dupatta caught fire and she had a premonition that things will not go right and they never did.


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Posted: 18 May 2011 at 5:19pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by minu2011

Originally posted by zarmeeno


Minu I just think that she was just happy that S. was the first guy who gave too much attention to her and she just thought it was love. Coz if it had been a true love she would have not given up that easily for DD and it did not take her much time to get over it as well.


Zarmeen, I agree.  It was her first experience and that too with someone she had a childhood friendship with.  If it was everything for her, she could never have sacrificed it as you say.  And with Viren too, destiny played a role all along.  They met on that bridge and sparks flew, even without their realizing, and then fate brought them across each other so many times even before they actually discovered who they were.

You know, there is a very nice segment just after the karvachauth controversy between DD, Nivi and HL.  Remember when HL takes her home and accuses her?  DD is also in the house. Then Nivi follows DD to her room and DD asks her why did you marry VIren, tell, me. I know it is not for love because you hardly knew him and met him only 2-3 times.  What Nivi said in response was very interesting. She says Di, love sees no time.  It happens when it does.  And you don't even know it kab ho jata hai.  And it was after Karvachauth that she began to look at Viren differently, move from appreciating his care for her to feeling affection and friendship for him...so it evolved, and when she finally accepted it at the Sharma house, it was very real.  and true.  Nivi is not someone who will give her body and soul and heart easily.  That kind of love for her will happen only once.

and with Sid, she has deep respect, had that infatuation, but has moved on, and even those who talk about pheras, they were never completed.  Only 4-5 pheras were done and her dupatta caught fire and she had a premonition that things will not go right and they never did.
100% correct. How can it be marriage when the pheras were not completed. 4 or 5 pheras doe snot make a marriage. It has to be 7 pheras

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